Women are seeking equality and in this present world , those who wait and bait their man will lose in their quest to those who venture out of their shells and meet those men head on.
If you wait for the men to come into your parlour, you may wait till eternity and not find any intrepid men or those men who dare to venture into your cave are not those men that you dream off.
You imposed your own boundaries and boxed yourself into a tight corner. Why not spread out your hunting grounds and meet more men in the greater world. Women employ more sophisticated and subtle techniques than men and those men would not know what hit them till it is too late.
Those who believed in the grandmother's tales that girls should not chase the men as it would be cheap or demeaning is no longer applicable today .You do whatever it takes to land the catch but make sure that he is a good catch or that your efforts would be only a waste of time and you are not being taken advantage off.
Most men would welcome your special attentions on them and they would feel delighted and their ego's boosted. However , this is not always the case as it has to depend on whether she has some attributes which he likes about her. If he does not like her, then it would be definitely be unenjoyable to be chased by her. It could be a case of stalking and it becomes a turn off.
Generally ,it is not easy for a men to woo a girl . There are many walls of resistance from her to tear down . If she opens all those doors and allow him to enter, he would gladly accept the offer.
It is easy for a woman to chase after a man and it is like going through a Japanese paper wall.While a man chasing a woman is like climbing Mt. Everest. There are so many obstacles and booby traps along the mountain trail.
You cannot please or satisfy all those guys . Whatever you do ,you will be judged unfairly by their standards and you will always come up short. You cannot be too hard or too easy , too slow or too fast.
They do enjoy the attentions and being pursued will boost their ego's and if they like you , you will receive favourable response but if they don't like you , you would be branded a cheap and a tramp.
If there is love, then everything is sweet and spicy but if there is no love, the mouth and the heart can be as most fouled as the dirtiest gutter on Earth.
If you can click well after the first impressions, then the game is on...When love is in the air, nothing matters as long as you can be together . Someone has to be an initiator to start the ball rolling..
It only takes a spark to start a fire and it can burn like a runaway wild bush fire.....
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My son's doctor and I have a very nice relationship and get along very well. He shares alot about his life with me, when my son goes to his apts. We like almost everything the same and he has commented on that and that we think so much alike.
He is 52 single and never married and I'm 56 in a terrible marriage, and he knows it since my son sees him for anxiety issues.
I feel we would be great together, but my being married at this point hinders us I believe from seeing each other and that he is my son's doctor.
I am working towards my divorce, but my sons health issues waranted me financially to stay in my marriage this last year, but he is better now.
I have shown this doctor I am interested and waiting to see what happens next.
Is there any hope for us to at least date and get to know each other better, although, we've discussed so much about ourselves already there doesn't seem to be any need to talk much more, but action to be able to be free to openly meet with each other?
Thanks.
Hi Anon,
Thanks for sharing your story here. I am very happy to hear that you getting along well with each other.
Though you would like to have a deeper and more committed relationship with him , I see there are problems between you two.
Firstly , he is your son's doctor and he has to be professional in handling this relationship. He cannot be seen as taking advantage of your situation and this would affect his reputation.
Since you are in the process of a divorce proceedings, he may not want to be committed to you because he could be fishing in troubled waters.
If he is a gentleman , he would wait on the sidelines and not complicate matters.
Secondly, you are in the midst of a divorce proceedings and things are not clear cut .
My advice to you is to maintain your relationship with him on a friendly level and enjoy each other without imposing any new conditions or commitments,follow where the current leads.
If you want to start a new relationship , you should get out of your present one , stay single for a while to see if you can have a clean break from the past before you proceed with the new.
It is better to deal with one problem at a time rather than handle two or more problems at the same time.
I wish you all the best of luck and whatever happens ,you need to be strong and move on with life.
My prayers and thoughts for you and I hope everything will come true for you. Pray and have faith in God. He knows what is best for you.
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