Whether your husband asked you to make a porn movie for him or you feel the urge to make one for yourself, you will need to ponder the grave consequences and the aftermath of your sex movie.
With today's new technology it is easy for anyone to make a porn movie with one as the main star. Some have done that and send it to their b/f or husband for his pleasure . There are pro's and cons.
I hold the view that it is inappropriate and stupid to make such a movie as what will happen if your movie falls into the wrong hands? You may think you can keep it in a very safe place but no one can guarantee it will not come out in the open.
There have been cases where such private video's mysteriously appear out of nowhere.
The recent case of the Hong Kong superstar, Edison Chen where his laptop was sent for repairs and all those intimate pictures of him and several female stars were stolen and uploaded into the net , causing him and those actresses to have a premature end to their bright careers.
No one can guarantee that your b/f or husband will be by your side forever and when one day they are on the other side, your video will become a weapon against you . You will be ashamed and ridiculed and will have no place to hide your face.
If you do it without your husband's permission , he may be insulted and feel contempt over you . Some men are hypocritical in nature and they have double standards. They like to watch other girls doing it but not their own spouse.
Some men have a higher regard for their spouse and do not expect their spouse to be like those cheap trash.If you sleep with another women , it is considered cheating and this will affect your relationship with him. You will be blamed for all the ills in your marriage.
Some men watch porn and it maybe just a passing fad or he could if not careful will become a porn addict. Most men watch porn on and off in their life.
There are other ways to encourage him for more sex and making a porn video of oneself is definitely not the way to solve his lack of interest in sex.
Perhaps watching those porn video's together may make him have more sex with her. Men are after all visual creatures .
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I always wonder why do people make their own porn when they can get so many porn videos out there which is professionally produced.
Thanks for your input.
I do not know the exact truth but can only speculate about their wish to make a porn video.
It has got to be their ego's, low self esteem or their selfishness. They do not want their b/f or husband to look at other attractive women.
They think that after looking at her porn , those men will desire them only.
I wish my wife made a porn video for me. When she is not around for days I look at her nude pics and feel like she is with me it is a wonderful feeling.
My husband is only home on weekends and gets pent up during the week. He doesn't care to look at other women and so I brought up the idea of me making a short video of myself. He was very happy.
Each person is entitled to their own personal opinions so I will not attempt to disrespect yours. However, while I agree that it is important to consider the consequences of making a porn video and nothing digital can ever truly be hidden, I disagree with your opinion that it is inappropriate or stupid to make one if you keep in mind that there could definitely be repercussions and are willing to accept them. For some couples, making a porn could be a valid way to keep the spark alive. I also highly doubt that all women who consider making a porn for or with their husbands or boyfriends has anything to do with their egos or sense of self-worth.
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