If you have instant chemistry and can click with each other, you will not have any problems impressing each other. For the most part in the early stages , a lot of us may not discover what turns her on and it may take some exploratory ventures before those sparks can strike like lightnings and shoots through the two opposite terminals.
First impression counts and it is very important if you want to secure another date from her. Being on time is the first of a series of test where she will see how you will perform. Don't come empty handed but with a beautiful bouquet of flowers which will warmth her heart and make her feel serene and happy. Flowers have a special meaning to those ladies.
Women are always giving you tests to gauge your character and probe into your inner soul to get the clues whether you are the one for her or not. She will have to decide if she wants you as only a friend or a potential mate. This will be decided very early on the first date and that is why the men will need to impress her that he is a right potential mate.
Since she takes so much trouble to preen herself for this date, she expects you to do the same and be well groomed, on your best behaviour like a gentleman and treat her properly like a lady. You need not only have to look neat, and clean but you may have to smell sweet and manly too.
Take her to some place that is classy and dine her at the best restaurant as the ambient there will make her feel more romantic and create the right favourable mood for a long esctatic and pleasant night
This is your first date and you should not scrimp and appear cheap. To her opinion , it is not about money but by how much you value her as a person.
To impress those ladies, you will have to be a real and keen listener, keep your outer and inner ears open and really listen to what she says and do not open your mouth too much.
When you talk to her , make sure you are looking into her eyes and not on her chest . The eye is the window into her heart. It shows that you are paying rapt attention to what she is saying to you and those eyes are marvellous to look at when you like her.
Be mysterious and do not divulge too much information about yourself as she will be mystified and would like to know more of you.
Be confident or act confident and do not argue with her but just state your opposing views and let it go.Do not argue with any woman, for you will never win . She will take it personally and it will be the end of this beautiful relationship. She is entitled to her thoughts. Do not agree on everything with her too ,as this will not be a challenge to her.
After the first date , call her up within three days to talk to her and ask her for another date .If she agrees , you are on and the game starts...
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith/39d_dating_advice.html
Thursday, September 25, 2008
Regular Breast Examination Does Not Work !
HUH! What a 'fair dinkum!' We have been told that we need to regularly check our breast for lumps or for any changes . Suddenly all those examinations are fruitless and a waste of time and efforts.
According to Dr. Keith of the Sun paper, this is wrong advice! This will come as a shock to many women and pretty very confusing to learn that we have been fed the wrong information's.
If we did not have regular self examinations we may not even know of their existence and continue our life in a blissful state. If the lumps increase in size then we should be worried about it and have it checked by those professional doctors.
He is not the only doctor who said that regular breast examination is dead, in 2003 a leading woman expert also wrote the same thing in the British Medical Journal .
Does it mean that you don't have to examine your breast regularly anymore and just leave everything to nature ?
You don't have to check regularly or religiously week in and week out but you only need to be aware of any changes , sensations or pain in your breast and if you think you have a problem , then you should go and see your doctor. Heed your body signals and don't go looking for lumps when there are none or when they are harmless.
Eat a healthy diet and exercise to keep fit and healthy. If you still can get cancer, then it is fated..
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/health/health/drkeithhopcroft/article1730354.ece
Pix -courtesy
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Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Tainted Milk Scandal
There are many Malaysians working in China and many of them are fearful of what they consume over there as rumours whether true or unfounded has been circulating that many of the food products are tainted or consist of illegal substances or substitutes which can affect one's health. The perceptions is very strong among the Malaysian communities over there and they are taking no chances.
In recent years, there have been cases of over contaminated seafood,canned luncheon meat, toothpaste and a pet food ingredient tainted with melamine and lead in toys and colour pencils.
There are now 132 products which the Government has placed on the list of items suspected of having melamine, up from 53 items on Wednesday.
Anthony Hazzard, the Western Pacific director of the World Health Organisation, said yesterday that 82 per cent of the children made sick by the formula were two years old or younger.
Singapore's Agri-Food and Veterinary Authority said tests revealed traces of melamine in samples of a Yili-brand yogurt bar and Dutch Lady-brand strawberry milk manufactured in China, Dutch Lady-brand banana and honeydew flavored milk, Silang-brand potato crackers and two kinds of puffed rice balls.
Other milk products are yogurt bars to strawberry milk, biscuits and candy.
For the time being , it is better to scrutinize the labels carefully and see the contents and where the product comes from.
Malaysia's health minister said that customs officials will test all Chinese food imports, including those without milk, before allowing them to be released for sale. Can you really trust them?
More Updates - 2th Oct. 2008
In Taiwan , Golden Kestrel Co. informed the bureau that their cheese sandwich exported from Malaysia contained 29.818 parts per million of melamine.
Source:-
http://www.taiwannews.com.tw/etn/news_content.php?id=752857&lang=eng_news&cate_img=logo_world&cate_rss=WORLD_eng
http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2008/9/25/nation/20080925203429&sec=nation
http://www.namibian.com.na/2008/September/world/082BFE88C2.html
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080924/ap_on_re_as/as_china_tainted_milk
http://abcnews.go.com/International/story?id=5873427&page=1
http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2008/09/19/world/main4460016.shtml
The History Of Women
In the beginning, there was darkness and God said, "Let there be light!" He then went on to create the world with all kinds of living things and lastly he created a man from the earth and called him Adam; but He was not pleased as He found him lonely in the Garden of Eden.
When he was asleep, God took out one of his rib bones and created Eve, a woman similar in appearance but with some modifications and additions to the original prototype. God was pleased with Eve as she could be his helper and Adam would not be so lonely after all.
The man thought that since he was the first prototype, he was superior to the woman, being nature of being the first born or created. He began to lord over her because of his bigger physical build and stronger muscles .
The woman who was weaker physically was compensated with a wily and cunning brain, able to think on both sides of her brain and do multi tasking.
She allowed him to believe that he is in charge while we all know that most of the time , it is the woman who makes the decision. If you do not consult your woman , you will be the loser .
Most of the time , if you want to have a harmonious ,peaceful and lasting relationship, you should ask for her opinions even if it is a unimportant business. It shows your love and respect for her and make her feel wanted and appreciated.To her, it is the actions that counts and not always the substance.
One day some men discovered the truth that women are more superior than men and they began to trivialize everything which women did.They philosophized that they were the stronger and better beings and that women were only fit to perform all those daily menial task to cook, wash and take care of them.
It did not crossed their minds that women are as capable as them and so women were denied all those rights which those early men enjoyed. They did not like the house chores and kept those women at home who provided them with a warm and cozy home and took care of all their needs.
Thus , until this present age, women were associated with the home and became a standard gender role.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://uncyclopedia.org/wiki/Ladies
Pix-courtesy
http://th497.photobucket.com/albums/rr331/EO_star/Person/th_a_1435.jpg
Saturday, September 20, 2008
Female Pastors ? ?
If women can be good mothers, good teachers, good Prime Ministers or Presidents and good administrators, I do not see why women cannot be pastors . If they are capable of leading a nation or large corporations, why they cannot lead a congregation? Is there any difference between leading a nation and leading a flock ?
In some conservative religious groups, women are not allowed to become clergy.They may quote from the Bible to back up their claims.Since we are in this modern world where women are seeking equality in every fields, it is by right , that whoever can do the the job better will be appointed to that post irregardless of her gender .
Different religious communities have different perspectives on their clergy. You cannot change their way of thinking and since you can join any church of your own free will, you could either go to a church lead by man or a lady pastor .
There are bound to be different interpretations of the Bible which has given rise to many denominations and sects. I think we should just leave that question to God and let whoever is more gifted or have leadership qualities to be the Shepard of that flock ,be it a man or a woman.
Sometimes we forget that ministry is God's business. It's not a man's business. God gives gifts to whomever He sees fit. In many churches , there are more women than men and many women are providing the leadership and if without their involvement and contributions of women, the church would not grow.
I would not like to argue with those who are against women pastors. Let God be the judge.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.tbm.org/can_women_be_pastors.htm
http://ydr.inyork.com/ydr/living/ci_10493254
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,425565,00.html
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Fancy Some Meals Cooked With Human Breast Milk !
A restaurant in Switzerland is serving meals cooked with human breast milk and he believed that it will improve the taste, flavour and nutritious value of those meals.
He has not broken any laws in that country or for the matter , I do not think there are laws which forbid this practice.
Some restaurants maybe using this secret recipe without announcing them .
Like in those movies where horrors of horrors ,some special bun fillings are made from heavenly meat,which is another name for human parts.
Breast milk contains proteins, fats, carbohydrates and vitamins.( What's in breast milk?). It can be stored for three or four months in the fridge.
Some people may find this a controversial issue as human breast milk is for the babies and using it for cooking meals maybe in appropriate. We may have stereotype mindset about breast milk and consuming other's milk can be revolting to some.
How would he source for those milk in commercial quantities?
He posted ads looking for women donors and paying three pounds for 14 ounces of their milk. Generally women lactate only when they have given birth to an infant. Some women may have problems breastfeeding their babies or do not have sufficient amount .There are moms who breastfed their children till they are 8 or 9 years or more.
In some extreme rare case, a non pregnant woman or even a man may produce milk.It is not entirely impossible but there has been cases documented about such occurrences.
Human breast milk is sweet to taste and contains many nutritious substances and anti bodies. The problem is ,some adults may find it a psychological and emotionally offensive or repugnant act.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/2976181/Swiss-restaurant-to-serve-meals-cooked-with-human-breast-milk.html
Sunday, September 14, 2008
Sarah Palin Underqualified ???
There are a lot of posts in the blogs and media which are pro and anti Palin. Whether she is qualified to run for VP is hotly debatable. Everyone has their own opinions whether she would be a good VP or simply unqualified for the nation's second highest post and possibly the Commander -in- Chief should anything happens to McCain.
No one is perfect and to expect anyone to be an master of all trades is simply asking for the impossible. Maybe, those critics should ask God to be the President of the USA.
An experienced and knowledgeable person may not be a good administrator. Just as a brilliant soccer star may not be a good and great coach.
A lot of the problems are made by men and it is time for a woman to run the country .Perhaps they can do a better job than the men. The women in America should break the glass ceiling, for men and women are equal. Clinton was unfortunate to have to face Obama and the woman's fight for equality is now taken over by Palin.
A good many women are favorably inclined towards Governor Palin principally because she and they are of the same gender. Many women may vote on emotions and not on issues. Most Americans may be obscure about the issues and instead associate themselves with Palin.
Many women identify with Palin.Her decision to raise Trig, a Down’s syndrome baby, and support for her pregnant 17-year-old daughter Bristol have been widely praised. She is a working mom and is aware of the struggles of the ordinary working moms .
We are living in the modern times and there is no room for religious bigotry . Who are we to judge her for her actions.On whether being a 5 child mom would affect her running for the VP's job, she declared that in this modern age it was 'irrelevant. 'Whether they are presidents or VP, having a family is the normal thing and why it should be different for her ?
Palin is a breath of fresh air.She's an accomplished governor, with an over 80 percent approval rating. You simply cannot please everyone and if you get 51% that is already good enough.
Sarah Palin has become an American political superstar at a dizzying speed, with a meteoric rise in just two weeks.John McCain has found himself in the odd position of playing a supporting role to his running mate and obama having to duel with her.
She comes from the cold and harsh frontier of the USA. Like those cowboys and cow girls of the Wild! Wild! West era where the women were tough and had to handle the same chores as the men.She is tough and yet feminine , the very epitome of a modern successful woman.
With her being the first Republican woman to run for the VP post, feminism and sexism seems to come to the fore.Feminism, which should be about equal rights and equal opportunity.
A clutch of polls last week showed McCain ahead by five points in Missouri, four in Ohio, four in Virginia and eight in Florida. New Mexico and N e v a d a . Other states that had appeared to be comfortably in the Democratic camp now look precarious and the ground is shifting beneath his feet.
A poll by the Associated Press last week showed that white women preferred McCain to Obama by 53% to 40%.
Whatever Obama hurled at her , nothing seems to stick to her , she seems insulated from all his attacks and instead has to back pedal from his miss firings.
“People still don’t know what Obama stands for. There’s a perceived elitism and something aloof about him. They just don’t connect with him,” A broad section of the white population especially the women adores and worship her. She is like a hurricane sweeping through the USA.
Obama maybe an eloquent orator but sometimes too much of one thing can dull the senses and it is all about change and promises but nothing solid when his record is exposed.
African-Americans will vote for Obama, but they're only 13% of the population.Many blue-collar Americans who don't think of themselves as racist, and are on good terms with the African-Americans they know, but feel uncomfortable at the prospect of a black president.They may not tell the truth in the polls .Racialism is ever present in many modern societies.
She is only running for the VP and under McCain , she may learn the ropes and rise and shine. Why is Obama hitting out at her instead of McCain. ? It should be Joe Bidden who should engage her in debate
If this goes on , the Democrats will surely have to wait for another 4 years in 2012.
There is a real probability that it could be Palin V/S Clinton.
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/us_and_americas/us_elections/article4746999.ece
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/us_and_americas/us_elections/article4749000.ece
RPK & THERESA KOK
All right minded people will stand by you........
Candle light vigil for RPK and all those other detainees being unjustly detained under the ISA by the Malaysian police. We pray for your wellbeings and salute you for speaking up the truth without any fear or favour and your great sacrifice for a better country and a better tomorrow for all of us and our future children..
Your sacrifices will not be in vain and we must plod on until victory is assured.
We will pray for all those ISA detainees for their quick release to rejoin their families.
Reference and thanks to ;-
http://mt.m2day.org/2008/content/view/12688/84/
http://th109.photobucket.com/albums/n52/damitjanet_01/Random2Cool/th_whiteburningcandle.gif
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Britney Spears - Piece of me !
What a fantastic turnaround for Britney Spears. We were treated to a vibrant , toned , healthy and vivacious looking Britney when she collected three awards at this year's MTV awards. She picked up the best video, best pop video and best female video awards to a standing ovation.
'Wow, thank you, I'm in shock right now. I was not expecting this,' she said at the end of the night as she accepted the shiny Moonman statue for video of the year.
We can still remember her disastrous comeback attempt at the MTV Video Music Awards last year.
Daily we saw pictures of her melt downs and there was not a day that we did not read or hear about her news.Those paparazzi's were following her 24/7 and her news was always hot.
She went into seclusion for a while and trained out with her long time manager and her parents who became involved with her life again.
She is the best pop singer of this generation and we hope that we will see more of her singing talents and as well as being a good mother to her two kids.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1055392/Meet-man-transformed-Britney-shaven-headed-monster-star-MTV-awards.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1053384/Shes-Triumphant-Britney-Spears-scoops-MTV-Video-Music-Awards.html
Pix courtesy of :-
http://th535.photobucket.com/albums/ee360/rawinkorpz/th_britney-spears.gif
http://th531.photobucket.com/albums/dd356/clickzoomchelsea/th_britney.jpg
John McCain Or Barack Obama ?
Is it John McCain or Barack Obama ?
At the moment , McCain has taken a narrow lead over Obama. The election is barely less than two months away and McCain seems to be the hot favourite and with the Palin factor , the picture is complete.
He has an overwhelming advantage in experience ,with nearly three decades in Congress and appeal to those working class and suburban whites, with men and senior citizens and rural residents. A poll showed that he has eighty percent of those polled who believed he has the credentials to be a President while only forty six percent for Obama.
I would agree with this poll that Obama lacks the the critical and tactical experience factor and all that has come out are plenty of rhetorics and wishy and washy comments. It is hard to believe someone who promised much but may not deliver on those promises.
Though the Republicans under Bush is very unpopular but many believed that McCain will chart a different course. This is all about perceptions. The master stroke of McCain's campaign was in picking a younger ,vivacious and tough woman to be his VP.
http://th296.photobucket.com/albums/mm180/coke058/th_mccain.jpg
Thursday, September 11, 2008
In Memory Of This Day - Sept. 11, 2001. World Trade Center In New York.
On this day at 8:46 a.m.,19 Al-Qaeda terrorists hijacked four commercial passenger airplanes.
They crashed two of the planes into the Twin Towers in NYC, and flew a third into the Pentagon building in Virginia.
Passengers on the fourth flight attempted to retake control of the aircraft, but it crashed in a Pennsylvania field.
The devastating terrorist attacks of 9/11 were responsible for 2,974 confirmed casualties and an unknown number of injuries.
"Today marks the seventh anniversary of the day our world was broken," Mayor Michael Bloomberg said. "It lives forever in our hearts and our history, a tragedy that unites us in a common memory and a common story ... the day that began like any other and ended as none ever has."
http://encyclopedia.tfd.com/september+11%2c+2001
Pix courtesy :-
http://th207.photobucket.com/albums/bb191/simplybhargav/world/th_0b18.jpg
Palinmania - US Election 2008
Before , there was this Obama mania and now this bright star from the North, Sarah Palin ,the Governor of Alaska shone brighter and eclipse him for now. She is McCain's secret weapon unleashed upon Obama.
She may have come from a small rural town but she has the experience as a governor of a state. The other three are all senators.
http://th108.photobucket.com/albums/n13/krissacole/Sarah%20Palin/th_sarahpalinforVP.jpg
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Are You A Green Eye Monster ?
In every woman , there lurks a scary green eye monster or monsters or some evil Gremlins in some nooks and corners of her heart. Sometimes , she is able to control those monsters but at other times , the monster is able to evade her controls and manifest itself and take over her driver's seat.
Jealousy is possessive love. She wants him all to herself and is prepared to go the length to cut him off from his world. You really cannot understand why a woman would act and behave that way .
There are many incidents which are normal to a man but abnormal to a woman. Once married, the men should not look, ogle, flirt , think, chat, SMS, e-mail or hook up with any girls through whatever medium of communications . It is an impossible mission because there are millions of working woman out there.
Any of those actions will allow the green eye monster to rear it's ugly head. He should not watch porn or masturbate and if he wants to masturbate, he will have to think of her alone only and not another woman.She even wants to control his thoughts and what he can think .
The woman instead of being jealous, should learn to built trust and confidence and not to take many things personally. She should remain objective and separate issues which are not related to her personally.She has to think like a man sometimes.and do understand that the men do not think like her .
She would need to have faith and believe in her man and being honest with each other.The man chose her and married her and she should not question his love nor show her insecurity .
If she does not control the monster, it will grow into a colony of monsters and her marriage will be poisoned and die .
Reference and thanks to :-
http://newlyweds.about.com/od/gettingalong/tp/Overcome-Jealousy.htm
Your Handsome Prince Has Morphed Into An Ugly Toad !
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Tuesday, September 9, 2008
The USA Pitbull With Lipstick !
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Way up north, (North To Alaska.)
Way up north, (North To Alaska.)
North to Alaska,
They're goin' North, the rush is on.
North to Alaska,
They're goin' North, the rush is on.
This is the lyrics from the classic country song by Johnny Horton and which is one of my favourite song
..."Here’s how I look at the choice Americans face in this election:
In politics, there are some candidates who use change to promote their careers, and then there are those, like John McCain,
who use their careers to promote change.”..
Palin
Sarah Louise Heath Palin (pronounced /ˈpeɪlɪn/; born February 11, 1964) is the governor of Alaska and the Republican vice-presidential nominee in the 2008 United States presidential election.
Monday, September 8, 2008
Do Men Enjoy Being Pursued ?
"All is fair in love and war! " In this present age, it does not matter who is chasing who as long as they can build up a relationship leading to the alter.
Women are seeking equality and in this present world , those who wait and bait their man will lose in their quest to those who venture out of their shells and meet those men head on.
They do enjoy the attentions and being pursued will boost their ego's and if they like you , you will receive favourable response but if they don't like you , you would be branded a cheap and a tramp.
If there is love, then everything is sweet and spicy but if there is no love, the mouth and the heart can be as most fouled as the dirtiest gutter on Earth.
If you can click well after the first impressions, then the game is on...When love is in the air, nothing matters as long as you can be together . Someone has to be an initiator to start the ball rolling..
It only takes a spark to start a fire and it can burn like a runaway wild bush fire.....
Related topics:-
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts5470417.aspx
http://www.everywomansblog.com/does-a-woman-who-does-the-chasing-appeal-more-or-less-to-men
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Sunday, September 7, 2008
Accidents Staged By Touts ???
If somebody accidentally cuts in front of you and brakes suddenly when there is nothing in front of them and caused an accident , or the car in front of you suddenly brakes hard for no apparent reasons, you are probably a victim of a staged accident by those touts from the workshop .
It is hard to prove it but at the back of your mind, you know it was not an incidental accident but an accident by design.
Saturday, September 6, 2008
Why Men Visit Brothels ?
Thursday, September 4, 2008
The Secret Life Of A Call Girl.
She has slept with thousands and yet she is still able to keep secret of her double life.
Are you sure that it is still a secret? Probably living in her self denial dream world.
She may not know some of her customers but some of them may know her or know who she is. If she keeps all her earnings and does not spend on them , then most will not know that she is involved in the world's oldest profession.
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Discomgoogolation
This is the new disease of the 21st century. The internet age has changed the face of the Earth and many of our life's are now evolved around a computer, leading to obsessive and compulsive behaviours.
It is a cause for many divorces as their spouses spend too much time on these machines watching porn or having cyber sex or chit chatting in those chat rooms.
Do you get stressed when you cannot get online ?
If you feel stressed then you have become an internet addict. If you spend too much time on the internet and neglect your other duties or make mistakes often, you are a hopeless internet addict .
Internet addiction test;
http://www.netaddiction.com/resources/internet_addiction_test.htm
Monday, September 1, 2008
Buried Alive For Choosing Husband
This is a very sad day for all the women in the world. Five girls were kidnapped ,shot and buried alive and their crime was they wished to choose who to marry. They could not choose any one they like to marry and that such a decision was punishable by death in that terrible and backward country.
Surely no parents would want to put to death their very own daughters if they want to choose who to marry.Perhaps the unfortunate victims did not want to marry into those powerful war lords and they were kidnapped and killed under a very old traditional custom.
The Professional Seducers
They are lady killers or man killers and their prey will not know what hit them until it is too late. They have been set up by their jealous and suspecting spouse to catch their infidelities.
These women are like super spies and will do whatever to achieve their targets. They will have to sleep with their prey to make it look real. Imagine your work is just to sizzle up to a man and then get paid handsomely after the case is closed .
...she has no qualms
and is like
a Fembot,a female robot,
the Terminator kind and you are in their radar...
Even if you have not committed any infidelity , you would be tempted and many a man will not pass the beauty test. Most men will succumb and fall into the trap of those sirens.It is easier to manipulate a man than a woman because woman are more suspicious,careful and more demanding .
Women don’t have affairs for fun; for them it’s serious. They not only want sex but also love.
In Japan, there is a new breed of professional seducers and they live a double life, as a secretary during the day but a professional seducer during the night. It is a sting job. She will be like a 'Mata-hari' and will be equipped with all those spy equipments and with backup supports .
Some women wanted a divorce from their husbands but were unsuccessful and they had no other recourse but to use this tactic so that he will grant her a divorce. Or if that failed, she would have a dossier about his secret affairs and getting a divorce would be no problem for her.
Those PI companies not only dealt with those wayward spouses but also reunited those who broke up. They capitalize on their expertize in every fields and even offered personal advises .They were like a one stop agency to solve your problems in life.
For those who can afford those services, it was money worth spending.
Reference and thanks to:-
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article4619389.ece