Snitch On A Cheating friend ?

Would you tell your friend's husband/wife or gf/bf if you found out your friend was cheating?

There are two school of thoughts. One group thinks it is morally right to tell and the other group thinks that it is none of their business. Who is right ?

I do not think it is right to tell our friend that his/her partner is cheating. How do you know s/he is cheating just because you saw them together a few times ? You maybe branded a busy body or a nosy Parker.

Do you have concrete proof that they are cheating? What if you were wrong ? Imagine what untold miseries and harm you would do to your friend and your friendship.

You may think that you are protecting your friend but what right have you to spread unconfirmed informations and malinger someone when you do not know exactly anything about their relationship.

Should you share your suspicions with your friend ,absolutely not! It would be much better if you keep those thoughts to yourself and let your friend find out himself/herself.

What you can only tell your friend is what you saw and nothing else and leave them to find out the real truth. You cannot be seen to be jumping  into the conclusion that he/she is cheating without any concrete evidence based on only what you saw them together.

Your friend may not take kindly to your insinuations about his/her partner. Most of them are very protective of their partners and when you go down that road, their minds are closed and will not listen to any negative ideas unless their relationship are soured and there are questions hanging in the air about their faithfulness or philandering ways. They would live in denial and rationalize their

If they are at the point of getting married, telling them would be like standing infront of the track from an oncoming train.I do not think I will want to do that.

If you are thinking of  snitching on a cheating friend, be prepared that you could be treated like an enemy by one or both of them or your friendship be terminated. In the long run , she may after discovering the truth , accept you back but then the friendship will no more be on the same levels again.


Will it be worth it? Maybe, you need to experience the real situation and find out the truth.



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