If women rule the world...

What would it be like if women rule the world and all the men have to submit to all those woman's powers and laws ?

Women maybe the Presidents or Prime Ministers in their respective countries but it is still a man’s world out there.

Women are now competing with men in the universities, work and in every man’s sphere. There are now more women in the universities than men and soon they will be a majority in every sphere of life..

There will come a time when they will be a majority and a powerful force to be reckoned with and will decide the destiny of human race in the future.

Imagine living in some new land where the women rules and the men obeys.Women decide everything and they are the law.

In China, the authorities there have set up a woman’s town ,the 2.3-square-km Longshuihu village in the Shuangqiao district of Chongqing municipality.

(http://www.reuters.com/article/wtMostRead/idUSKUA64707120070426 )

http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2007160590,00.html

It is a novel concept and a tourist attractions. It is an experiment to see how the world becomes when women rules and whether they can rule without the man’s help.

It is like the Amazon woman’s world where there were only women and no men. I don't know what happened to those men,kept like cattle and for stud purpose only or they died from some mysterious illness or the baby boys were killed after they were born.

Many of us know that a woman boss can be a very mean task master. She would act according to the law and be totally efficient and expect a lot from her subordinates.

A woman leader will have to act tough like Margaret Thacher on national security ,be tender like a mom and and have some sexy and feminine coquetry like Sarah Palin, the GOP Vice Presidential candidate.

Some excellent women leaders of the past,Isabel Peron and Evita of Argentina,Sirimavo Bandaranaike and Chandrika Kumaratunga of Sri Lanka,Golda Meir of Israel,Indira Gandhi of India,Margaret Thatcher,Benazir Bhutto of Pakistan
Jenny Shipley and Helen Clark of NZ,Megawarti Sukarno of Indonesia, Arroyo of the Philippines and the present day Angela Merkel of Germany. Hillary Clinton and Sarah Paling of the USA and Ségolène Royal of France could be the next breed of female leaders the world would witness.

The females are enjoying the same rights as the men and enough women have gone through the pipe line by now and are ready to take on these leadership positions.

Will women rule the world some day ?

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http://allfunpages.com/ifwomenruletheworld.shtml

http://haddadusa.com/Jokes/General/Women_Rule/

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=484370&in_page_id=1879

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http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/life/2009-01/01/content_7359376.htm

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/if/3487260.stm

http://www.ksg.harvard.edu/citizen/Dec20/shar1220.html

http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2007160590,00.html

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Teachers having sex with teen students.

Before, it was unheard off but in today's world , there are so many cases of teachers having relationship with their pupils . It is the new age and a sign of the times .

There are teachers who have sexual relationship with their pupils and others baring their bodies or other inappropriate acts like posing their nude or scantily pixs in the internet.

After the break out of such cases , the teachers are trained to recognize those signs and how to handle those issues of teacher-pupil relationships.

It is legally and morally wrong to have sex with minors and even worse , if they are your students. Those teenage boys at 14 or 15 are raging bulls with their hormones at full blast while having the immaturity of an adolescent.
At this time, they are the most naughtiest , daring and devil may not care attitudes.

Most teachers are females and young , freshed from their colleges and they sometimes dressed inappropriately or sometimes they sit or stand suggestively which they may not be aware off.

When we were at that age, we secretly admired all those teachers and dreamed of them. They were just dreams and imaginations and some had a secret crushed on their teachers.Some teachers waited till their students were off age and then married them.

Those female teacher may have a psychological problem . They slept with those teens which is against the law. It is called statutory rape of a minor even if the boy consents.

We may never understand what goes on in that teacher's mind. Why she would do that and jeopardize her career and her life?

There was a case where a married teacher with children committed this sin with her student and she had to go to jail .
Why did she threw away her life for this student? What can that student offer her?

These teachers may have relationship problems in their life and they became irrational and find solace in those teen students which lead to a sexual exploitations.

Honestly, when one cannot think straight , this will happen.Most of those teachers used their students to escape from their problems at home with their husbands or family.

She does not know what she was doing or the devil possessed her.

Teaching is a very stressful job with today's student being more rowdy and uncontrollable . As each succeeding generations come , the students are becoming more intelligent and more matured than the last generations.



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http://www.abcnews.go.com/TheLaw/wireStory?id=3569145

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A wedding cum funeral

Most couples marry when they are both healthy and living but in some bizarre cases, there are marriages where the other person is deceased.

The surviving person insisted in marrying to the deceased person and going through those customary rituals to solemnize their wedding . For them, love is eternal and nothing can separate their love even when they are in different worlds.

Love knows no bounds..A women of 50 in China finally married her dead husband of 32 , who died of cancer in January and his body was embalmed.

The wedding took place in a funeral parlour. After the 'I Do' wedding ceremony, she then proceeded to the funeral ceremony.

She was turned away by most of those wedding planners as the Chinese believed that 'red'(Weddings = Double Happiness) and 'white' (Death) cannot be mixed

Both their parents were absent from the ceremony because they were against their relationship. It was about the age factor.

She claimed that they were just 5 years difference between them and not as 18 . In that kind of conservative society ,where the men should be older and not the other way round.

Even after the death, those narrow minded parents could not forgive this couple and blessed them .This is effectually , cutting them off .

It is sad when parents don't bless their children's marriage. After all, who is more important? The children have a longer road to travel in life . Why cant they just accept that our society has changed. The children have their new world.

The parents are old and may not live long. Is it so hard to think of our children's happiness?
I simply cannot understand why parents don't bless their relationships.

They were both well educated , matured and loved each other. As parents ,we should grant their wishes to be together .We should think of our children's happiness which is more important than our happiness.

Some parents still think of their children as children forever. Once ,after they have attained 21 years old, they are considered as adults and can think for themselves. Let them decide and give them our blessings.

She was no ordinary girl. She got her masters from a university in the US and met her husband who is a senior engineer.
She was too modern for her society where she came from. Her parents could not accept her decisions .

Each of us have to decide what is best for ourselves and if our parents does not agree, there is nothing one can do about it.

Parents should not be too stubborn or hold on to traditional views. The old world must pass and the new world to begin.

Live and let live…


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http://newpaper.asia1.com.sg/news/story/0,4136,141223,00.html?

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Should women say 'I love you' first ?

If you love the man ,will you tell him the great news or will you wait for him to tell you first ?

There are two school of thoughts on this important matter. I think one should not be too rigid and apply the rule across the board. It will depend on your depth of your relationship with him and whether you love him more than he loves you .

You may get confused with the conflicting views from both sides. There is no law to forbid you from telling him first . It is only the opinions of those people who think that it is better to let him tell you first.

Whether you do agree with them or not is your decisions. We are no more living in the Victorian era and expects everything to be set in motion by the men. Women and men are now equal in this modern world. There are no more distinctions between the sexes.


There is no black and white and hard and fast rule . If you feel the strong urge to tell him first,go ahead or keeping it inside of you will make you go crazy.

A man and a woman will have different reactions when told that s/he is loved . For a man , he would continue the relationship and will reassess the relationship ,if he really can love her back.

If he loves her, then it would make his job easier. If he does not love her, he would still continue that relationship with her and it suffers no harm.

Whereas, a woman may break off the relationship when she is not in love with him or the relationship is put on ice . A man's fear of rejections is greater than a woman.

If you are going to wait for him to say first, you will have to wait for 100 years because some men will never bring themselves to do that.From past experiences, they got rejected and the end of the friendship.

It is easier for a woman because it is like going through a Japanese paper wall .While for a man it is like climbing Mt. Everest. Though it is the same thing ,it is easier for a woman because men seldom reject a woman's advances while women have been known to offer stiff or token resistance to the man's overture.

If he is not ready , you can either wait for him to be ready and you will know where you stand with him. If he is not interested, then you can look out for another one and stop wasting your time on him.

You will have to take this risk as you cannot be waiting upon him and this wait may last a long time and you will be wasting your time and your youth on a failed venture.If he is not ready for a commitment, then he is never ready for another 5 or 10 years.

You have been forewarned. If you wait by the sea shore for any hints of those three little words from him, you will sooner turned into a stone statue before those words can ever come out of his mouth.

It does not matter who said it first. If you don't get a favourable response from him , then you need to move on . This will make sure that he is the right man.

If he is doing all the chasing , then you will need to just soak in his affections and those little words will tumble out of his mouth very soon when you response in kind.



Suggested reading:-

http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/personal/12/26/tf.women.say.love.you/index.html?iref=mpstoryview

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Life as a transsexual in Malaysia.

John ( not his real name )was a normal Chinese man and there was no outward signs that he was a transsexual . He did not entertain any thoughts about being a transsexual and he did not know much about this group of people .

His first experience with a transsexual was when he was in the 20's , he followed his friend to the old Gurney Drive or the Explanade in Penang, Malaysia.

There he saw a vivacious and very sexy young woman all attired in a white alluring dress with a low cut neckline and exposing her generous buxom. He did not suspect that she was a man until his friend told him the truth. She was very beautiful but she had a very coarse voice. It was probably the side effects of those hormones.

He married his sweetheart after a short whirlwind romance and had two children but sadly his marriage did not last. After eight years ,his wife left him and he became a single parent for his two young kids.

He took care of his kids and became their father and mother. It was during this time , that his feminine side became more pronounced and he took the plunge and changed into a female. Thus his adventure into the female world began.

What finally made him change was due to several factors which he could not pin point. He just had to dress like a female or he would go bonkers and he did not have the inner peace.He was troubled for a long time till he succumbed to his inner calling.

He took the contraceptive pills daily which contains those female hormones, estrogen and progesterone and slowly he developed breast tissues and the female characteristics. His face became more girlish and his skins became softer and smoother.

He was in appearance, a middle age good looking woman and she fooled many .Even the women too did not sense that she was a man among them.

When he made the switch it was not without problems from his sister or mom. There were objections from them but slowly they came around to accept her, as they were not able to convinced her to switch back.It was her life and she did not want others to dictate who she wanted to be.

She lived in a small suburban town and there were no other Chinese tranny's ,only some Malays who only became a closet tranny at home because for the Malays, it is an offense and they can be caught and charged or be jailed.

She did not face any persecutions from either the police or the religious authorities. She is a Christian but have stopped attending any church because of her conditions.She has never tried attending any church because she perceived that she will not be welcome or fear that she will be asked to repent and turn back from her ways.

She enjoyed herself being a new woman and acted as natural as one.Her female friends accepted her and treated her as their own kind.

Her male friends treated her the same so she did not missed out on them.Off course ,there were some who were judgmental .It did not bother her at all.She was quite philosophical about it.

She was lucky she is not a Malay/Muslim as their religion does not allow them to wear woman's clothes.It is against their religion according to those in power. They can be fined or jailed or both.Hard cases are send for rehabilitations and
to be brainwashed like the Revati case..

In Malaysia , unless you are certified by a doctor tat you have both sex organs from birth and decided to become a woman ,only then you can have your ID changed from male to female.

This law only came out recently.Before this, there was no avenue at all.Compared to other more liberal and modern Islamic countries like Iran and Egypt ,where they allowed the sex change operations legally.

Tranny's have problems finding jobs due to their nature..They either suppressed their female feelings while at work but act out secretly in their homes from unseen eyes .

Most of them are either self employed or sell their sex services which give this group the bad name.

When people think of tranny's , they have that stereotype thinking that most of them are sex workers. To them , this world is only either male or female . They do not understand and are ignorant about this group of people.

It is not easy to be a tranny,it takes a lot of guts and money. You need to face the world and spend a lot on those girlish things which are not cheap,a completely overhauled wardrobe, those bra's ,cosmetics,beauty treatments,shoes, accessories and those can cause a bomb!

Are tranny's born the way they are or circumstances forced them to surfaced to be one?

"I just felt that I have to be a woman and I would not care or be damned what the world thinks about me.I need to live to my true self ."

Would any ordinary men be able to be a tranny ? If they are not one, they can never be one.It would take one who is born a woman in a man's body to walk this gauntlet.

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What to do when you are stopped by the police in Malaysia?

Know your rights and don't be fooled by those bogus policemen or those policemen who acted beyond their authorities or do not know the law.

The next time you are stopped by persons who claimed they are plainclothes police, you are under no obligation to answer their questions or follow their
orders.Policeman who is not wearing his uniform does not have the authority to stop anyone.

They could be bogus policemen , rapist or robbers in disguise even if they show you their handcuff or any police insignias.

If you are stopped by a uniformed policeman,you need not get
out of the car. You have a right not to stop if you think you are in danger as he could be a bogus policeman. You must stop your car if it is an official police road block.

You should see his police ID first to confirmed that he is a cop before you give him your ID and driving license upon his request. Wind down your window a bit and locked your car doors.

You should never follow the police to the police station unless you are under arrest.They may threaten to arrest you and frightened you to extract some monetary payments from you.



Procedures to follow in the event you are stopped by
uniformed police Officers while driving.


* Stop the car and wind down your window.
* If the police officers ask for your documents,
request to see their IDs first.
* If you are satisfied about their identity, ask
them if you are being summoned, and for what
offence.
* Produce your identity card and driver's license
and wait to collect your summon ticket.




In the event that the police officers ask you to
follow them to the police station:


* Ask if you are under arrest and for what
offence.
* If you are not under arrest, you have the right
to leave.




In the event you are flagged down by persons you
believe could be plainclothes police:


* Do not stop because plainclothes police officers
do not have the authority to stop you.
* Drive to the nearest police station and lodge a
report. (The same procedure applies to pedestrians)




In the event the police come to your house:


* Do not let them in before checking their IDs.
* If you are not satisfied, phone the nearest
police station and confirm if they had been sent to
your house.
* You are under no obligation to allow them into
the house if they don't have a search warrant.
* Do not go with them if you are not under arrest.



In the event persons who claimed to be plainclothes
police come to your

house:


* Do not let him in because they do not have the
authority to do so.
* Lodge a report at the nearest police station.

Credit to:-

thestar.com.my

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Beware - of virtual Cassanova's !

Be smart! Be alert ! Do not get conned off your love and money by those virtual Casanova's.

If you are offered something which is unbelievable, beware, it could be a trap.If you need to pay any money to get it , then it is most probably a scam .

Never hand over your hard earned money to anyone even if it is a sob tale or some hard up stories from your virtual friends.They are mostly lies to con you off your money. Once they received your money , there will be gone or until you get suspicious that it is a scam.

Those syndicates can even SMS (short message system). Damned! I got one SMS from a syndicate which said about Petronas contest and winning a first prize for my SIM card number.

I knew there were scams but the telephone company M billed me for the SMS.Imagine being billed by those syndicates for something which I never asked! They tried to cheat me and M robbed RM$0.30 from me !. @#%&

I complained to M and I had to crawl through those computer answered messages.It was damned frustrating to get through to them. Many would just let M keep the 30 cents.

M even had the cheek to bill me for another SMS asking me to upgrade my phone for WAP , which I did not request.

This is downright illegal .If you did not complain because it is a small amount, the company would make a big profit since they have millions of subscribers.


Scrutinize your bills, the companies can just add in those charges and pretend not to know about it until you complain.

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http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?sec=nation&file=%2F2008%2F12%2F22%2Fnation%2F2866819

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I am a single girl and available...

I am a single girl all alone in a big and lonely city .All my friends have steady boyfriends or are married and some have kids.

I am normal , attractive ,slim looking and have a great job. My biological clock is ticking and I want to settle down and start a family.


I cannot find the right guy . I dated a few but it did not go beyond the 2nd or 3rd date. I feel the world is passing me by.

Are you desperate ? Nah!


You would bravely tell the whole world that you are not desperate to get married .You will live your life to the fullest and enjoy traveling all over the world .

With today’s women going to the universities, by the time they come out, they will be 26 and after a few years working to repay their debts, they would reach 30 in quick time. Where do they have the time to think of marriage ?

More over , the playing field seems to get smaller and smaller as they ascent higher and higher in the educational fields.If they want to get married, they will have to lower their qualification standards and not judge a man by the paper degree’s.

One in three women is still single by the time she is 35,one in five women has not had a baby by the age of 40 according to a new survey.

Where are you on this scale of divide? The top half or the bottom half.? You are not alone so no worries..LOL!

You may be so busy with work or going on vacations that soon you will find that age is creeping up on you.You may have missed the last ferry to La La land.You will resigned to your fate and destiny.

Some girls may have no choice and have to travel that road .Others may lower their expectations when they are nearer 40 so as not to miss the last ferry.

You wondered why you are still single when you have all those good qualities .You could have the best the world can offer you but sadly that is not happening.All the good men are taken or are married or dead. You rue your miss chances .

You keep on waiting for your shiny knight in armour to rescue you from your plight.You dream everyday and it is a long dream and it may never materialize.

You rationalize and justify why you are still single and you can be happy being single” or “You’ll get married one day when the time and the man is right.

Meanwhile , you might want to do your masters and make more money  like the others in the same office.

Will it come or will you be a wall flower ? If you cannot find a fish , will you be satisfied with prawns?

How is your “sell by user date .” Still valid or expired?
How fast is your biological clock ticking?
I hope it wont run like crazy..LOL!


credit and thanks to:-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=448044&in_page_id=1879

http://www.metro.co.uk/metrosexual/metrosexual/article.html?in_article_id=63827&in_page_id=8

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Mak Nyahs or transsexuals

They dress like women and act like them but they are males and some have undergone the sexual reorientation's while the majority still retains their sexual organs.

They are not made but are born into that state, for no ordinary men would want to be like them .In some society , they are sometimes treated as an outcast or an aberrations .

They will be called derogatory names ,discriminated  against , scorned and  ridiculed . Such is the life of a transsexual who wants to come out of his closet.

The braves ones will not be bothered by the taunts and humiliations heaped upon them by their society as they are happier being a transsexual . They face bureaucratic red tapes to change their sex on their identification cards and this can cause them problems when applying for jobs. The lucky few will get to be employed while others will be self employed and the rest will have to ply their trades or walk the streets to support themselves.

I have observed that a majority of the men who came out of their closets are in the 40's and they started living to their true inner self.The urge to become a female becomes too overbearing and they could not hide it any longer.They find their inner peace at last.

It has been a long drawn out battle to fight and suppress those urges or female feelings .It was like having a man and a woman fighting inside their body to take control of the driver's seat.

Initially , they may face some resistance from their parents or sibilings but in time , they will come to accept the situations and life becomes normal again.If they looked beautiful or feminine, no one will know that she is a man except those who are his friends or those with a keen eye and can differentiate them from the real females.

In some cases , they are even more beautiful and sexier than the ordinary females. The Adam's apple , the broad shoulders and the maleness in the voice may betray their sex. .

The transsexuals have a chance to live as a man and as a woman and if they gets tired of being a female , they could always revert back to their original forms.

It is very funny that when they become a female after taking those  hormones, they will behave and act like a female .They will buy lots of shoes,apparels,cosmetics, accessories and handbags . When they were a man , they would criticize their WAGS about wasting so much money on those items.

This is probably due to those hormones and it's side effects. LOL! You do not understand a woman because it is her hormones which controls her. Just like a man is controlled by his testosterone hormones.

Those hormones are what is driving them to act in that way. There can be no logical or scientific reasons why women thinks of shopping every minute while the men think of sex.

 In Malaysia, which is an Islamic country , sex change operations is not recognized by the authorities and the only condition permissible  is a person who is born a hermaphrodite , having both the sexual organs of the male and female. In other Islamic countries , the sex change operations is allowed.

For to dress outside would court troubles with the law. They could be fined , jailed or both or  send to be indoctrinated and brain washed until you repent and become straight like them.

While a Christian transsexuals may not attend any church as most churches will not accept them . Try going to one and you will will either have to dress like a man or they will tell you off as you will poison the minds of those youngsters.You are a very bad influence . Just like the gays, you are not welcome to those mainstream churches unless they do not know you are one.


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Think positive - Live longer & healthier.

It has been discovered that those who have faith and trust in God can deal better with life incidents than those who do not believe in God. Those who do not believe in God would give up earlier and would be more negative .

The tongue is a very powerful weapon, speak negatively and the negatives will find you . The mind can be controlled by the tongue and if you are not careful with your tongue , you can find those words coming back to haunt you .

Are you an optimist or a pessimist? What’s an optimist or a pessimist?
An optimist is a person who has a disposition or tendency
to look on the more favourable side of events or conditions and to expect the most favourable outcome.
A pessimist is a person who has the tendency to see, anticipate, or emphasize only bad or undesirable outcomes, results, conditions, problems,
(http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/optimism )

Whatever negative things occur in his life, an optimist would view it positively and be in control of the situation.
He would expect things to get better and he will not be much affected or stressed out by that events.

I am an optimist. I like to look at the positive sides of events. Whatever bad happens, I would be fatalistic about it.

We have to accept that there are things which happens and it is inevitable and it is fated.
Many events in our life are destined to happen whether you like it or not.It is written in the Book Of Life.

If an accident is going to happen to you , it will happen no matter how unless it is not fated or through some divine interventions.Just as many women worry about everything .

Why worry about it when you cannot do anything in your power?You have to cast your worries on to Jesus and let Him deal with your worries. We need to have this kind of mindset.

You use your limited resources from your brain for useless activities like worrying . You should instead pray to God and quit worrying .

Having a positive attitude can lower your blood pressure and cholesterol levels. The problem is just a mole hill but you made it look like a big mountain.

It can improves your physical and mental well beings as you will eat healthy foods and have regular exercises and avoid those bad habits like smoking ,drinking and not sleeping enough.

Want to live longer - think positive for a healthy mind and a healthy body!

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Why having friends is essentially important to married women ?

No man is an island and for women this is more true because her life would not be satisfactory if she lives alone or without her friends especially her female friends.

A woman is a pack animal for she is not made to live a loner . She needs the support and camaraderie of her own kinds in order to survive in this unfair world.

After getting married , her friends will slowly fade into the background as she devouts much of her time to her new world .She may move away from her old friends to a new set of his friends.


Her partner may try to cut her off from all her friends as he may dislike her for mixing with them and poisoning her mind against him.Those men prefer them to be ignorant and under their controls.

In the new world , she may not have the time for her friends but when things are settled down , she should resume her friendship with some of her best friends.

As we go along in life , we will have many types of friends.From childhood to the end of our days. We will meet lots of people and they become our friends .Friends who know who you are and meet daily or see each other often. Some people can make friends easily because they are friendly and warmth while some are cold and aloof.

True friends are a rarity , who stick around through thick and thin with you . We have many friends whom we call drink buddies .

True friendship is something special. It gives you support and companionship, builds up your self-esteem and shares your joys , happiness and whatever emotional ups and downs. Having a true friend means you are never completely alone.

There are three types of friends:-

1. Friendships made through shared activities such as evening or natal classes, sport or work. The relationships that you form with these people can seem very intense because you spend so much time with them,but in fact, they are often superficially pleasant, but not very deep and they may end once you move on.

2. Historical friendships that go back many years, perhaps childhood, schooldays or teenage years.You often feel warm and nostalgic about these friendships but they too could still be quite superficial.

3.Soul friendships are the most lasting. These are the people you trust and open up to. You tell them the truth about yourself, your life, and your feelings. You don't have to play games and you can let your guard down. Bless you if your friendship is a soul friendship.

There is another kind of friends,internet friends. Friends you have never met in real life until your paths crossed.You know them in the virtual world and they may share their secrets with you like a very close and intimate friend.

A man cannot talk about many girlish subjects and when it comes to woman's affairs, it will take another woman to understand what they are going through.Women relate better with each other and this is why they need their friends to keep them sane .

Her friends are like the sunlight , the water and the fertilizer and without them , she will wilt and not bloom to her full potentials.

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The woman who stands by their man.

What do you call those women who stand by their man when he has committed the foulest sin of having an affair, stupid, dumb or just pragmatic ?

The modern independent women would not tolerate such a state of affairs and would seek divorce from him.

There are some who can forgive their spouse and stay together and some paralyzed with indecision's .Whether you want to divorce him or not , forgiveness is a must to heal your hurts and to close this chapter in your life.

I love the country and Western song,'Stand by your man' by Tammy Wynete and the lyrics are beautiful.



Lyrics | Wynette, Tammy - Stand by Your Man lyrics


There are more temptations for the modern men to cheat as there are more women working in the offices and factories.The term 'office spouse' is commonly heard these days.

We need to understand why the men cheated.Generally , most women feel aggrieved when their spouse cheated and blame it on the men without looking at themselves.It is easy to see others mistakes than one's own. They may need to see the perspectives from the man's world and not only through their feminine eyes..

It is easier for a man to have an affair than a woman because women are more discerning and not in it just for the sex thingy.

Men are like egotistical little boys who need constant attentions. When you have kids and a home , the women tend to pay less attention to the men.

When the men meet with a younger version of his wife and who idolize him and worship the ground that he walks on ,sparks can fly .

Some women tolerate his affairs as long as they are better treated than the mistress.This happens to those Alpha males like rock stars,tycoons, MP's and royalties.They are so wealthy and the other women are attracted to them like flies to the bright light even if they are married.

In fact , there are women who do not mind as long as they do not mention heror he kept her in the backgrounds.They learn to cope with their philandering husbands as long as she is recognized as the wife in the family.

If the men have ended the affairs , I think it is better to forgive him and move on with your life. He made a mistake and if you divorce him , you may regret later somewhere down the road as he is such a character which you may never meet again .

Those who stand by the man is because they still love him and understands he is not perfect . It could be economic reasons or reputations. Whatever the reasons , he should be given another chance.

To err is only human and to forgive is divine.

Reference and thanks to :-

http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article5280408.ece

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Should you confess your extra marital affairs to your partner?

You had no intentions of having an affair or a one night stand but it happened and you regretted it .

You are now in a dilemma whether to tell her or just forget about it . You feel guilty for being unfaithful to your partner and your conscience is troubling you .

Should you tell your partner or not ?

If the affair has ended and you do not have anything to do with her anymore, you should not tell her even if she suspects you . She has no concrete proof and it is best that you let those issues to rest.Bury it and let it rest in peace. In time ,it will be forgotten and will not come in between you .

If you confess to her, you may risk losing her or break up your family life.
You cannot expect her to forgive you and expect everything to be normal again. She is only human and she will be emotionally and mentally affected .It is not easy for her to forgive you even if she is a devout Christian.

You will only pass your burden of guilt to her and she may not forgive you or if she forgives you , your relationship will suffer and will never be the same again.

You know you have made a very bad mistake and you should only confess to God about it and asks for His forgiveness and make restitution's to your wife.Treat it like a bad dream or nightmare and move on with life.

Just deny everything if she asked about it. She will not leave unless it comes from your own mouth.You made a bloody mistake and learn to life with it and take it to the grave with you.

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The feminization of the males.

Recently , there have been some reports about more males who exhibit characteristics of the female.The males of today are softer and more sissy and even baby boys are acting like baby girls.

A down under report states that pollution is turning males with female characteristics and doing harm to their tool kits. More baby girls are being born than baby boys.

The toxins in the food chain are having an effect on the mammals, fish and higher up in the food chain.

We can observe around us that the present generation of males tend to be more feminized or showing those feminine tendencies.

The phthalates which are used in food packaging, cosmetics ,baby powders and other uses have contaminated the surroundings.

The female hormones have been blamed for this phenomenon as those hormones passed through the human body unaltered and to those fishes and other living organisms which feeds on this food chain.

Demographers say that women will considerably outstrip men in number by 2025.

If these observations are not taken seriously by the authorities, there may come a time when the males will one day become extinct like the other vanishing animal species.




Reference and thanks to :-


http://www.news.com.au/dailytelegraph/story/0,22049,24768184-5001021,00.html

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The Horrors of Partial Birth Abortion

I will not delve here the horrors of describing such a procedure here , for you can go to this link and read all the details there.
(Warning: That article includes some rather graphic descriptions, so if you are squeamish you may not want to read it.)

In this present generations , young girls are engaging in sexual activities which can cause them to have unplanned and unwanted pregnancies. Many have opted for abortions as they are too young to understand about parenthood and the financial cost of bringing up the child .



Girls as young as 16 or below are making their own decisions to abort without their parents knowledge.

Some of them have multiple abortions in a year or in their life and treat it like a contraceptive method without any disregards to the young life.

We all know that life begins at conception with the formation of an embryo. It is a living thing which may not look in human form at first look but will slowly grow in that direction.

In today's world, those who go for abortions do not understand the gravity of the situation . Their conscience or the lack of it accounts for the record rise in the number of abortions. It seems like the prevailing social custom is to have abortions without any considerations of the young life in making. This is very sad

There maybe people who said they did not regret it but we know that it is not the real truth. The regret and remorse will be with them all their life. The guilt will forever haunt them.

Abortion in the true sense is the killing of a defenseless and innocent life. No amount of words can hide this tragic procedure. Life is sacred .

Those who did not abort found their happiness when the baby was born.


Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.rightgrrl.com/99grrls/February/cheri/pba.html

Pix of embryo, courtesy of :-

http://english.pravda.ru/opinion/feedback/28-11-2008/106760-abortion-0

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Practice safe sex .

Many of today's teens do not receive sex education and are not aware of the dangers of STD's or STI's or knowledgeable about conceptions . As a result ,there is a phenomenal rise in the spread of STD's and unwanted abortions in the world around us.

A sexually transmitted disease (STD) or venereal disease (VD), is an illness due to the transmission between humans or animals by means of sexual contact, including vaginal intercourse, oral sex, and anal sex. All types of sexual activity between two people carry some STD risk.

It can also be transmitted via the use of an IV drug needle after its use by an infected person,tattoo's, blood transfusions, as well as through childbirth or breastfeeding. Some of these STD are chlamydia, gonorrhea, genital herpes,gonorrhea , syphilis and AIDS which has no cure at the present.

There are an estimated 33 million people with AIDS worldwide.Nearly half of all AIDS cases in the U.S. involve people 13 to 24 years of age. Many people are HIV positive and do not know it. The incubation period is six months. Some people may have aids and do not suffer any ill effects in the initial stages.

Many uninformed people think that they can get the STD's only from vaginal sex , not knowing that they are still at risk when they engage in "noncoital" sexual activities such as oral sex, mutual masturbation and anal sex .

Those who visit prostitutes , most often do not use condoms and they do not seemed concern for their own health.They think that getting AIDS is like striking the lottery and when they got it , they regretted and became remorseful .

The age for sex is getting younger and younger through each succeeding generations and it is not surprising that even 12 years old or below are asking or have already engaged in the sex acts.The kids are getting smarter and can learn from the internet and all those chat groups and forums online.

Most people, including adolescents, are unlikely to use condoms during oral sex, which places them at risk for acquiring an STD.

The modern day society is permissive and very open and having too many partners is another factor for the spread of STD's. It will be like playing the game of musical chairs and if you are unlucky you will get the STD.

Reference and thanks to ;-

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexually_transmitted_disease

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Women say they want their partner to be honest. Is this the real truth?

Yes and No !You cannot be too truthful and honest all the time with women.You will be too boring and predictable and may end up being a lonely old man . LOL!

You will only put your relationship into peril and if you want to make her happy and keep getting laid , you should take care to say only positive things about her and make her feel she is the only 'WOMAN!' in your life.

They want you to be honest and true but if you listen to them , you will know that it is wiser sometimes to tell a white lie than to tell her the brutal truth.

There are times when she is not interested in the truth but only wants to hear what she wants to hear. If you tell her what she wants to hear, you will validate her thoughts and you will be closer or your bonds with her will strengthened further.

Most men do not think deeply or analyze their thoughts before speaking it out. They just let it out without any filter and then when the women reacts negatively or withdraws, will they realize the consequences of their harsh and insensitive words.

It is often a surprise to the men and they blame the women for being fickle minded, for she can change her directions 180 degrees all of a sudden. This can be very perplexing to those men and they will scratch their heads and wonder what they did wrong.

The men believed it must be their hormones which caused them to wild swings from the height of ecstasy to the depth of hell.

They are used to communicating with their male friends in that way and they sometimes forget that they are speaking to a different species who are more sensitive and forever asking in their minds or analyzing every words that comes out of his mouth.

A man may just say a simple statement and think nothing about it while the women will try to analyze what is behind the motives for saying that . She may even torture herself trying to find the correct meanings to his real intentions .

Women don't lie , they only tell half truths. If she caught you telling a lie, your credibility will be shot to pieces . You will face a very uphill task trying to convince her. There are only certain situations where you can lie to her and be forgiven ....



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Are women silly ?

What do you really mean by being silly ? There are silly women as well as silly men among us and sometimes they can be a pain in the a$$.

According to the dictionary.com , a silly person is a weak-minded or lacking good sense; stupid or foolish,absurd; ridiculous; irrational, a lack of wisdom,lacking seriousness or responsibleness or frivolous.

Ask most men and they will tell you that women are more silly than them. You cannot blame them because women are totally different species from them and speak in a strange and secret language.

They will say one thing and then leave you to decipher what they mean or expect you to read what is in their train of thoughts. The men should pay attention not only in those words that comes out of her mouth but the real meaning of those words in action.

It is a surprise that most women are born and think alike and if you know how a woman thinks, then you are pretty safe from saying or doing the wrong things.

It is not easy to understand a woman and some men just give up and accept that she is just a 'woman' and what women stand for . Period! Women are too complex for the men to understand and even for the women sometimes.

It is like wanting to say a lot of words but putting them into a micro dot like those secret agents when they send their reports back to their headquarters.

The men should then understand the woman's code for his own good. Do not take her words at face value when you are talking to any woman. If you want to be in her good books, you ought to learn what are the appropriate words or actions to take .

It may take a lifetime to learn about them but it is well worth the efforts as you will be well rewarded for your pains and sacrifices.

Most women are talkers and sometimes, their silliness shows when they blabber on and on .It can be tiring on the ears and some men have built in a defense against it by pretending to hear while their minds are elsewhere.


Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/125928/what_women_say_and_what_they_mean.html?cat=41

http://english.pravda.ru/society/family/12-11-2008/106687-silly_women-0

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Cooking is nonsense !

It is very fortunate for most of us that the price of petrol have come down recently to below US$60.00, from a high of US$150.00. Otherwise, we will have to follow this woman's lifestyle.

Though the petrol price has gone down a lot, many of the prices for foodstuffs and services have resisted the downtrend or only gone down a bit and does not commensurate with the drastic drop in the oil price.

She has lived for 35 years without eating cooked food !!!!! Thus saving her a huge monetary benefits by not using gas or more electricity for the cooking .

How many of us can survive without cooked food? It is a matter of taste. Cooked food may taste better but loses some of the vitamins through the process of cooking. Eating fruits and raw vegetable is good for the body.

We cannot be eating raw fish or meat but in some cold countries, they do eat them raw. We can have the Japanese sushi which contains raw fish and fresh oysters, which can be very expensive in some places.

The only way in which we will have to follow her diet would be, if we are carpet bombed or a major catastrophic war breaks out and forced us to go back to the stone age.

She feeds on a diet of nuts, raw fruits and wheatgerms and does not drive, use the washing machine ,watch T.V or take a bath!!!!!! This is like going back into the past before all those inventions.

Some day it may become a reality if Armageddon comes and the world is destroyed. Then if you survive that holocaust, you may learn to live like her.

For now, thanks but no thanks to her way of life. I would rather enjoy what the world can offer me and die a happy person even if it a shorter life.

Food ! Food ! Aaah! And all those glorious and delicious food. For many are gluten's. The food is available 24 hours and everywhere in my country.


Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1086413/The-REAL-Green-Goddess-The-eco-friendly-granny-lived-cooked-food-heating--lightbulbs-35-years.html

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I'm not ready for a relationship?

You probably would have heard this once too many times or their equivalent of that they want to be alone when they want to leave you .

It is an often used excuse to tell you that they are no more into you  and are opting out. They do not see any future with you and by saying those words, they hoped to cushioned the impact of their leaving you in the dumps. Those are just sugar coated words to minimize the hurt and make you feel better .

It is better this way than to be blunt and telling you directly into your face that they do not like you anymore or some words to that effect. Many men cannot bring themselves to tell you the truth as they do not want to hurt you .They started it and they want to end it . You were like a ball to enjoy and to throw away when he has lost interest in you.

They do not really mean what they say as they will soon  be seen in the arms of another girl. Do not be surprised or baffled because they say one thing but do another.

If you hear those words from the men, it means that you are not his kind of girl and he wants to be a friend only and nothing more.This is the way men talk.

Every relationship starts off like a good fairy tale . They fall in love and when the magic dust disappears, they see each others faults . They have reached the watershed in their relationship and have to decide to continue on the same road or to go different ways.

There could be many reasons why the men want to break off the relationship.It could be boredom or that he found something about you which he does not like or he found somebody better or simply , he is the non committal type.

Whatever the case, they have come to a dead end or a mental road block and must part. The end of a short and sweet love, for parting is such sweet sorrow or tears of joys.

He is not destined for you and that's it. Get over it and move on with your life.

Reference and thanks to :-

http://ezinearticles.com/?Why-Men-Say-One-Thing-and-Do-Another&id=1436787

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Girl, 13, wins legal right to die !

It is very sad and tragic when one gives up all hope of living and decide to end one's life. Hannah Jones, from Marden near Hereford,UK, has a hole in her heart meaning it can only pump a fraction of its normal capacity.

She had enough of the medical treatments and spurned a heart transplant . There is nothing the hospital or authorities can do in her case if she decided to let go and die . There is no law to compel her to have a heart transplant . She has a terminal heart condition.

If she chose to reject modern medicine and no amount of persuasions can change her decisions, we can only respect her and hope that she will find the peace and tranquility for the last days of her life.

Do you agree with her decisions ?

She has decided that she will not go for a heart transplant and leave everything to fate. Her parents and many others have expressed their opinions and agreed with her decisions. This is really sad when there are medical solutions to help her to stay alive.

Can a 13 years old have the mental faculty to think what is good for herself? Can she understand the full implications of her decision? Is she mentally able to think what is right or wrong? Should her parents agree with her wish ? She maybe 13 but her maturity belies her age.I as a parent would not accept my children's opinion and she is incapable of making a right decision  at that young age.

Over in this part of the world where I live ,one would try everything possible to live until there is no more alternatives . You do not give up the will to live or survive until you have run out of options . Only those who are too poor who cannot afford those expensive treatment will resigned to their fate. Even if one is poor and if they need financial help , they can always seek donations from the public through the newspapers.

Right or wrong, it is her decision and her parents who accepted her wishes. Our hearts go out for her and we can only pray that she will make the right decisions and hope for divine interventions.

There must be a will to live and to fight against all odds and if there is none ,we will just let life slip away.

Hope is like a road in the country; there was never a road, but when many people walk on it, the road comes into existence. - Lin Yutang:



Reference and thanks to ;-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1084531/Girl-13-wins-right-die-doctors-tried-to-court-force-heart-transplant.html

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1084968/I-know-whats-best-insists-girl-13-refused-life-saving-heart-transplant.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1085236/Is-tragic-Hannah-right-let-life-slip-away-Two-families-facing-dilemma-different-verdicts.html

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A heroic and brave teenager lost his life while trying to catch some snatch thieves. It is a very sad day and our hearts goes out to him and his family for their great loss.

He went to the aid of the victim when he heard the victim's cries for help but unknown to him , it seems like a four men team of snatch thieves on two motor bikes were on the prowl.


While chasing after the first pair, a second pair coming from behind him , kicked his bike ,causing him to fall and knock his head against the road divider. He succumbed to his injuries .

The first pair were dressed in police uniform and pretended to check on the victim's identity by asking her for her ID card. Then one of them snatched her purse and they scooted off.
 I am not sure if they are real cops or bogus ones. There are rogue cops who moonlight as snatch thieves.

If we are stopped by any uniformed or plainclothes policeman, the first thing we need to do is to ask for their authority card and take note of their serial numbers before we do anything they asked .

You will know if they are real or bogus policeman and then take the appropriate actions. If they are aggressive or threatening  then most probably they are bogus cops because real policeman would be polite and civil.

In another case, two snatch thieves in police uniform stopped a man and asked for his identification card and was slapped before they snatched his wallet. The modus operation was the same as the above case.

If  anyone is planning to go after a snatch thief, beware , they do not work alone and most probably in pairs and they may carry offensive weapons on them.

Do not go after them alone, try to get some help or take note of the clothes or the face or the make of his motorbike. The numbers on the motorbike is most probably a false number.

Sometimes what is stolen is not worth the risk .It maybe a few $$$ in her bag and a life is wasted  in this case.. It would be safer to keep your money in your pockets or secret compartments  and carry an inexpensive  handbag just for your other things.

Be alert always, the moment you alight from your vehicle. Survey the scene and if you see a man on a motorbike , be careful.His accomplice is probably nearby waiting for the unsuspecting victim to strike.



Reference and thanks to :-

http://tnp.sg/news/story/0,4136,181989,00.html?

http://www.nst.com.my/Sunday/National/2391136/Article/index_html

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Dare to complain about the service , eat sh*t !

An Australian family holidaying in a Sydney hotel were treated to a very special kind of ice cream after complaining about the bad service . Take that ! Urrgh!

"There were four scoops including vanilla, chocolate and hazelnut. At the bottom, there appeared to be chocolate........"

Don't mess with those service people. You can tip generously but not criticize them or you will get that 'extra's' in your food. Your food may contain less substance or added more substance into it. This is not a joke.

Those people in the service line do not take kindly to your complains . Not all those people are like that but there are black sheep's in those industries and it is your unlucky day if you meet one of those evil people.

The hotel is willing to settle with the victims but the victims are asking for AU$1 million..WOW!!!!!Someone played a prank and it will cost the hotel dearly and a reputation that will go down the gutters.

Whenever I find the service or food is poor, I will not go back to that establishment again and neither do I want to complain about their food or service.

I have heard a few horror stories  from friends who worked previously in those service oriented industries. This story really beats them all! Goodness gracious!

On another news which was some time ago , there was a new restaurant in Taiwan which decorated it's setting like a toilet and the ice cream came in the shape and colour like poo. Boo! Hoo!  Lucky it did not smell like the real thing..I do not know why some people have such kinky and weird taste. Yuck!

Reference and thanks to :-

http://tnp.sg/news/story/0,4136,181655,00.html?

Should I make my own porn video for my husband ?

Whether your husband asked you to make a porn movie for him or you feel the urge to make one for yourself, you will need to ponder the grave consequences and the aftermath of your sex movie.

With today's new technology it is easy for anyone to make a porn movie with one as the main star.  Some have done that and send it to their b/f or husband for his pleasure . There are pro's and cons.

I hold the view that it is inappropriate and stupid to make such a movie as what will happen if your movie falls into the wrong hands? You may think you can keep it in a very safe place but no one can guarantee it will not come out in the open.

There have been cases where such private video's mysteriously appear out of nowhere.

The recent case of the Hong Kong superstar, Edison Chen  where his laptop was sent for repairs and all those intimate pictures of him and several female stars were stolen and uploaded into the net , causing him and those actresses to have a premature end to their bright careers.

No one can guarantee that your b/f or husband will be by your side forever and when one day they are on the other side, your video will become a weapon against you . You will be ashamed and ridiculed  and will have no place to hide your face.

If you do it without your husband's permission , he may be insulted and feel contempt over you . Some men are hypocritical in nature and they have double standards. They like to watch other girls doing it but not their own spouse.

Some men have a higher regard for their spouse and do not expect their spouse to be like those cheap  trash.If you sleep with another women , it is considered cheating and this will affect your relationship with him. You will be blamed for all the ills in your marriage.

Some men watch porn and it maybe just a passing fad or he could if not careful will become a porn addict. Most men watch porn on and off in their life.

There are other ways to encourage him for more sex and making a porn video of oneself  is definitely not the way to solve his lack of interest in sex.

Perhaps watching those porn video's together may make him have more sex  with her. Men are after all visual creatures .


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Why do men cheat on their wives?

Not all men cheat ,only those who are not morally or religiously strong and do not fear God . The fear of God can prevent a man from cheating because he fears the consequences .

A religious person who does not fear God can still cheat because he is only human and tempted by the devil. I believed on our own strength , we will not be able to overcome those temptations.We will need the super natural strength of God to fight against such type of temptations.

One cannot just blame it all on the men because it takes two to tango. Many men will fail the beauty trap. They are just weak and do not have the strength to fight against that temptation or when they are faced with a very young, pretty and sexy siren.

Cheating is wrong and there are no excuses for this crime. They will reap what they sowed.

Men want their wives to be a lady of the house and a courtesan in the bedroom .This is like wanting the beautiful and curvaceous secretary on one side and a nice and loving wife on the other. Most women would not be able to play those twin roles when there are children and a household to run. As a result, some of the men stray and commit this sin .

They are having the cake and eating it as well. The men would like to sit on the fence as long as they can and do nothing about the situation until one side cannot take it any longer and force them to choose..

They will lie through their teeth and will never admit to the affairs even if you have the evidence. To admit the truth will be the end of their world .

We are all humans and there are times when we do not get along well with our partners and at this vulnerable times, affairs can be born. When the man feels there is no more loves ,they tend to stray because of the lack of emotional attachments. Life becomes a bore and they would look outside to satisfy their urges.

Sometimes it is not just about sex but about feelings of being appreciated and loved. They may have been taken for granted by their wives.

If you think it is not your fault that he has cheated , then blame it on their genes. It is no laughing matter when the man cheats. Think of what your wife will go through her mind when she finds out.

It is a very terrible mistake to destroy your family because of one silly mistake. All those years you built up and share with her will be gone forever and would never be the same again. You will regret it all your life.

The lips of another woman is sweet,but its fruit is bitter.

For the lips of a loose woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.

Hebrew, Proverbs 5:3.


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http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating_60/82_dating_list.html

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Snitch On A Cheating friend ?

Would you tell your friend's husband/wife or gf/bf if you found out your friend was cheating?

There are two school of thoughts. One group thinks it is morally right to tell and the other group thinks that it is none of their business. Who is right ?

I do not think it is right to tell our friend that his/her partner is cheating. How do you know s/he is cheating just because you saw them together a few times ? You maybe branded a busy body or a nosy Parker.

Do you have concrete proof that they are cheating? What if you were wrong ? Imagine what untold miseries and harm you would do to your friend and your friendship.

You may think that you are protecting your friend but what right have you to spread unconfirmed informations and malinger someone when you do not know exactly anything about their relationship.

Should you share your suspicions with your friend ,absolutely not! It would be much better if you keep those thoughts to yourself and let your friend find out himself/herself.

What you can only tell your friend is what you saw and nothing else and leave them to find out the real truth. You cannot be seen to be jumping  into the conclusion that he/she is cheating without any concrete evidence based on only what you saw them together.

Your friend may not take kindly to your insinuations about his/her partner. Most of them are very protective of their partners and when you go down that road, their minds are closed and will not listen to any negative ideas unless their relationship are soured and there are questions hanging in the air about their faithfulness or philandering ways. They would live in denial and rationalize their

If they are at the point of getting married, telling them would be like standing infront of the track from an oncoming train.I do not think I will want to do that.

If you are thinking of  snitching on a cheating friend, be prepared that you could be treated like an enemy by one or both of them or your friendship be terminated. In the long run , she may after discovering the truth , accept you back but then the friendship will no more be on the same levels again.


Will it be worth it? Maybe, you need to experience the real situation and find out the truth.



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