No man can ever understands a woman and neither can a woman understands a man.
They are both from a different planet. Men are from Mars and women are from Venus. The most often quoted phrase used to denote their divergent and irreconcilable differences.
Women are just not only too confusing to a man but just as confused themselves.
They cannot really understand their own selves and how can a man understands them. They can be wishy-washy like the sands on the beaches. Each time a wave comes onshore, the landscape changes.
A 'Yes' can be a 'Yes' or a 'No' They say one thing and mean another. The head says, 'No' but the heart says. ' Yes '
Which is which ? Listen to the head or listen to the heart? Hit the right answers and you will be rewarded.
Got the wrong one's and you will be in her cooler. It is quite frustrating in this guessing game. Only through trials and errors will you sharpen you marksmanship.
Understanding a woman is not what comes out of her mouth but what is in her heart. You will need to look into her eyes and see into her heart .It is not about hearing her words but feeling her out. You need to be a psychic or have telepathic powers... LOL!
Her words are simple and plain but beware , appearance can be deceptive. What you hear is not what you get .
You not only have to sieve and analyze those words from her but must master the art of reading her body signals. Her words are like a jungle , full of booby traps , predators and Alien beings.
It is alright to ignore her words or advice sometimes but to ignore her body language would be tantamount to pressing your own self destruct button.
Adios! Hasta la vista! Babe!
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Men think of sex every 52 seconds and some say every 7 seconds or nano seconds . LOL ! I don't know how far this is the truth.
They cannot help it because their minds are run on testosterone and this fertile hormone made them generate all those sexy thoughts in their brains.
Their brains cannot say no to those sexy thoughts . It pops in when all his senses are distracted and homes in on the trails and scents left by the females.
Not all men are out for sex only. It is wrong to infer that all what men want from woman is only sex .
There are some good men out there who wants a woman for more than sex only. It may be like looking for a golden needle under the oceans.LOL!
There are the good , the bad and the ugly one's.
They may not want sex at that moment but if they are served on a platter , it would be very hard for them to resist. Most men will fail the beauty trap.
Some men may think that women want or desire sex from them when what they wanted was love and understandings.
Men are just simple creatures and think with a single track mind.Sometimes they have difficulties reading your body language .
The way you dress, talk , smile and tease him may give him a wrong signal that you are begging for him to come on. She may not be aware that she is giving him the wrong signals.
If you are going to the bars and night clubs to look for men ,surely you do not expect them not to think of sex.
They are out there for a happy time with booze and sometimes drugs to keep them high and lose their shyness.
Many men do think of sex often but a good man will be able to control his lusty thoughts or base instincts.
He is only human and when he is in a particular situation, he is tempted beyond his control and succumbed to it.
Women should be careful not to be in a situation where they cannot control the events.
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If you have instant chemistry and can click with each other, you will not have any problems impressing each other. For the most part in the early stages , a lot of us may not discover what turns her on and it may take some exploratory ventures before those sparks can strike like lightnings and shoots through the two opposite terminals.
First impression counts and it is very important if you want to secure another date from her. Being on time is the first of a series of test where she will see how you will perform. Don't come empty handed but with a beautiful bouquet of flowers which will warmth her heart and make her feel serene and happy. Flowers have a special meaning to those ladies.
Women are always giving you tests to gauge your character and probe into your inner soul to get the clues whether you are the one for her or not. She will have to decide if she wants you as only a friend or a potential mate. This will be decided very early on the first date and that is why the men will need to impress her that he is a right potential mate.
Since she takes so much trouble to preen herself for this date, she expects you to do the same and be well groomed, on your best behaviour like a gentleman and treat her properly like a lady. You need not only have to look neat, and clean but you may have to smell sweet and manly too.
Take her to some place that is classy and dine her at the best restaurant as the ambient there will make her feel more romantic and create the right favourable mood for a long esctatic and pleasant night
This is your first date and you should not scrimp and appear cheap. To her opinion , it is not about money but by how much you value her as a person.
To impress those ladies, you will have to be a real and keen listener, keep your outer and inner ears open and really listen to what she says and do not open your mouth too much.
When you talk to her , make sure you are looking into her eyes and not on her chest . The eye is the window into her heart. It shows that you are paying rapt attention to what she is saying to you and those eyes are marvellous to look at when you like her.
Be mysterious and do not divulge too much information about yourself as she will be mystified and would like to know more of you.
Be confident or act confident and do not argue with her but just state your opposing views and let it go.Do not argue with any woman, for you will never win . She will take it personally and it will be the end of this beautiful relationship. She is entitled to her thoughts. Do not agree on everything with her too ,as this will not be a challenge to her.
After the first date , call her up within three days to talk to her and ask her for another date .If she agrees , you are on and the game starts...
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In his new book, "Treat Them Mean And Keep Them Keen", Gerry Stergiopoulos has fine tuned the art of seducing a man. He is a gay .
Any tips about getting the right man is always welcome and it is interesting to know what he has written. Knowing where the fault lies is very important.
Why are you still single and unattached?
Is it your fault or blame it on the men or circumstances or destiny ? One cannot absolve oneself and put all the blame on others because you create your own happiness and is the captain of your own ship.
External forces may influence you but if you do not want to go where you do not like, no one can force you . If your girlfriend tells you that it is not your fault , you should not believe it. It maybe a comforting thought and soothe your soul but in reality , you need to look deeper and examine your inner self.
It is not that you do not have opportunities coming along your way , but you did not take advantage of them. Opportunities may not be aplenty and there could only be a few in your life time.
Men are just simple creatures and if you cannot ' tame or domesticate' them, then you do not have a chance of having a relationship which could lead to marriage with them.
They have not changed in their style since the prehistoric dinosaur age. They have the primitive hunter instincts even though they wear a smart suit these days. You will need to understand their behaviours and use the right tactics to entrap them.
The title of his book ,"Treat them mean.." can give a wrong perceptions as no one in the right frame of mind would want to treat their b/f in a very mean way . It would force their b/f to run away or look for another.
I hope after reading his extracts from his book, you would have a better insight into how a man ticks and take the appropriate actions . No two men are the same and you will need to modify and adept it according to your b/f's personality.
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