Many teens are sexually active but their knowledge of safe sex is woefully inadequate. They may have limited or misguided knowledge about conceptions. How not to get pregnant and what are the contraceptive methods .
After they had sex, they will only start to worry to death if they will get pregnant or when they miss their periods.They get all kinds of advises and they do not know which one is true or not.
The sperm can live inside a body from three to seven days. The most fertile period for a woman is three days before and after her first day of period. To be on a safer side, one should abstain from sex seven days before and after her first day of period. They should use condoms if they want to have sex within that period.
It only take one sperm to fertilize an egg. One discharge may consist of between 250 to 350 million sperms. Even if there is no penetration ,if the sperm comes into contact with your vagina through your hands or orally, it can swim inside of you and fertilize the egg. It can even penetrate through your panties .The risk of pregnancy is very low but it can happen if you are very unlucky ,
The sperm may not survive long outside the body . It depends on the humidity of the room . If it is hot , the liquid may evaporate faster and it will die in a few minutes.If the room is cold and wet, it may survive for about an hour or more.
No contraceptive method is 100% safe and there are instances when a girl is on the pill but can still get pregnant. It is rather rare but do happens. You can even get pregnant during your period. You may ask ,'How can ? '
It did occur to some girls .There are in fact no safe days. If you don't want to get pregnant, you should take the pill or after morning pill after sex within 72 hours( the earlier the better)or use condoms which can also prevent the spread of STD's.
When the men is aroused and excited, the penis can secrete pre ejaculation fluid and they contained some amount of sperms and lubricants. You can still get pregnant if you use the withdrawal method.
Some teens thought that after having unprotected sex, they cannot get pregnant by washing their private parts or douching, drink plenty of water and pee a lot.Some think that by jumping up and down and exercising or 'sperm dancing', the sperms will fall out from their bodies.
As parents, we should teach our children about contraception's and how to prevent pregnancy and STD's. In school , they may learn only the physiological aspects but not the morality of sex.
It is better to arm them with the right knowledge because you cannot stop them from having pre marital sex. No matter how good your intentions are, those youngster with raging hormones will not listen to you about abstinence .
Reference and thanks to :-
http://tnp.sg/news/story/0,4136,203618,00.html?
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Love and sex is the glue that binds our marriage. A marriage that has plenty of love but no sex may still survive but it is not as fulfilling as having both. A marriage that is based on sex alone without love will not last.
When is your best passionate sexual decade can only be told by those who have lived through the ages. Everyone is unique and may not share the same perspective.
When you are in your teens , you think like a teen , when you are in your 20's ,30's 40's ,50's ,60's ,you will think differently and have a different perspective of life.
Women may be physically matured at the age of 16 or 17 and where most can vie to be beauty queens.However their mental maturity is slower and they are still teens .
With their physical peak and surplus energies ,they may engage actively in sex and boink like rabbits.It is the age where they want to find out all about sex .
It is a matter of practice and the techniques and skills would follow afterwards.
They maybe good in the physical aspects of love making but lack the depth of emotional and mental stimulation's of love and caring which their young and inexperience partners cannot provide.
They may have little knowledge or information or are inhabited with the wrong ideas or concepts about sex. Most of those young men do not understand about woman's sexualities and they are rather selfish and only wanted to satisfy themselves.
During the 30's and 40's when it is the age of having kids, raising them and hectic work schedules, sex is put on the back burners. Sex becomes a duty and a chore for her .For she is too tired and does not have the the mental inclinations to enjoy it.
For some women , her sexual peak is around 35 when she is neither too young or too old and she is more matured and experience .She would have shed most of her inhibitions or hangups about sex and will be able to know what she wants and enjoys.
The best sexual era is when you are in your 20's and in your 50's where you are free of those responsibilities of a married life. The earlier one will feel the physical satisfaction while the latter one will feel the emotional satisfactions.
Sex can only improve with age and practice and where there is love, sex will be beautiful and the elixir of life.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1189064/What-YOUR-best-sex-decade-Five-women-reveal-age-lives-passionate.html
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There are those who believed in premarital sex and those who don't. Today , many are involved in premarital sex and it is the norm except for those deeply religious type who abstains from premarital sex. Finding a virgin these days maybe like looking for a needle in a haystack...LOL!
It depends on who you are , where you are and your attitude and perspective on sex. Some may do it on the first date while others on the 3rd or 5th or 6th date or only in marriage.
There are the pro's and the con's about having sex too fast or too slow. No two persons are the same and the results maybe different in each case.You need to remember that men and women are not the same and they do not think alike.What is on your mind may not be the same as on his mind.
You may see it from your feminine perspectives but he being a masculine cannot see yours.You need to verbalize it together and get each others point of views to really understand why he does not act the way he should according to your perceptions of him.
If you are into casual sex, then it does not matter to you about the timing ,because you will follow your instincts and intuitions about sleeping with that guy. It could be a one night stand or a long affair which can lead to a serious relationship.
If you like him a lot and he does the same , then love may blossoms and you will find yourself attracted to him.
One thing will let to another and ending up in bed together becomes a natural progression.
When love is in the air, everything becomes so beautiful. Some girls will melt and yield to the seductive forces employed by those dudes. When she falls in love with him , she is like a speeding train with no brakes.
If he knows how to press her right buttons, she will be his for his takings. That is why those Casanova's who are very skillful in the art of seductions will get their victims.
They have the gift of the gab , the time and the manners to impress their victims. Being handsome maybe an added bonus but it is not very important.
As long as you can feel his love and commitment to you in your relationship, be it earlier or later ,sleeping with him would have less risk and pain. Otherwise, you would feel cheap , used and dirty for sleeping with that scoundrel who will disappear from your life.
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Her body is there but her mind is elsewhere. You will know when you look into her face ,eyes and her body language .
How many men open or close their eyes when they have sex ?They are so busy boinking away and feeling like they are in Heaven.
Some men have eyes but they don't see . They are blind like those night owls and they don't give a damned whether they are sleeping with some cold corpse or a living thing.
What they want is to quickly shoot their load and get over with it. It is their base and animal instincts which comes to the fore.
His brain is switched off and he turns into an animal. He becomes another person totally, the strange being that comes out from his dark side.
The journey to sexual pleasure is littered with potholes. To have sexual bliss is almost impossible . Too many disturbing thoughts goes through her mind while she is in the act of sex.
How can she enjoy sex when her mind is not fully in it? There is no passion and the sex is just tepid or bland.
Those men will need to have telepathic powers to read what is going on in her mind. Many thoughts goes through her mind. She could be thinking of many things which are unrelated to sex .
Her mind cannot relax and she will be continuously distracted from concentrating on the job.
She could be thinking and worrying about the kids,if the door is locked, making too much noise, her job problems,unpaid bills, what to eat , things to buy or what to do tomorrow.. etc." Why don't he quickly cum and finish the job,because I want to go to sleep."
Other women could be thinking or fantasizing making love to their ex's or their fav actors or singers or that handsome hunk down the road.
Then, there are others who cannot think and their minds are just blank and lie down like a corpse and want to quickly finish it by faking orgasms like some zombies.
They treat it like a chore or duty . Their men could be boring ,selfish and stingy in their love and attentions. They deserve what they get.
The men should invest more time and effort to woo their partners if they want to enjoy sex together and the women should not think of anything else during sex except sex itself.
Unfortunately , many men stopped their wooing after they got married and take her for granted.
Related topics :-
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/Lifestyle/Relationships/Man-Woman/What-not-to-think-during-sex/articleshow/4513574.cms
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In the beginning, everything was perfect and you were boinking each other like those rabbits or monkeys.
You couldn't asked for more .
Nothing could be more perfect when you could satisfy each other's thirst for sex.
Some where down the road , things began to change and the sex was not as great as before and so too was the duration.
What are you going to do when he lost the desire for you ?
He is unwilling , unable to or what ever the reasons for his lack of interest in sex with you. You will need to find out the causes and seek the help of the professional therapist or counselors.
Women and men have different sex drives. Some have very high sex drives like a Ferrari F-1 car and others have a lower sex drive like some antique boneshaker or no sex drives at all.
It is a myth that women have a lower sex drive than the men . The women were found to want sex as much as the men or more. This was a surprising discovery in this new age.
Some men do have low sex drive because they are stressed, overworked and the lack of sleep and exercise.
The wives were too busy themselves and had no time to take care of him .He was left very much to his own devices.
They are not very fit nor healthy and eat a poor diet. How could they have a high sex drive when these important factors are neglected ?
If you want your men to be a good stud, obviously , you need to feed him on a good diet and gives him plenty of rest to recharge his batteries.
Sex is not about orgasms only but for the women to feel wanted and loved and emotionally connected.
This is why the men could not understand their wives perspectives. They thought of sex as simply a physical act of pleasure and nothing more.
Their inability to perform may hurt and affect their masculinity as they realized they are not manly enough for her . To be a man , one must be virile or they are not the man.
They withdraw into their shell like the tortoise leaving their wives feeling high and dry, isolated and lonely.
You may think that most men do not have enough of sex but in reality , many women are starved of sex too.
Reference, thanks and related topic:-
http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1728520,00.html
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The office where you work and spend most of your time is a fertile ground for office romances. It is the place where you know each other more intimately and feelings can develop.
It is inevitable when you have a room where both the opposite sex mingles daily. The laws of natural attractions or carnal instincts will be present .
It may start innocently at first but it can slowly lead you further on without your realizing it and finally ending up in the bedroom and the start of a hot and sizzling affair.
It is usually the younger women falling for the older bosses. In this modern age of female emancipation's and liberalizations, many of those office piranha's are not bothered with his marital status. Single or married, they will go in for the kill and claim their prizes.
From their point of view, he is their knight in shinning armour on a white horse who will sweep them off their feet and lead them to the gateway to their fairy tale dreams.
Everything is so nice and spicy and like living in a paradise.Their initial objections will soon give way to pleasure and delight in their new loving and intimate relationship.
Stolen affairs are always exciting and enjoyable. She does not know that or realize that her sweet dreams will be just empty dreams only.
Even if she realizes it , she is powerless to extradite herself from that mess. She is like being swept away by the tidal waves of loves ,lies and deceits and finally drowns in the sea of bitterness .
For the boss who is most probably married and have kids, she is an escapade from his dull , boring and married life. He will never leave his wife for you and all he can do is to cheat and lie to you and make plenty of promises which will never be kept.
If you are thinking that you can rise faster in your career by sleeping with the boss, you will sadly be disappointed to find out that you have been manipulated ,used and will be abandoned in the end.
If your boss is single and available , there is a chance that you maybe able to hook him up and land the big catch.
Sleeping with the boss is fraught with dangers.You will have to do a fine balancing act and not fall prey to the wolves in sheep's skin.
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Most women are guilty of faking it and some even does not know what is it.You really cannot blame them .Many women do not know what they need or want in order to experience an orgasm.The man's lack of experience or knowledge and not knowing how to stimulate their partners.
What is female orgasm?
The climax or peak of sexual pleasure which occurs during sexual activity and which in males may include ejaculation and in females vaginal contractions. ( http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/orgasm )
For some traditional thinking women, as long as she helps him to release his load, her duties is done .
Whether she finds pleasure in it for herself or not , it does not matter as long as she can pleases him and makes him satisfied .
Thus , she often fakes it to make him feel good and that he is a good lover.
She expects him to know those tricks but somehow or rather cannot bring herself to teach him where are her erogenous zones or do those actions which will pleasure her the most.
He will have to discover it himself and without her help and guidance will never find those mysteries by himself in a 100 years.
Some women can reach orgasm by themselves but unable to achieve it with their partners.
There are others who would find greater heights of pleasure by using those sex toys like a vibrator. Getting him to accept it together may be a problem.
Not all women are the same. She will have to teach him where to press those buttons because the female orgasms is a complex mix of physical, emotional and mental stimuli. It would take lots of practice to get it perfect.
She does not understands her own sexuality and seldom talks or share about it intimately with anyone. It is a taboo or a shame to talk openly about it. It can be sinful to some others.
She is a good girl cum housewife and not a courtesan . If she becomes too progressive in her sexual exploits, her husband may suspect her past and associate it with those hookers.
Want to stop faking it and enjoy a real orgasm ?
You would need to discover and share those secrets together . Let go off those inhibitions and sex myths . There is no right or wrong . Be imaginative and increase your erotic fantasy's.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1180226/Rowan-Pellings-sex-advice-column-Ive-orgasm-boyfriend.html
Related topic
http://english.pravda.ru/science/health/18-09-2006/84501-orgasm-0
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"Men often gives love for sex , women often gives sex for love ."
Love is like pouring your cup of love into her cup and when it overflows, she will pour it back into your cup.
If you want to have sex with a good woman , you will need to shower your love on her and make her feel that she is the most important person in your life.
You need to plant the seed of love and let it germinate in her heart. Water it and let the sunshine into her life before you can see her flowers bloom for you.
A man can have sex any time , anywhere and with anybody or with anything without emotions.
A woman is wired differently from a man . She has to deal with her raw and complicated emotions and the fear of pregnancy.
For her to enjoy sex, she will need to feel loved and wanted. If these conditions are not present , she will resent or hate the sex as she is no better than a paid whore or like a utensil solely for your pleasure. She feels like she is being used and taken advantage off.
With the new sexual revolution , women are freed from those age old taboos and inhibitions . It is now fair game to both the sexes.
Women loves sex as much as men does. They seldom talk about it except when they are with their own kinds.
Do women hate sex ?
Not if you know the right ingredients and to avoid all those booby traps.
If your woman hates sex, then there is something not right with you.
If you do not know how to treat a lady the right and proper way , don't blame her for hating sex. You make her feel like a slut . You either sucks or you need to register at kindergarten class.
Women do enjoy sex and she will be begging for more if you have done your homework.
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Do you moan ,groan, scream , shout and bang the bed while love making ?
You can be jailed for making excessive noises during love making if you live in the UK. Even if you on the T.V too loud can land you in troubles in the UK.
In other places, the law may not take any actions and you either have to bear with it or move to a new location.
This is considered anti social behaviour. She received warnings but ignored them and have landed in jail
She may love doing that but those noises can be a torture and very irritating to to others who live nearby.
If she lives alone in a deserted place, she could shout all she wants or maybe she should sound proof her room.
Some do enjoy it while many would rather prefer silence and quietness in the still of the night.
It can be an embarrassment when the noise is too loud and disturbs others.
Women are particularly sensitive about being too loud and letting others know what she is doing at that moment.
She might worry about whether the door is locked and is afraid that the children might just walk in while they were doing it.
She is also afraid of the sound levels and will control her partner to tone down when he goes overboard.
Her mind cannot simply concentrate on the love making and though physically they are there but their minds are else where.
It is like sex is only for his enjoyment while they feel that it is a duty for them .
This is particularly true for the older generations or our mother's generations.The younger generations may not share their mother's perspective.
You can moan , groan , shout ,scream and bang while having sex. Some may just emit soft moans and squeals of delights. Some will just turn off their speakers for fear of others who may hear them making love.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.news.com.au/dailytelegraph/story/0,22049,25397430-5001021,00.html
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This must be a very disconcerting news to many Malaysian parents.Their underage teenage girls are engaging in sex to spite them for their neglect or lack of love.
Many underage teenage girls are indulging in sex worldwide and this is probably due to the computer age and the lack of parental guidance and control .
The world is evolving quickly and as each succeeding generations comes,the standards and morality changes too.Traditional concepts and perspectives become history.
It is illegal and against the law to have sex with an under 16 year old girl in many countries and this is considered statutory rape even if the girl gives her consent.
Most parents are too busy with work and left their children to their own devices .
Some of them have rebelled against their parents for their neglect, emotional and physical abuses or their overtly strict upbringing.
When they did not get the love from their parents, they befriended those boys who lavish upon them praises , affections and treated them with pseudo respect .
Being young and immature, they did not know that those equally immature boys were only interested in having sex with them or treat them like objects only.
Love and emotions are very powerful forces and it is very difficult to control them. They do not know what they are dealing with and many will be victims of the circumstances .
They will have sex sooner or later either through curiosity or their stupidity or being forced upon by those boys who took advantage of their innocence and weaknesses.
Being ignorant and lacking in knowledge, they will engage in unsafe sex and get pregnant and subsequently having numerous abortions.
There are also syndicates who employ those young and handsome boys to woo those teenage girls to fall in love with them.
They would lavish them with love and expensive gifts and holidays and once those girls were hooked, they would sell her into prostitution.
Parents should take more interest and concern for their children. Do not be a money making machine only for there are many other things in life which also require your immediate attentions.
Be a mother, father and a friend and bring yourself down to their levels and see through their eyes.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://news.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne%2BNews/Crime/Story/A1Story20090427-137614.html
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Men think of sex every 52 seconds and some say every 7 seconds or nano seconds . LOL ! I don't know how far this is the truth.
They cannot help it because their minds are run on testosterone and this fertile hormone made them generate all those sexy thoughts in their brains.
Their brains cannot say no to those sexy thoughts . It pops in when all his senses are distracted and homes in on the trails and scents left by the females.
Not all men are out for sex only. It is wrong to infer that all what men want from woman is only sex .
There are some good men out there who wants a woman for more than sex only. It may be like looking for a golden needle under the oceans.LOL!
There are the good , the bad and the ugly one's.
They may not want sex at that moment but if they are served on a platter , it would be very hard for them to resist. Most men will fail the beauty trap.
Some men may think that women want or desire sex from them when what they wanted was love and understandings.
Men are just simple creatures and think with a single track mind.Sometimes they have difficulties reading your body language .
The way you dress, talk , smile and tease him may give him a wrong signal that you are begging for him to come on. She may not be aware that she is giving him the wrong signals.
If you are going to the bars and night clubs to look for men ,surely you do not expect them not to think of sex.
They are out there for a happy time with booze and sometimes drugs to keep them high and lose their shyness.
Many men do think of sex often but a good man will be able to control his lusty thoughts or base instincts.
He is only human and when he is in a particular situation, he is tempted beyond his control and succumbed to it.
Women should be careful not to be in a situation where they cannot control the events.
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Some day you will be hit with this question from your partner and it pays to be prepared for this eventuality.
Most men worry about their penises.Will it be long enough , big enough and hard enough to satisfy and make her happy ?
Ever since they were small they would compare them with their friends and see who has got the biggest, longest or hardest and who could shoot the furthest.
The average man's penis is adequate for the job and how he uses it ,is more important than the size .
It is the technique in making the women orgasm and the ability to maintain their hardness is what counts. If a workman does not have the skills, a good tool will go to waste. It is no fun when they are not hard enough .
Due to their insecurities , self consciousness and ego , some of them may ask for their partner's opinion.
Should you tell him the truth or lie through your teeth?
There are some who says that 'SIZE 'does not matter because most women are reticent about it.
For some , size does matter as it fits in snugly and there is enough stimulation's.
If theirs is a skinny , weeny , little , teeny one's, then they would not feel anything and won't even know if it is inside of them or not.
You should watch out how you respond to that question . The men are very sensitive when it comes to their penis, performance or money.
Handle with delicate care for their feelings can be very brittle like thin glass and easily shattered.
You can tell him that his size is great and just right for you . Too big would be painful and too long is redundant as you cannot accommodate all of it.
Tell him that he is fantastic in bed and that you are satisfied .They need to be taught what are the things that will increase your pleasures.
Don't expect the men to know all for each and every woman reacts differently.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.emandlo.com/2009/03/wise-guys-if-he-asks-about-size-can-i-tell-him-the-truth/#comments
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There is now a new breed of female predators ,younger,nubile ,more sexually aggressive,domineering and highly attractive .
It is not only the cougars that are after the younger boys, but the mean and younger hyenas that is on a predatory prowl for the 'meat' of those young men.
It is quite common in some societies, that the girls would daringly engage in sex or wild and kinky acts in front of a crowd.
Move over cougars, the hyenas are taking over the world. The cougars are the older women dating those younger men.
The hyenas are like those Succubus
(plural succubi) which is a demon who takes the form of a highly attractive woman to seduce men in their dreams.
It is like being possessed by a she devil or being haunted by her.
They draw their energy from the men until the point of exhaustion or death to the victim.
The hyenas are not very prevalent yet but there are evidence of their existence and their population maybe growing.
Today's females are having sex earlier and have no emotional hangovers or feel guilty about it.
It is like a game to them and they will collect scores for the number of virgin boys they deflowered or the number of boys they have slept with.
They place bets with each other to see who can score the highest and win.
This is the new equality between the sexes.The girls are becoming like the boys but are being more aggressive and more terrorizing.
They are learning to objectify the boys like what the boys are doing to the girls and treat them simply like an object to play and then to discard after it's usefulness has expired.
It is the pressure of living in this modern, culturally confusing and sex obsessed world and where all those traditional female role modals are being replaced with the female version of the male aggression.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.doctorjennforgirls.com/press-room/meet-the-hyenas/
http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/feature/2009/04/17/teenage_hyenas/index.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Succubus
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It is no big deal to some modern and liberated females, for whether you sleep with him on the first date or not. They are not bothered with the consequences or they are immune from the after effects.
It just happens after an enjoyable and happy evening .Some highly sexed females have no qualms about getting what they wanted from life.After all, this is the year 2009 and sex is not the prerogative of only the males.
Sometimes it is just circumstances and those men are very handsome and glib with their tongues.He is a lady killer who seduces the women and she falls for his trap.
It is better to know early and not waste too much time and efforts in a soon to be a failed relationship.If he is into you , he will stick around for more. You would then know his true colours whether he is the one for you or just for the sex alone .
If he is not interested or his motive is only to bed you he will just disappear after his conquest and will not call again.
Most guys view women as a conquest and once they have captured their prey ,they may lose interest and go looking for another new target.
Conservative females may feel that it is better to withhold the sex until the third or fourth date because to have sex on the first date is cheap.
If she is easily taken, the men may feel that the chase is too easy and that she is of loose character.
They may think that she is most probably having sex with all her male friends.The harder the chase , the more she is highly valued in his eyes.
They may just want to play around with her with no intentions of getting married.She becomes his plaything only.
For some , withholding sex can weed out those pretenders to the throne and only those who are for real will get to cross the finishing line.
If and when they break up, the girls may feel dirty , cheap , used and sometimes stupid. In the worst scenario , he may give her the craps or make her pregnant and her world would collapse.
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Do you use sex as a bargaining chip or as a reward or punishment ?
Generally but with exceptions, women tend to use her sex to reward or punish her partner.They may deny it but subconsciously they may not be aware of their actions..
When she is satisfied and contented, she would gladly give her favours to her partner. When she does not get her way or felt unloved, she would deny him and send him to live in the dog house to teach him a lesson.
In the past ,women would use their sex weapon while men would use the financial weapon to get what they wanted from their partners.
Today ,this is not working anymore as some women have considerable financial clout and the men do not have anymore bargaining chips.
Do women have any valid reasons to withhold sex from their partners ?
In some society, sex is a taboo during her menstruation period as it is considered unclean. They would abstain from sex during this time.
A scientific study have found that women are more 'frisky' during this period and sex is more enjoyable and stimulating.It would take the men to get used to seeing those strawberry jams .
When you have a serious argument with her, she would most probably be put off and if you come on forcefully , she will not enjoy the sex session ,but may feel violated or puke.
Women have a tendency to take any criticisms or arguments personally. They have this built in mechanism and if you want to be in her good books, you will need to resolve any thorny issues or differences and agree with her quickly before the sun goes down.It is not about who is right or wrong but the men should give way to her to make her feel better.
She will eventually know that she was in the wrong but will not admit it. It is about pride and her vanity. She does not like to be told that she was wrong.
In the Bible, we should not withhold sex to our partners unless we are sick or unwell. Our body belongs to our partners after marriage and we are one.Sex should not be used as a weapon to control or manipulate our partners.
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Two men engaging in a homosexual sex act in the lift and around the lift area in the dead of the night occurred recently and the video was posted online .
Why do they want to commit such an indecent act in the public?
Were they mentally sound or conscious of their infamous deeds.
Is it because of their exhibitionist nature or they wanted to to get famous or just to shock the nation.We do not know the real reasons and we can only speculate.
Anyone who does it need to have his head examined.
Such incidents are prevalent and not worth mentioning in the West but to happen in that Asian country is a bit shocking indeed. It is a sign of the times.
I remembered reading a news about a similar case from UK sometime back, where the woman with a kid was told to avoid walking there because those homosexuals were doing it behind the bushes.It was not against the law in that country.
They have laws against homophobia (Homosexuals + phobia = homophobia =prejudice against (fear or dislike of) homosexual people and homosexuality )
It is their right to do whatever they wanted with their own bodies in the secret of the locked bedroom or in private .
To exhibit in a public place , video and posted in the internet is rather a sham and challenges one's concept of a decent, respectable and law abiding country.
Perhaps these people are too ahead of their times while the whole country is still considered a conservative Asian society.
There are all kinds of weird and perverse things in the internet . Those two's antics looks mild and will only shock those who have never seen it before. That it was performed in a public place is definitely improper and indecent.
Sodomy is a crime in Malaysia. It still has that archaic law and you can be put into prison for 20 years.Even consensual oral sex is against the law .
Some of us may have seen those graphic pictures and feel outraged .It is grossly offensive to decency and morality , but who are we to judge those who engage in the same sex.
Reference and thanks:-
http://tnp.sg/news/story/0,4136,199528,00.html?
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Woman's body comes in all shapes and sizes.Most men do not often get to see a real nude woman's body unless they are married or they party often and sleep around.
Most of the men do view naked woman from porn's online,DVD's or from sex magazines.
It is not the same thing because those women are not the average kind of woman.Their bodies are erotically engineered to appeal to the fantasies of men.
Women grow up with lots of inhibitions about their sexualities and their bodies.
It is not easy to dismantle all those mental roadblocks and only time will make her shed all those inhibitions .
Most women are harsh critics of their own bodies and even if they have a near perfect figure, they will still feel inadequate and inferior with some parts of her body.
They should know that everyone is unique and different and need to learn to appreciate and love and be proud of their own body.
They may not have a super model body and there is nothing to be ashamed off. How many men have the body like David Beckham?
Women should learn to flaunt their beautiful bodies. Make love not in complete darkness but in dim lights or better still with the lights on. He needs to see the whole you and satisfy his inner cravings .
Men have eyes but they do not have those critical and hawkish eyes like women who can see every flaws in another woman.
Though they have eyes, yet they see not and any man who criticizes her physical imperfections speaks not from true love.
True love is blind and whether her body is thin or fat , he will love her just the same.
If you are not happy with your body , go to the gym or exercise regularly which will tone up your body , reduce your size and increase your confidence and self esteem. You will look good, feel good , more healthy and your sex life would be sizzling hot!
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1165716/Rowan-Pellings-sex-advice-column-I-wont-make-love-light-on.html?ITO=1490
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An 18 year old Singaporean girl has advertised her services in an adult forum on the internet so that she will be able to raise funds to pay for her school fees.
Lately, there has been an explosion of such news about Singaporean girls going nude and posting their pictures online.
This reminds me of another famous case of a Malaysian child maths prodigy ,M/s Sufiah Yusof who at 13 went to Oxford University in the UK and later graduate to be a high class hooker.
She was working as a £130-an-hour prostitute while studying for a masters in economics.
Is it the glamorous life and the lucrative takings which pulled them to it like flies attracted to those bright lights?
She might go full time when she discovers that her beauty is worth much more than her intellect.
Why study so hard for a degree when you only get pittance and not being able to enjoy the life on the fast lane?
Even some graduates moonlight as social escorts to fast track and get what they wanted in life.
It is very fortunate in the present circumstances for the Malaysians to be able to get loans easily for further studies. Otherwise, there would be similar cases like her which may go unreported.
Sometimes it is quite difficult to know the truth as you cannot ascertain whether what you see is what you get. There are so many scams online .
Reference and thanks to :-
http://sjsandteam.wordpress.com/2009/04/15/singaporean-teenager-sells-body-to-pay-feescustomers-include-singapore-edison-chen/
http://www.newsoftheworld.co.uk/news/article3216.ece
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Before, it was unheard off but in today's world , there are so many cases of teachers having relationship with their pupils . It is the new age and a sign of the times .
There are teachers who have sexual relationship with their pupils and others baring their bodies or other inappropriate acts like posing their nude or scantily pixs in the internet.
After the break out of such cases , the teachers are trained to recognize those signs and how to handle those issues of teacher-pupil relationships.
It is legally and morally wrong to have sex with minors and even worse , if they are your students. Those teenage boys at 14 or 15 are raging bulls with their hormones at full blast while having the immaturity of an adolescent.
At this time, they are the most naughtiest , daring and devil may not care attitudes.
Most teachers are females and young , freshed from their colleges and they sometimes dressed inappropriately or sometimes they sit or stand suggestively which they may not be aware off.
When we were at that age, we secretly admired all those teachers and dreamed of them. They were just dreams and imaginations and some had a secret crushed on their teachers.Some teachers waited till their students were off age and then married them.
Those female teacher may have a psychological problem . They slept with those teens which is against the law. It is called statutory rape of a minor even if the boy consents.
We may never understand what goes on in that teacher's mind. Why she would do that and jeopardize her career and her life?
There was a case where a married teacher with children committed this sin with her student and she had to go to jail .
Why did she threw away her life for this student? What can that student offer her?
These teachers may have relationship problems in their life and they became irrational and find solace in those teen students which lead to a sexual exploitations.
Honestly, when one cannot think straight , this will happen.Most of those teachers used their students to escape from their problems at home with their husbands or family.
She does not know what she was doing or the devil possessed her.
Teaching is a very stressful job with today's student being more rowdy and uncontrollable . As each succeeding generations come , the students are becoming more intelligent and more matured than the last generations.
credit and special thanks to abcnews ;-
http://www.abcnews.go.com/TheLaw/wireStory?id=3569145
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Many of today's teens do not receive sex education and are not aware of the dangers of STD's or STI's or knowledgeable about conceptions . As a result ,there is a phenomenal rise in the spread of STD's and unwanted abortions in the world around us.
A sexually transmitted disease (STD) or venereal disease (VD), is an illness due to the transmission between humans or animals by means of sexual contact, including vaginal intercourse, oral sex, and anal sex. All types of sexual activity between two people carry some STD risk.
It can also be transmitted via the use of an IV drug needle after its use by an infected person,tattoo's, blood transfusions, as well as through childbirth or breastfeeding. Some of these STD are chlamydia, gonorrhea, genital herpes,gonorrhea , syphilis and AIDS which has no cure at the present.
There are an estimated 33 million people with AIDS worldwide.Nearly half of all AIDS cases in the U.S. involve people 13 to 24 years of age. Many people are HIV positive and do not know it. The incubation period is six months. Some people may have aids and do not suffer any ill effects in the initial stages.
Many uninformed people think that they can get the STD's only from vaginal sex , not knowing that they are still at risk when they engage in "noncoital" sexual activities such as oral sex, mutual masturbation and anal sex .
Those who visit prostitutes , most often do not use condoms and they do not seemed concern for their own health.They think that getting AIDS is like striking the lottery and when they got it , they regretted and became remorseful .
The age for sex is getting younger and younger through each succeeding generations and it is not surprising that even 12 years old or below are asking or have already engaged in the sex acts.The kids are getting smarter and can learn from the internet and all those chat groups and forums online.
Most people, including adolescents, are unlikely to use condoms during oral sex, which places them at risk for acquiring an STD.
The modern day society is permissive and very open and having too many partners is another factor for the spread of STD's. It will be like playing the game of musical chairs and if you are unlucky you will get the STD.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexually_transmitted_disease
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