Thinking of prostituting yourself ?

When life is hard and the bills are piling up , many women will entertain the thought of becoming a prostitute to make more money or to survive in this harsh and unfriendly world.

For some , it may be a matter of life and death but for others it is their choice as they want to earn a lot of money and live on the fast lanes.

She is at a wit's end and she knows that the quickest way to make more money is by prostituting her body.Prostitution is the oldest profession and there is always a demand for those type of services.

It is the last resort she will have to if she cannot resolve her financial woes.

It does not require any special skills but to only rent out her body for a short period of time and the income is lucrative enough to entice her and make her ignore the perils of this trade. Money considerations over rides all her moral and psychological objections.

What she see's is more more money and riches for her to live the high society life and be able to afford what she wants.

She maybe influenced by those movies which portrayed the unrealistic life of those hookers.

They only showed the good side without mentioning the dark, evil and degrading aspects of this work.

You are a woman and alone in that sleazy and dark underworld where violence , toxic diseases and deaths rules.

If the STD's or AIDS don't get you , your life would be worthless as you are like a lump of meat for consumption by others.
You could be raped, tortured or sold as a sex slave.

Some women do it on a part time basis and make some side incomes to live a materialistic life.

There are others who venture there simply for the thrills and the excitements.

What profits a man if he owns the whole world but lose his life .

Reference and thanks to:-

http://www.divaasia.com/article/3397

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Little children are turning into mini adults.

Young in body but having the mentality of an adult woman. It is like a 10 years old girl impatiently wishing to have the body of an 18 years old.
They are growing up too fast and may well burnt out when they reach 25.

Whatever has become of these young girls?

These breed of young girls as young as 10 are thinking of boys ,dates, sex ,diets,make ups, manicure and breast implants.

They are no more interested in those normal activities that girls of their age do.

Their well to do parents indulge them and spends large sums of money on their outfits, shoes , handbags ,accessories and beauty treatments .

At this early age, they have develop such a spendthrift attitude and what would happen when they graduate and their incomes cannot sustain their
materialistic lifestyles?

They may have felt that their daughter have special talents and deserves the best and probably wanted them to become top class models .

These girls are maturing at a very fast pace and may have leap frog the childhood phase in their life.

Children should be allowed to be children and allow them to develop at their own pace. If we forced them to become adults too quickly , it may have social and psychological implications in their adult life.

There are other parents who cannot stop the march of these child woman.They may be too involved with their own activities or too busy working and left them to their own devices. Those child woman have a mind of their own .

Most parents do not impose clear boundaries and limits or what constitutes appropriate or inappropriate behaviours. If they are too strict , the child may run away from home.

They are growing up so fast and the world is changing .You cannot impose your generation's views and outdated ideas on them.

There is nothing much the mother can do unless she wants to lock her up in the cellar.

Doing that will only earn their anger and forced them to be rebellious.They need to be in tune with their friends or the new age criteria.

With all those technological advances , the electronic medias are churning out those extremely thin and glamourous images of those stars which is far from the realities of real life .

Those subliminal messages are causing them to have obsessions with their figures.

Today's children are much more aware and more intelligent and can find out about anything and everything from the internet.

Our children are being bombarded and inundated with those unrealistic images and being young , they are not emotionally matured enough to differentiate the realities of life. They would think that is the truth and would try to follow those high standards.

Because of those erroneous images, the children have develop anxieties
about their figures .They become very fashion conscious and want to follow the latest trends.

They think they are fat and not thin enough or not beautiful enough and many suffer from anorexia.


Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1174626/Rise-child-women-The-new-breed-girls-young-dream-manicures-diets-breast-implants.html?fark

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Why having friends is essentially important to married women ?

No man is an island and for women this is more true because her life would not be satisfactory if she lives alone or without her friends especially her female friends.

A woman is a pack animal for she is not made to live a loner . She needs the support and camaraderie of her own kinds in order to survive in this unfair world.

After getting married , her friends will slowly fade into the background as she devouts much of her time to her new world .She may move away from her old friends to a new set of his friends.


Her partner may try to cut her off from all her friends as he may dislike her for mixing with them and poisoning her mind against him.Those men prefer them to be ignorant and under their controls.

In the new world , she may not have the time for her friends but when things are settled down , she should resume her friendship with some of her best friends.

As we go along in life , we will have many types of friends.From childhood to the end of our days. We will meet lots of people and they become our friends .Friends who know who you are and meet daily or see each other often. Some people can make friends easily because they are friendly and warmth while some are cold and aloof.

True friends are a rarity , who stick around through thick and thin with you . We have many friends whom we call drink buddies .

True friendship is something special. It gives you support and companionship, builds up your self-esteem and shares your joys , happiness and whatever emotional ups and downs. Having a true friend means you are never completely alone.

There are three types of friends:-

1. Friendships made through shared activities such as evening or natal classes, sport or work. The relationships that you form with these people can seem very intense because you spend so much time with them,but in fact, they are often superficially pleasant, but not very deep and they may end once you move on.

2. Historical friendships that go back many years, perhaps childhood, schooldays or teenage years.You often feel warm and nostalgic about these friendships but they too could still be quite superficial.

3.Soul friendships are the most lasting. These are the people you trust and open up to. You tell them the truth about yourself, your life, and your feelings. You don't have to play games and you can let your guard down. Bless you if your friendship is a soul friendship.

There is another kind of friends,internet friends. Friends you have never met in real life until your paths crossed.You know them in the virtual world and they may share their secrets with you like a very close and intimate friend.

A man cannot talk about many girlish subjects and when it comes to woman's affairs, it will take another woman to understand what they are going through.Women relate better with each other and this is why they need their friends to keep them sane .

Her friends are like the sunlight , the water and the fertilizer and without them , she will wilt and not bloom to her full potentials.

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The Professional Seducers

They are lady killers or man killers and their prey will not know what hit them until it is too late. They have been set up by their jealous and suspecting spouse to catch their infidelities.

These women are like super spies and will do whatever to achieve their targets. They will have to sleep with their prey to make it look real. Imagine your work is just to sizzle up to a man and then get paid handsomely after the case is closed .

...she has no qualms
 and is like  
a Fembot,a female robot,
the Terminator kind     and you are in their radar...

Whether it is morally right or wrong is up to you to decide. She can be considered an angel of death because she will destroy your marriage as an agent provocateur.

Even if you have not committed any infidelity , you would be tempted and many a man will not pass the beauty test. Most men will succumb and fall into the trap of those sirens.It is easier to manipulate a man than a woman because woman are more suspicious,careful  and more demanding .
Women don’t have affairs for fun; for them it’s serious. They not only want sex but also love.

In Japan, there is a new breed of professional seducers and they live a double life, as a secretary  during the day but a professional seducer during the night. It is a sting job. She will be like a 'Mata-hari' and will be equipped with all those spy equipments and with backup supports .

Some women wanted a divorce from their husbands but were unsuccessful and they had no other recourse but to use this tactic so that he will grant her a divorce. Or if that failed, she would have a dossier about his secret affairs and getting a divorce would be no problem for her.

Those PI companies not only dealt with those wayward spouses but also reunited those who broke up. They capitalize on their expertize in every fields and even offered personal advises .They were like a one stop agency to solve your problems in life.

For those who can afford those services, it was money worth spending.

Reference and thanks to:-

http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article4619389.ece

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Retiring Abroad ?

It is human nature to want the best and we think that the grass is always greener on the other side of the world.

We may face discrimination's in our own country or think that we are being sidelined by the government policies and as a result we find the option of going abroad a welcoming prospect.

We may think that they are earning much more than we are over here relatively but it is only when they earn there and spend here that they enjoy the benefits . If they are staying there and spending there , it does not make much of a difference.

For those who are gifted or professionals , the sky is the limit because the government there recognized talents unlike here where there are glass ceilings and you cannot move up even if you are very talented because of the color of your skin.

  ABRAHAM LINCOLN

 "And in the end, it's not     the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years."

Most people on this side of the world think that the USA or any Western countries is a good place to retire abroad or emigrate. There maybe some good advantages living there but it is not a bed of roses. You will have to deal with the different climate ,the people, the culture and the food .

Most of us like to day dream after watching and reading all those news about those countries and think it is an ideal place to live in. There are those who have been living abroad who felt like wanting to come back but because of red tape are unable to do so.

Many talented Malaysians are living abroad and we are experiencing a major brain drain and human resources .The authorities does not give a damned and wished them good riddance .

For the rest of us who are neither rich nor have special talents ,we are stuck here forever come what may.We can only dream and watch the other side of the world on the T.V monitors.

Though if given the chance to emigrate, I think i will stay put here . We have been so familiar with the lifestyle here and uprooting from here can be a very momentous decision.

My life is so simple and peaceful and I am contented and we have to bend with the times or where the political wind blows.

Where ever you are , there is no milk and honey and you have to work to earn your livings.After so many years living here and to uproot and plant yourself in another foreign land and to start all over again can be very depressing and demoralizing.

We were born here and we will die here and as for our children , they can decide if they want to go abroad .They are young and the outside world beckons to them.



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Woman's Fears...

Women age faster than men . They worries too much and fears one too many. From childhood , they develop the fear syndrome or it is inbued into their complex system during their upbringings .She will develop this insecure feelings all her life.

They are shackled by the social , political and  patriarchal culture which portrayed them as weaklings and incapable of self protection  or preservation's. It was essentially making them a second class citizen and subservient to the men until the 50's when they fought for their civil rights and emancipation's.

Their fears are real and the men need to understand their vulnerability. Woman's psychological fears can be frightening and can sometimes immobilized them .

They can fear success , failures, rapes ,death , diseases, the pain of childbirth, rejections, making mistakes, losing their husbands,divorce ,custody of their children , fear of the future, and the list is too long to categorize here.

If she is a married women , she will have this fear of her husband leaving her  one day for somebody else.She watches over him like a guard dog and bares her teeth at any intruders which comes within range of her territory. Even just looking at another girl  can send her blood temperature up.

"Only when we are no longer afraid do we begin to live."- Dorothy Thomson

If she does not know how to handle her fears , she can be very neurotic and become sick from those fears.

We know we are only human and if we know the truth and be knowledgeable , we will conquer those ill founded and irrational fears and live a more healthy life.

Everything is providence or fated. Our worries and our fears will only be an impediment to our well beings. I leave everything to God and whatever happens , we should accept the results.
We cannot change the future nor be able to see what will happen in the future.

Our fears and worries will not change the course of history. Whatever happens is a foregone conclusions. It is destiny.

What is your worst fear?

I have nothing to fear. I have run the race as best as I can and I wait for my time to return to my maker. While waiting I will blog as much as I want before my time is up.

"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."
--- Frank Herbert, Dune - Bene Gesserit Litany Against Fear

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Are Today's Modern Men Immature , Insensitive And Sex Mad ?

Today's young men are different from the young men of a generation ago. Each succeeding new generations will have it"s own standards and norms of behaviours. Whether they are good or bad depends on each individual's outlook.

The world has changed a lot with the advent of all those technological and electronic inventions and new gizmos. The computer age has  created a border less world .You can connect with each other any where on this planet and distance is no barrier.

The computer is like your window to the world and you do not have to get out of the house to enjoy seeing the world.You can do it within the confines and comforts of your house.

The young people of today speaks a different language and their characters are moulded by the events and happenings of the new world .The young men of yesteryear's were not as tempted as what the new generations are facing now.

The older generations may typecast these young men as being childish, immature , insensitive and sex obsessed. The new generations are a pampered lot and most of them have not face hardships or know what hardship is all about.

They grow up in some middle class family background and because they have not faced any big problems in their life, they live a sedate lifestyle and their maturity are somewhat slower and lower  as compared to the last generations.

What is maturity ?

This is not easy to quantify as various people have different ideas about maturity. In my opinion , a person is only matured when s/he is married and have children. You may be old in years but if you do not marry or have kids, you are not really matured and you tend to have a lower maturity level than a married person of a younger age than you. Responsibility comes with maturity.

Maturity is just a perception and where do we use a yardstick to measure a person's maturity?

If you belong to the older generations , then you will see that today's teens are less matured than them. They are caught in the headlong traffic of getting a degree and it is all about study and study and getting the right results.

They are a pressured lot and achievements are expected upon them by their parents. It is like a rat world .Everyone wants to win  and are afraid to lose.

With the computer age, more pornography is available and sex crimes are on a rise . I would not say that they are sex mad but they do not believe in the sanctity of marriage anymore  and have sex whenever available .

In the present world, it is normal to have kids outside of marriage and sleeping around is very common.Having multiple sex partners is also the norm these days. Some females would say that some men are more geared towards sex than the responsibilities that it brings. Sex without any strings attached.

This is just my generalizations only as there are many men that are matured , sensitive and not sex mad. You read about women not finding the right men because of these factors. How true is it?

Maybe , another factor is men are getting more effiminate and laid back and waiting for the women to come after them.

"To a woman the first kiss is just the end of the beginning but to a man it is the beginning of the end."


Reference and thanks to ;-

http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/world/2008-07/25/content_6877284.htm

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A Woman's Place Is In The Home ?

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If you are living in the 50's , you may be forgiven for saying that. Most women at that time were stay at home moms (SAHM) , looking after the babies, the husband and the home.

This was because there were few jobs for women at that time. They were treated like baby making factories and the stereotype female roles they had to play in that kind of society.

SAHM

The decision may looked difficult but it all boils down to whether you think of your children first or yourself first. Being a SAHM may be unrewarding as compared to a supermom but it is fulfilling to see him/her grow up to be a better and more rounded person.

Those that come from a SAHM environment are more equipped in life and have a better understanding than those who grow up with their absent moms.

It can be a big struggle and sacrifice to give up your career for your children but the decision to become a SAHM is all about giving your best to the child.You brought the child into this world and you let others take care of her/him. It is just like the animal kingdom. We are a higher life form .

If we bring children into this world and then give up most of our time and resources to career, then we are no better than rabbits . Rabbits are much better than us for they looked after the young till they can fend for themselves.

Rabbits are cute!

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Would you like her/him to grow up without any close family relationship ? The children will grow up without any close or just superficial bond with the supermom. When you are old, they may return you the favour..It is Karma.
We know that in the Western society , the children will grow up and leave their parents , while in the Eastern society, the children will still have ties to their parents until they leave this world.

But this filial piety is slowly disappearing as the children get caught up with the attritions of life and simply have no time to be filial to their parents anymore. Some countries had to make it a law for the children to take care of their parents.

Many of today's generations abandoned their poor parents and left to the state to take care of them.It was a heavy burden since they required more medical support.

Sometimes, it is not about the financial plights or to downgrade to a lower standard of living , it is about bonding with our children. You can be surprised that you can have a lovely and rich life while you exist in the average middle class family or the poor. It was more fun and the children will enjoy their childhood .

It is not about living in a bigger house, driving a bigger car and more of all those material things. Those material things cloud out our real purpose in life . We should concentrate on the human developments

Each and every women will have to decide which is more important to her. Working together to build up a home or an empire.

Being a SAHM is also a full time job though it is often unappreciated ,underpaid and unglamourous .
Think of your life when you were small. If you grew up with a supermom, you would know what you need to do to give your children the best in life.

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Physiomom SAHM or Supermom? Why not share your thoughts with her?

http://laura1318.wordpress.com/2008/07/16/the-working-mum-from-the-daughters-perspective/

Reference and thanks to ;-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1042454/Are-supermums-selfish-Here-mothers-fiercely-opposing-views-mothers-place-home.html

Jesus replied, "What is impossible with men is possible with God."

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Is There A Meaning And Purpose In Life?

What is our purpose in life..?

Does life consist of eating ,working, sleeping and exhaling ? Everyday we do the same things over and over again. Some of us may never find out what is our main purpose in our existence.

We were brought into this world not of our choice. Our parents came together, made love and you were the result of that incident.

We may go from the cradle to the tomb and never find out what we are doing in this world.

There are many questions about life which has no answers, or the answers are as elusive as the mist in the morning.

Why u were brought into this world?

Your parents met and fell in love and u were the result of that union.Your mother breastfed you and took care of all your needs till you reached the threshold of your adult life.

Now that you have entered the adult world , you began to think of your sole purpose in life,or what is the real meaning of life?

You found employment to support yourself and gained independent from your parents.You become an entity by yourself.Work does not give u any meanings, it is only a means to an end .Work is a stepping stone to your meaning of life.

Some may never discover what is their purpose in life or some only when they are in their late stages of life.

When they have found what is the purpose of life, they have found their Utopia.
One of the most noble meaning of life is to help others who are the less fortunate.

These people donate money , time and efforts to give hope of a better life to the downtrodden and the unfortunates.Helping others is a meaningful act .Give and you shall be given.

Some become God’s preachers and go out to evangelize and teach the words of God.They find it meaningful ,spreading God’s message of hope and salvation for mankind.

Many of us are just mundane and ordinary people like you and me.We don't have much to donate and are tied down with a job and have to work like slaves to support our family for a better life.We don't have lofty aims but just want to provide a comfortable life to our family.

Those singles and unmarried would want to find a suitable mate to marry and start a family . That would give them a meaning of life. To be a parent and grandparent and find fulfillment.

Blogging here is also meaningful as there are people who will read your crazy ‘craps’ No hard feelings mate . It is just some unstable soul pouring out her poison out of her system.

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Growing Old

I don't know if I will get old or not . I hope that I wont grow old and may God take me away when I cannot work anymore to support myself.

To think of going to live with someone and to depend on them totally be it my daughter or son is not my kind of life. It is a great burden to the young to support the old.

Like the Eskimo people , the old will wander into the wild to die or to be eaten by those polar bears. This maybe a radical thought and when the time comes, I wonder if I am able to do it.


The young do not understand the old .The feelings are not the same. A father may sacrifice everything for his children but a son may only think his father is a burden to him.He is too young to understand until he becomes a father and grows older and wiser.


What the father did was a responsibility and it is the responsibility of the father to bring him up.It is like you get an allowance from the government and you don't feel any personal relationship with the government.


You don't feel for your parent’s sacrifice and love who brought u into this world but you only know what you wanted and treated them just like a cash dispensing machine.

When the father is old and unable to work, he would grudgingly take him in but treat the father in a shoddy way and expects the father to blend in with their lifestyle.

The father comes from another world .They are in their twilight world and asking them to change to their lifestyle is wrong.We should allow them to live their way as they have been doing.

We think this is progress and they should change their outlooks to reflect our lifestyles.Some people may feel ashamed of their fathers background or lack of education or country peasant looks.

If without your father/mother, you would not be what you are today. Just love them and allow them to live the life they are so used to…..

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Want To Be His Mistress?

In the past,in the Eastern society, the rich man could afford to have many mistresses and many women would not mind being his mistress because they enjoyed all the material things which was lavished on to them.

It was the passport to escape from poverty and whatever misgivings or inconveniences was worth the rewards. These girls married for money and not for love.

If you had a choice , would you prefer to be his wife or his mistress ?

Some woman do not have a choice or Hobson's choice as either they were tricked or cheated by the man or they allowed themselves to be maneuvered into this position. They loved the married man and could not give them up and settled down to be his mistress even though they knew it was not to their best advantage to be in that position.

With the turn of the century where women are liberated and emancipated, most of today's modern women are in the work force. Not all the women get to filled up those highly paid post and most women are employed at the lower levels with lesser pay. The pay may just be enough for them to survive or to support their families back home.

In the big cities , temptations are many and some of these girls are attracted to those bright lights and are slowly drawned to it.

Many of these young , highly educated girls are gainfully employed but many cannot achieve their aspirations of a better life just by their salaries alone or by their own hard labour.

They see others are enjoying a higher standards of life by making themselves available to those rich man or high flyer's who dined and wined them .Life seems so much easier when you can find a rich partner .

They maybe hesitant at first due to ethical and moral considerations but economic and the good life drowned out their resistance and so they too are attracted to that good life.

Some may not be other's mistress but become social escorts or provide some special services where they get rewarded handsomely for their services rendered.

They want a better life, to be able to afford nice beautiful and expensive clothes and accessories,be driven in those sleek sport cars or luxury cars,holidays dine in high class establishments and go partying in clubs .

This is a materialistic world. Nobody gives a damned how you make your money but people will admire your riches and your opulent lifestyles.

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