Your Handsome Prince Has Morphed Into An Ugly Toad !

"Once upon a time ,many ,many eons ago , there was a handsome prince who was turned into a frog by an evil witch.....The spell could only be broken if a girl loves him and kiss him on his lips. "

After kissing the frog , his spell was broken and the handsome prince swept you off your feet. In the fairy tale, they lived happily ever after but in real life, what happened to the handsome prince in shining armour who morphed into a toad.  Did you eyes play  tricks on you?

How come you did not see him as a jerk before you married him ?

Love covers a multitude of sins and you did not see his imperfections when you were struck with love for him. You were fettered and swooned in his flattery and praises.

Most girls make the common mistake in thinking that they are able to change the men .During the romantic phase , the men are all eyes and ears and do what the girl wants .She is treated like a majestic Queen.

During the chase , the men will try to please the girl to the hilt and when they have captured their prey , their real inner person will manifest outwardly  to your consternation's. Many girls hoping that the men will change will find out this grave error and they have to change instead .

What now ?

You are married to him and you will have to accommodate his idiosyncrasies and try to live as best as you can or you could choose the divorce road if you cannot stomach the toxic jerk..

You cannot change a person but you can change your reactions towards him and hope that he will change to a new you. A different approach may elicit a different response and hopefully he will treat you better .

Try to give him more praises and he will try to be the man you want him to be. Positive words begets positive actions.  Man are like woman , they need some praises and confirmations of their actions or deeds.

Man are just simple beings and you need to talk straight to them in plain simple English and tell them what you want or need. Do not beat about the bush or hint as they are unable to decipher your feminine code . Talk in their language which they can understand and do not blame him because he is not a mind reader .

Reference and thanks to:-

http://marriage.about.com/od/difficultissues/a/marriedjerk.htm

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