How To Get The Man Of Your Dreams And Keep Him.

In his new book, "Treat Them Mean And Keep Them Keen", Gerry Stergiopoulos has fine tuned the art of seducing a man. He is a gay .

Any tips about getting the right man is always welcome and it is interesting to know what he has written. Knowing where the fault lies is very important.



Why are you still single and unattached?

Is it your fault or blame it on the men or circumstances or destiny ? One cannot absolve  oneself and put all the blame on others because you create your own happiness and is the captain of your own ship.

External forces may influence you but if you do not want to go where you do not like, no one can force you . If your girlfriend tells you that it is not your fault , you should not believe it. It maybe a comforting thought and soothe your soul but in reality , you need to look deeper and examine  your inner self.

It is not that you do not have opportunities coming along your way , but you did not take advantage of them. Opportunities may not be aplenty and there could only be a few in your life time.

Men are just simple creatures and if you cannot ' tame or domesticate' them, then you do not have a chance of having a relationship which could lead to marriage with them.

They have not changed in their style since the prehistoric dinosaur age. They have the primitive hunter instincts even though they wear a smart suit these days. You will need to understand their behaviours and use the right tactics to entrap them.

The title of his book ,"Treat them mean.." can give a wrong perceptions as no one in the right frame of mind would want to treat their b/f in a very mean way . It would force their b/f to run away or look for another.

I hope after reading his  extracts from his book, you would have a better insight into how a man ticks and take the appropriate actions . No two men are the same and you will need to modify and adept it  according to your b/f's personality.


Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1063752/Treat-mean--Big-pants-sex-months-One-mans-fail-safe-tips-winning-man-dreams.html

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