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Why men want to tell women but don't?

It is so hard to understand men or is it women! Sighs! We all know men and women are not the same and they don't think on the same wave length.When faced with the same incident,men and women will react differently.

There are major physiological and psychological differences between the sexes.The sooner we realize the differences, the better we will know how to accept and understand the man's behaviour.

Let us peek into a man's brain and see what goes on inside of them.
Not all men may think alike but generally , there are many issues which they do agree upon. It is better for them to stop their thoughts before it gets out from their mouth and start a world war.

There are some things men don't tell women.They would rather keep quiet and hold the peace then saying out their opinions. Only those unwise would commit these faux paux.

Some women have a constant need to stay in touch with their men to show that they are thinking of him or care for him. They want to know what their men are doing and whether they are thinking the same things about them in return. They would want to satisfy their curiosity about what he is doing , what's on his mind and where he is at the moment .

Generally men are not good at long conversations over the phone .They would rather prefer short and to the point conversations and not talk about the weather or other irrelevant things or girlish talks over the phone. This action by the women can be irritating and sometimes frivolous to him but he cannot express his frustrations because it would hurt her feelings.

Women love shopping and it can be a good therapy for them when they are unhappy.Some women are just 'spend happy .'Sometimes , they can go overboard and rake up huge monthly bills and cause a blow out with their men.

Women are now working and spending their own money .As long as she stays within her limits, there will be no outbreak of hostilities.However,tensions may simmer underneath his exterior and this may affect the relationship.

Another area is her physical well being. Men secretly expect their women to be sexy all the time .They cannot tell their women that they are fat and need to reduce weight or their clothes look awful.

Women have to mix and match their clothes, accessories daily and being bombarded with those choice questions every time she does that is troublesome for him. He would just say anything she decides would be fine with him and would be of no help to her.

He would not want to tell her to be more conservative about her dressings or being too sexy when they go out. Before marriage, he likes you to be sexy but after marriage, he wants you to cover up. Or it could be the opposite way.

He does not like the idea of other men ogling at his women.Similarly, he cannot tell her to be more circumspect in her work place.He may think she is acting way off when speaking to other men but he is forced to hold his tongue.

He may have problems but he would not want to tell her about it and add to her worries. Women worry about anything and everything.

Why burden her and make her suffer the pain? He is better off drowning his problems with the boys at the watering hole. He is told to leave his work related problems at his work place and not to take it back home .

Men do not really tell the truth when it comes to her cooking.They may not like it but they have to pretend to enjoy it for her sake. She puts so much effort into it and it would be a sin to tell her that it taste like aaagh!

There are so many things a man does not want to tell his wife. They don't like their wife to clean and rearrange their things,to go shopping with them, to help them clean the house,to go out with her friends,the amount they spend on the phone or in front of the T.V .

If there is love, everything will be fine.

“Love life and life will love you back. Love people and they will love you back.”
~Arthur Rubinstein




Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.canadianliving.com/relationships/love/things_men_want_to_tell_women__but_dont.php

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Showing too much cleavage at the workplace ?

You can show off your cleavage as it is nature's way for you to attract the opposite sex.Men are riveted by the sight of your cleavage and boobs.

Its a sight to behold and they will never get tired of it. The perverted one's would drool .When they talk to you , their eyes are on your chest instead of looking directly into your real eyes.

If you have it , you can flaunt it but if you don't have it ,it is just too bad. Women who wear provocative attire get more attention but there is a downside to it.Showing too much cleavage is not wrong but there is a time and place for it.

We all know cleavage is a very powerful WMD .(Weapons of Mass Destruction)Most women want to feel young and sexy by showing a bit or too much cleavage to attract the attention of those men.

You should not show too much cleavage in the workplace.It is not compatible with the status of the job unless you are working in the 'Hooters' or those sleazy bars.

Showing too much cleavage in the workplace hampers a woman's chances of promotion.It would appear that you are using your sex to sell your abilities rather than your professional qualifications.

If you want to look more professional at the workplace, you should dress more discreetly and gain the respect of those people in the business like environments.Those places are more conservative in outlook. You do not want your clients to keep staring at your chest and making you feel uneasy.

If you wear low-cut tops and short skirts ,it will seem out of place in the workplace. Some may not show the cleavage but the present fashion trend is showing off the bra straps at the top and the back.

You will look less professional and may incur the ire of other female staffs and causing tensions in the air.

There has been an increasing numbers of women who are showing more cleavage at work by wearing plunging necklines , tight tops or skimpy outfits.

There are other instances where you should not show too much cleavage, when you are meeting someone very important like your future-in-laws, going for a job interview and even in those social networking sites.

Regardless of your work performance,a person that dresses better usually gets treated with more respect. Baring too much cleavage is a big mistake in the workplace. Other common mistakes are too much perfume or cologne, too much jewelry or clothes that are too tight.It is too distracting, unprofessional, disrespectful and inappropriate.

Be more professional and use some common sense. If you want to be taken seriously , you cannot flash your boobs all over the place.




Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1198965/Cleavage-real-stopper--workplace-hampers-promotion-prospects.html

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/429593/how_much_cleavage_is_too_much_cleavage.html?cat=7

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Inspirational story of a man born without arms and legs.

Nick Vujicic was born without arms or legs and he plays football, golf, surfs, and swims. He is an incredible and astonishing human being.

He has a small foot on his left hip which helps him balance and enables him to kick.
He uses his one foot to type, write with a pen and pick things up between his toes.

He was born in Melbourne, Australia to a computer programmer and accountant and a nurse, but now lives in Los Angeles.

Why was he born that way ?

No one can explain from a scientific or medical perspective. It is one of those things which are a mystery to us and only God knows why he was born that way.

Life was not easy for him as he could not be independent and had to depend on those carers. When he was eight years old , he was very depressed and wanted to kill himself.

He found God and hope and with the help of his religion, friends and family, he managed to pull through to become an international symbol of triumph over adversity.
He has visited 24 different countries, touring the world as a motivational speaker

In his own words,'I realised why God had made us like this - to give hope to others. I tell people to keep on getting up when they fall and to always love themselves.'

If he can do it without arms and legs,we who are more blessed than him should not give up that easily.Life should be cherished, valued and appreciated.

When you are down , there is hope in God for He will help you to get up. Nick is the living miracle of what God can do in our life. Without Him , we would find it meaningless and would have given up on our life.

God came to save and to heal the sick.




Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/worldnews/article-1196755/The-astonishing-story-man-born-arms-legs--world-famous-swimmer-surfer-footballer.html

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More babies are born out of wedlock every day .

Four out of every ten babies born in America are born to unmarried parents. It is not only happening in America but in many parts of the world. Eight babies are born out of wedlock in the state of Johore in Malaysia everyday!

In the past, most of those babies were born by those teenagers but today, times have changed. They only constitute around 23 %. Now 60% are in the 20's and around 17% in the 30's.

Some of those women may not be officially or legally married but they are living together or cohabiting with the father of their child.

In Malaysia, they will need to get a birth certificate or they will have problems registering for schooling or for the 'MyCard' which is an identity card.They will become stateless people.

Why is this occurrence becoming too common and rapidly rising ?

Getting married today is a very costly affair. Before you could get married at home and only need to spend around RM$1K .But today you will need to have at least Rm$20K to Rm$30K to cover the barest minimum for all those wedding expenses.

Some couples borrow from banks or with their credit cards or get a friendly loan from their parents to hold the wedding . In Malaysia, especially the Chinese culture, they will receive those red packets,'Angpows.'( red envelope which contains money inside).

These days , guests will give money in red envelopes and do not buy those gifts for the newly weds.Their relatives would buy them gold ornaments . In a way , those 'angpows' would help to defray their wedding expenses.

Some of them may even make money, while some may break even and some will have to top up the cost of holding the wedding.In the end, the figure 20K is intimidating but the cost of holding the wedding is lesser or around 10K which is quite affordable to many average person.

With the standard of living rising and the depressing times, many may not want to hold the wedding or downgrade the spending. Some may just opt for the registration and photo shoot only .

Once they register their marriage, they are legally married but without the traditional and customary wedding ceremony. Others may hold the customary marriage when the times are better.

Another reason is the lack of sex education in schools. Many teenagers do not have adequate knowledge to protect them from unwanted pregnancies or STD's.Even if they know about contraception's, there is no 100% safe methods.

Our modern society is sex driven with all those pornographic materials which are readily available online and in the market .Due to the peer pressures, girls are losing their virginity and engaging in free and unsafe sex.

In some countries, abortions are free or inexpensive. They treat abortions as a contraceptive method which is ethically and morally wrong. Multiple abortions are quite common among the people who lives in those countries.

Marriage and sex are no more sacrosanct and the morality of today's teen is spiraling downwards and sex is treated like a handshake .


Reference and thanks to :-

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2009/7/3/nation/4246862&sec=nation

http://www.empowher.com/community/share/40-children-america-are-now-born-out-wedlock

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