Is Marriage A Sham For Men ?

"Fools enter where angels fear to thread ! " When you are on the outside, you want to get in and when you are on the inside , you want to get out. This is the paradox of marriage.

Who invented the institution of marriage?

Some say it is God while others think it is women.

I do not know but judging from the way women benefits from it all , you would know that answer.

The smart , successful and 30 something women want to marry but when she finds the man , he is disinterested in marrying. Almost on the threshold but yet seem so far  and elusive.

What is there in marriage for the modern men when they have sex, live together like a couple and probably have kids too? They are in a marriage situation short of the legal paper work.

The men can have the cake and eat it. Who can blame them for not wanting to get married when women throw caution to the wind.

This is a disinclination for them to marry and they are enjoying it minus the legal implications when they want to go their separate ways.

Some of the men fear marriage because when they divorce, she would take 50% of his money , the kids, the home  and everything. The percentage of divorce rate is so high these days and even before they want to marry, they are thinking of what they will do if they divorce.

Married guys are often seen to be working off their asses paying for bills and bills and spending less time with the family nor have any sex life. Sometimes, they don't even get along with their kids which added to their problems.

If you married the wonderful and good wife , it is your good luck. Many others have married the angel who later morphed into a deceitful, treacherous , sly , manipulative and controlling hag.  Marriage is about power, money and sex and it is inevitable when they are two totally and completely  different  beings.

A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband. A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife. Some men will not know about real happiness until they got married and by then it was too late.

Marriage is not a word; it is a long sentence for the men.


For further readings; -


http://www.nomarriage.com/why_men_should_not_marry.html

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080905164111AAIFxbJ