Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Dare to complain about the service , eat sh*t !


An Australian family holidaying in a Sydney hotel were treated to a very special kind of ice cream after complaining about the bad service . Take that ! Urrgh!

"There were four scoops including vanilla, chocolate and hazelnut. At the bottom, there appeared to be chocolate........"

Don't mess with those service people. You can tip generously but not criticize them or you will get that 'extra's' in your food. Your food may contain less substance or added more substance into it. This is not a joke.

Those people in the service line do not take kindly to your complains . Not all those people are like that but there are black sheep's in those industries and it is your unlucky day if you meet one of those evil people.

The hotel is willing to settle with the victims but the victims are asking for AU$1 million..WOW!!!!!Someone played a prank and it will cost the hotel dearly and a reputation that will go down the gutters.

Whenever I find the service or food is poor, I will not go back to that establishment again and neither do I want to complain about their food or service.

I have heard a few horror stories  from friends who worked previously in those service oriented industries. This story really beats them all! Goodness gracious!

On another news which was some time ago , there was a new restaurant in Taiwan which decorated it's setting like a toilet and the ice cream came in the shape and colour like poo. Boo! Hoo!  Lucky it did not smell like the real thing..I do not know why some people have such kinky and weird taste. Yuck!

Reference and thanks to :-

http://tnp.sg/news/story/0,4136,181655,00.html?


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Monday, October 27, 2008

Should I make my own porn video for my husband ?

Whether your husband asked you to make a porn movie for him or you feel the urge to make one for yourself, you will need to ponder the grave consequences and the aftermath of your sex movie.

With today's new technology it is easy for anyone to make a porn movie with one as the main star.  Some have done that and send it to their b/f or husband for his pleasure . There are pro's and cons.

I hold the view that it is inappropriate and stupid to make such a movie as what will happen if your movie falls into the wrong hands? You may think you can keep it in a very safe place but no one can guarantee it will not come out in the open.

There have been cases where such private video's mysteriously appear out of nowhere.

The recent case of the Hong Kong superstar, Edison Chen  where his laptop was sent for repairs and all those intimate pictures of him and several female stars were stolen and uploaded into the net , causing him and those actresses to have a premature end to their bright careers.

No one can guarantee that your b/f or husband will be by your side forever and when one day they are on the other side, your video will become a weapon against you . You will be ashamed and ridiculed  and will have no place to hide your face.

If you do it without your husband's permission , he may be insulted and feel contempt over you . Some men are hypocritical in nature and they have double standards. They like to watch other girls doing it but not their own spouse.

Some men have a higher regard for their spouse and do not expect their spouse to be like those cheap  trash.If you sleep with another women , it is considered cheating and this will affect your relationship with him. You will be blamed for all the ills in your marriage.

Some men watch porn and it maybe just a passing fad or he could if not careful will become a porn addict. Most men watch porn on and off in their life.

There are other ways to encourage him for more sex and making a porn video of oneself  is definitely not the way to solve his lack of interest in sex.

Perhaps watching those porn video's together may make him have more sex  with her. Men are after all visual creatures .


Related topic:-
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-make-my-own-porn-video-for.html


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Why do men cheat on their wives?

Not all men cheat ,only those who are not morally or religiously strong and do not fear God . The fear of God can prevent a man from cheating because he fears the consequences .

A religious person who does not fear God can still cheat because he is only human and tempted by the devil. I believed on our own strength , we will not be able to overcome those temptations.We will need the super natural strength of God to fight against such type of temptations.

One cannot just blame it all on the men because it takes two to tango. Many men will fail the beauty trap. They are just weak and do not have the strength to fight against that temptation or when they are faced with a very young, pretty and sexy siren.

Cheating is wrong and there are no excuses for this crime. They will reap what they sowed.

Men want their wives to be a lady of the house and a courtesan in the bedroom .This is like wanting the beautiful and curvaceous secretary on one side and a nice and loving wife on the other. Most women would not be able to play those twin roles when there are children and a household to run. As a result, some of the men stray and commit this sin .

They are having the cake and eating it as well. The men would like to sit on the fence as long as they can and do nothing about the situation until one side cannot take it any longer and force them to choose..

They will lie through their teeth and will never admit to the affairs even if you have the evidence. To admit the truth will be the end of their world .

We are all humans and there are times when we do not get along well with our partners and at this vulnerable times, affairs can be born. When the man feels there is no more loves ,they tend to stray because of the lack of emotional attachments. Life becomes a bore and they would look outside to satisfy their urges.

Sometimes it is not just about sex but about feelings of being appreciated and loved. They may have been taken for granted by their wives.

If you think it is not your fault that he has cheated , then blame it on their genes. It is no laughing matter when the man cheats. Think of what your wife will go through her mind when she finds out.

It is a very terrible mistake to destroy your family because of one silly mistake. All those years you built up and share with her will be gone forever and would never be the same again. You will regret it all your life.

The lips of another woman is sweet,but its fruit is bitter.

For the lips of a loose woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.

Hebrew, Proverbs 5:3.


Related posts ;-

http://20-forty.com/2008/10/22/why-men-cheat/

http://ezinearticles.com/?Why-Do-Men-Cheat-on-Their-Wives?-The-Reasons-Why-Men-Lie-About-Cheating&id=1127972

http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating_60/82_dating_list.html

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Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Snitch On A Cheating friend ?

Would you tell your friend's husband/wife or gf/bf if you found out your friend was cheating?

There are two school of thoughts. One group thinks it is morally right to tell and the other group thinks that it is none of their business. Who is right ?

I do not think it is right to tell our friend that his/her partner is cheating. How do you know s/he is cheating just because you saw them together a few times ? You maybe branded a busy body or a nosy Parker.

Do you have concrete proof that they are cheating? What if you were wrong ? Imagine what untold miseries and harm you would do to your friend and your friendship.

You may think that you are protecting your friend but what right have you to spread unconfirmed informations and malinger someone when you do not know exactly anything about their relationship.

Should you share your suspicions with your friend ,absolutely not! It would be much better if you keep those thoughts to yourself and let your friend find out himself/herself.

What you can only tell your friend is what you saw and nothing else and leave them to find out the real truth. You cannot be seen to be jumping  into the conclusion that he/she is cheating without any concrete evidence based on only what you saw them together.

Your friend may not take kindly to your insinuations about his/her partner. Most of them are very protective of their partners and when you go down that road, their minds are closed and will not listen to any negative ideas unless their relationship are soured and there are questions hanging in the air about their faithfulness or philandering ways. They would live in denial and rationalize their

If they are at the point of getting married, telling them would be like standing infront of the track from an oncoming train.I do not think I will want to do that.

If you are thinking of  snitching on a cheating friend, be prepared that you could be treated like an enemy by one or both of them or your friendship be terminated. In the long run , she may after discovering the truth , accept you back but then the friendship will no more be on the same levels again.


Will it be worth it? Maybe, you need to experience the real situation and find out the truth.



Related topic :-

http://www.everywomansblog.com/should-we-tell-her-shes-marrying-a-cheater


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Is Having Sex Everyday Good or Bad ?

"Having sex everyday will keep the doctor away!" This is not a fallacy as sex is medically proven to keep you healthy and good looking. You do not have to go to those expensive slimming courses or belong to any gym club because you will be burning calories when you have sex.

The more athletic the sex, the more you will burn and stay fitter.Sex is also an antidepressant. When you have sex and enjoying those pleasures, your body produces a substance called serotonin which acts like an antidepressant drug Prozac. This is natural antidepressant produced by your body.
When you feel stressed, sex is the natural antidote .

Regular love sessions can also postpone the onset of menopause, stimulate fertility, and regulate the menstrual cycle.For the men , the more sex they have ., the more the body produces the hormone testosterone. The hormone is able to stimulate tissue replacement and bone growth and prevent osteoporosis.Overall, you would feel much better after sex and you have a longer life span.

In theory ,it is good for our health but in reality it is difficult to have sex everyday as we are so busy with work and stress and are affected by circumstances in life. Maybe, those married couples should try to fit in the time whenever possible.

There are other physiological and psychological factors which has to be taken into account.They may not be able to have sex everyday but as long as they feel contented and happy with each other, they have achieved their objectives in life.

Is there any side effects from too much sex?

Medically, I think there are no negative side effects as long as you take care of your diets,eat the proper and rich diet , have enough rest and sleep .

The advantages of sex out weights the disadvantages. If you want to stay healthy and be free from sickness, you should consider this natural remedy.

Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.4-men.org/reasonsforsex.html



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Sunday, October 19, 2008

Why Do Men Take Second Wives?

Some men take second wives or third wives or keep a harem. If the women does not submit to being the second or third wives, then there is really no question about this issue.

Are today's modern and liberated women any different from their peers of eon's ago? Have today's educated and emancipated women able to break away from their traditionalist thinking's ?

Most of today's women are more independent minded, ambitious and career oriented and some may even make more than the men. This has lead to a dire situation where there are few compatible men as women would rather marry upwards or prefer those on the same level as them. .Women of today are getting married later or not getting married at all  because of the present situation.

It may not be a bad preposition to be the second wife or third as long as their needs are well taken care off .They live peacefully and are happy to be in that situation. There are of course two sides of this issue.

What is the point of being the only wife when she does not enjoy what she is entitled to under a marriage ? One man one wife concept may deem fair but the world does not evolve that way.

Many men and women are tempted to cheat while being married and this is the cause of the high divorce rate.Rather than cheat on the sideline, it would be better to make it legitimate and solve all those heartaches and problems of a cheating spouse.

It is a culture or religion in some societies to have several wives . In the olden times , the women from those poor families offered their daughters in marriage to those rich men as they could not afford to feed them and it was the only way for their daughters to escape from poverty and enjoy a fruitful and blessed life. Some of them became servants to those rich people who later married them .


Some people cannot even afford to marry  but those who are rich and powerful have many wives , mistresses ,lovers and whatnots.

 As long as they are happy  , what is there to prevent the men from marrying more than one wife and women being the other wives. What if there are more women than men?

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Saturday, October 18, 2008

The World's Most Expensive Bra - A Whopping US$5 Millions !!

Not many will be able to afford it and no one in the right frame of mind will wear it on them except in their dreams.It would have to be specially fitted on the very lucky woman.

Adriana Lima is pictured here wearing the most expensive bra in the world.

 It contains 3,575 black diamonds, 117 certified one-carat round diamonds and 34 rubies, adorned with nearly 3,900 stunning gems.

The wearer of this bra would have the right contours to match this extravagant and exquisite bra like Adriana.

The bra alone would not be appealing if not for the sexy and curvaceous Brazilian model. This goes to show that it is not the bra but the beautiful bode which brings out the beauty. The jewels that are within are more priceless than those on the outside, others may not agree with my views.

For the ordinary Jane's, bra's can be pricey enough even without those stones.





Reference and thanks to ;-

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/showbiz/bizarre/article1822041.ece

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Sunday, October 12, 2008

My In-Laws Are Making My Life Miserable...

Before you fall in love with a guy , you should not only check him out thoroughly but also his parents or specifically his mother or your future MIL.Failure to do this would  bring you untold miseries and make your life on Earth like hell.

Check out their relationships and what kind of relationships the guy has with his mother.  Is he the independent type or is he the filial son to his mother.This will have a very important bearings to your happiness and sanity.

Do not because of love ignore this checking out of your future MIL. Ignore it at your own perils! You may think you are only  marrying his son but it can be a big mistake if you think his mother does not influence his opinions on many things. His actions or in actions will give you plenty of heartaches and headaches.

If you do not want to have any MIL problems , you should seek out his opinions on whether you will be staying together with the MIL or only the two of you after you are married.

The best course after you have married is to move out and stay alone from either parents and live your own life together without any complications from either parents.It is hard enough to understand a man without the complexities of the MIL who would probably give you hell for taking away her son away from her. No matter how good is your in laws, sooner or later , there will be a clash of cultures and opinions .

What if you are already in that situation where you have no choice and your overbearing MIL is lording over your life and treating you like dirt ?

You cannot expect your husband to take your side as he is torn between you and his mother. By right he should be on your side but many a man do not see it this way. Many will think of their mother first and wife second.

If the situation has deteriorated into a no win situation and untenable , you need to stand up to your MIL's abuses and tell her to F.O and leave your husband and family: if the worst comes to the worst.Stand up for your rights to live the way you want or you will be trampled upon.

If you are not going to fight this war,no one will fight it for you . You will forever lose everything and you become like a zombie or be treated worst than a refugee in your own home.

There is no guarantee that you can win this war and not suffer the consequences but this is the only way , if you want to gain back your rights and live your own life with your man.

A trial separation is good because it will enable them to think of what they will miss when you are not there , for they have taken you for granted. However , you must be prepared that things may not go the way you envisioned. Your spineless husband may give you up and if that happens, it is better you seek a divorce and find another man .

If he wants you back , then it will be on your terms and they will have to respect you and your rights. If he does not want you , it is pointless going back to that kind of life.  Start a new life ,get a job and be independent.


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Thursday, October 2, 2008

Is Marriage A Sham For Men ?

"Fools enter where angels fear to thread ! " When you are on the outside, you want to get in and when you are on the inside , you want to get out. This is the paradox of marriage.

Who invented the institution of marriage?

Some say it is God while others think it is women.

I do not know but judging from the way women benefits from it all , you would know that answer.

The smart , successful and 30 something women want to marry but when she finds the man , he is disinterested in marrying. Almost on the threshold but yet seem so far  and elusive.

What is there in marriage for the modern men when they have sex, live together like a couple and probably have kids too? They are in a marriage situation short of the legal paper work.

The men can have the cake and eat it. Who can blame them for not wanting to get married when women throw caution to the wind.

This is a disinclination for them to marry and they are enjoying it minus the legal implications when they want to go their separate ways.

Some of the men fear marriage because when they divorce, she would take 50% of his money , the kids, the home  and everything. The percentage of divorce rate is so high these days and even before they want to marry, they are thinking of what they will do if they divorce.

Married guys are often seen to be working off their asses paying for bills and bills and spending less time with the family nor have any sex life. Sometimes, they don't even get along with their kids which added to their problems.

If you married the wonderful and good wife , it is your good luck. Many others have married the angel who later morphed into a deceitful, treacherous , sly , manipulative and controlling hag.  Marriage is about power, money and sex and it is inevitable when they are two totally and completely  different  beings.

A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband. A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife. Some men will not know about real happiness until they got married and by then it was too late.

Marriage is not a word; it is a long sentence for the men.


For further readings; -


http://www.nomarriage.com/why_men_should_not_marry.html



http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080905164111AAIFxbJ

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