Physical attractions is a very powerful magnetic force.It is like a strong tractor beam that will pull your attentions to them.You cannot avoid it. We are naturally attracted to beautiful people.
We will feel intimidated initially when we come across a person who is extremely beautiful or handsome. To say that we are not intimidated at all is to delude oneself. For some , even looking at them can send them the 'shivers.'
It is not just beauty alone that we are intimidated but it can also be wealth and fame too.
Why are your hands shaking, your voice breaking or stuttering , your legs quivering and your heart and pulse beating at a frantic pace ?
Why do you suddenly become self conscious of how you walk or act? You have a funny sensation of your gait.You don't know why you felt that way about your manner of walking. It feels strange all of a sudden..LOL!
Your brain doesn't seem to function and you get tongue-tied just thinking about what you want to say to her for fear of offending her sensibilities.
It affects both the guys and the girls. When someone is more beautiful or handsome than us, we will feel intimidated.
When a guy see's a very beautiful, hot and sexy girl,he will feel intimidated because he will think that she will have many male admirers because she is probably very popular. He may think that he is just an average guy and is not good enough for her .He fears rejection from her.
But the truth is sometimes those beautiful girls are sitting at home and waiting to be asked out. It will be the players who would dare to invite them out and leave them in the end.
For the girls,they not only have to face the intimidation's from the guys but also from their own kind. If they know another gorgeous girl is interested in him,they may give him up without trying.
They may feel that they are not pretty enough and he would not be interested in them. Some will act 'cool' towards those guys.
We feel more comfortable talking and interacting with an average looking guy.
How can you overcome those intimidation's ?
They may look more beautiful or handsome than you but everyone has their uniqueness.Do not give them too much 'worth.' They are after all humans too and not angels or God.They came from a better genes and a person is not judged on the physical beauty alone. When you have this mindset, you will not be awed by their striking beauties.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.divaasia.com/article/4062
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Men find the homely shape of the girl-next-door more appealing than the 'perfect' proportions of models and centerfolds, a study found.
Women come in all shapes and sizes,curvy ,hourglass figure (Cola bottles) ,skinny size 'zero's (walking stick),athletic types , long-legged, big-chested 'Barbies',plumb(oil drum)and slim.
For the average male, they do not have high aspirations of looking for a 'perfect female.' An average female with the statistics, a 5ft 4in ,30in waist and 40in hips and who wears a size 14.
I believed that the face and the eyes are the most important features of a person because it can reveal the emotions or the soul of a person. The other parts of the body are rather static and cannot exhibit any or have limited emotions.
Her face and smile may launch a thousand ships and you will always remember her face and her smile which will never change even when she ages. It is the face that you will like and grow fond off as time elapsed.
Women should smile more often ,as a smile can brighten and make her face pleasant,captivating, beautiful and younger looking.A beautiful face is a thing of beauty but has no depth unless it is accompanied by a corresponding beautiful smile.
An average girl with an average face can be beautiful too when she smiles sweetly as the beauty that originates from the inside is sweeter than a smile that is only skin deep.Her personality will shine through her face.
She may not capture his attention on first look but her smile will surely melt his heart. The joy and the smile on her face is the most beautiful thing to admire and cherish.It warmth's the heart and creates those lovely feelings towards the smiler.
If you have an average figure, there is nothing to fret about. If a man loves you , he would be blind to your faults and whether you are skinny or fat, it would not matter to him at all.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.news.com.au/dailytelegraph/story/0,22049,25620551-5006007,00.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1192142/Gentlemen-prefer-Miss-Average-The-perfect-centrefold-body-ousted-homely-shape-girl-door-new-study.html
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There are a growing number of men who want to look good by going under the knife.Previously it was the women only but the fad has spread to the men too.
They are going for double eyelids, higher noses, sharper chins, narrower faces,bigger pecs and liposuction's.
Having a natural look is deemed to be full of imperfections. Many want to look like their idols and plastic surgery is the only way they can reshaped their faces or bodies.
The quest for perfections can be a never ending road because once they started on this journey, it will lead them further and further into the irrational and delusional world of make belief's.
They are like mental cases or have psychological disorders , requiring psychological help rather than those plastic surgeries.
There was a recent case of a plastic surgery addicted Korean woman who injected cooking oil into her face after the surgeons refused to operate anymore on her.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/3439638/Cosmetic-surgery-addict-injected-cooking-oil-into-her-own-face.html
This can develop into a compulsive and obsessive behavior. All surgery is not without risk and the end results may not be what is expected. Disfigurement is a possibility and it can be forever without any avenue to turn back the process.We all read and know about Michael Jackson and his nose.
If you are thinking of trying to improve your life, career or marriage prospects by plastic surgery , think hard and long. The moment you step into that world , you will not be able to control yourself and you will fall into the misguided , fake and unnatural world
Suggested readings :-
http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/life/2008-12/31/content_7357440.htm
http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/life/2008-12/31/content_7357434.htm
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What you see is not what you get. With today's technological advances, there are many accessories or cosmetic surgeries which can help a girl to look gorgeous or glamourous. A nip here ,a tug there and all the new modern medical science to help her to obtain the perfect figure.
Some day the girl you marry may turn out to have false boobs, false crevices, false eyelashes, false bottom, false teeth, white hair, hairless ,freckled face or hidden scars. Oops! I can leave that to your imaginations.
When you are in love, you think she is the most beautiful person on Earth and you will not notice those false parts as she cleverly conceals them from you.
You can call it a 'trick' or an art of deceptions but a 'cheat', that is too harsh a word.
A survey has found that the vast majority of the female population are happy to resort to tricks to enhance their beauty. They are willing to pay or spend a major part of their salary on those accessories or procedures.
The most in demand is breast augmentations.Having a bigger and noticeable boob which 'jinggles' will increase their self esteem and confidence .
Some of them do fork out a few thousands for a space suit underwear which when worn will make them look slimmer . Beauty comes first. Such is the expectations which they feel a need to conform to the present beauty standards.
For those who cannot afford the expensive cosmetic breast uplift, there is the push-up bras or wonder bras which accentuated their curves and make their boobs fuller.Sometimes, masking tapes are use to create the cleavage .Not many women are well endowed and those who are not have to resort to this method. Before the advent of pushed up bras, women had to use stockings or tissues to fill up those crevices.
We are actually created perfect in God's eye and do not have to create an artificial image projected by those media hypes. All those beauty aids are just vanities and a few years down the road, they will be gone and covered with fats .
The beauty that is everlasting comes from the inside of your heart.For we all know beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/3084401/Nine-in-10-women-cheat-to-look-good.html
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