Not all men cheat ,only those who are not morally or religiously strong and do not fear God . The fear of God can prevent a man from cheating because he fears the consequences .
A religious person who does not fear God can still cheat because he is only human and tempted by the devil. I believed on our own strength , we will not be able to overcome those temptations.We will need the super natural strength of God to fight against such type of temptations.
One cannot just blame it all on the men because it takes two to tango. Many men will fail the beauty trap. They are just weak and do not have the strength to fight against that temptation or when they are faced with a very young, pretty and sexy siren.
Cheating is wrong and there are no excuses for this crime. They will reap what they sowed.
Men want their wives to be a lady of the house and a courtesan in the bedroom .This is like wanting the beautiful and curvaceous secretary on one side and a nice and loving wife on the other. Most women would not be able to play those twin roles when there are children and a household to run. As a result, some of the men stray and commit this sin .
They are having the cake and eating it as well. The men would like to sit on the fence as long as they can and do nothing about the situation until one side cannot take it any longer and force them to choose..
They will lie through their teeth and will never admit to the affairs even if you have the evidence. To admit the truth will be the end of their world .
We are all humans and there are times when we do not get along well with our partners and at this vulnerable times, affairs can be born. When the man feels there is no more loves ,they tend to stray because of the lack of emotional attachments. Life becomes a bore and they would look outside to satisfy their urges.
Sometimes it is not just about sex but about feelings of being appreciated and loved. They may have been taken for granted by their wives.
If you think it is not your fault that he has cheated , then blame it on their genes. It is no laughing matter when the man cheats. Think of what your wife will go through her mind when she finds out.
It is a very terrible mistake to destroy your family because of one silly mistake. All those years you built up and share with her will be gone forever and would never be the same again. You will regret it all your life.
The lips of another woman is sweet,but its fruit is bitter.
For the lips of a loose woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.
Hebrew, Proverbs 5:3.
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http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating_60/82_dating_list.html
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2 comments:
A short moment of pleasure might cause a long period of pain. I seriously don't see the point. I'm a guy and of course I'll be tempted in such things but when I think of the pros vs the cons, I seriously don't see the point of making such a mistake. Furthermore, how can I possibly go back and face my wife if I've done something like this? Putting on a "fake" face and telling lies to your wife for the entire of your life? That's too torturing.
Hi Alwin,
Thanks for your input. I agree with you but sometimes when we are not confronted with the actual situation , we may hold on to our high grounds.
Many a strong person have succumbed to those temptations. Only those who realized the dangers and their vulnerabilities flee from it.
Those who stay will soon be sucked into the black space.
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