Making the first move to patch things up shouldn't always come from the one who made the mistake but it can come from the one who understands.
In any relationship , they will be problems and this is a fact of life.it is how you handle them that will make or break the relationship.
Someone has to rebuild while the other is tearing down the house.
In any relationship , one should give in order for the relationship to prosper.
A boat cannot move in both directions or it would break into two.
The one who is more understanding and who can grasp the importance of the good relationship should bow and graciously accept the spouse who thinks she is in the right.
Most men would allow their wives to rule and make the final decisions in all matters. This way they will have peace in their life.
After all, it is the women who stays most of the time at home and run the family.
Be gracious ,because everyone make mistakes and what is important is not who is wrong or who started it but that you should quickly smoothen those 'kinks' in your relationship .
The earlier you settle those difference ,the better it is before they fester and become more cancerous..
As in the Christian teaching, settle your problems before the sunset.Don't let it become a mountain .
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Going to the bank to bank in your money in those CDM (Cash deposit machine)can sometimes be frustrating .Most banks do not allow over the counter deposit unless it is over 3K. Some may even charge a Rm2.00 for that service.
I regularly have to bank in the money through those CDM's and I have a few times encountered some problems with it. It is quite a common occurrence.
If the CDM is F#@K up,you can inform the officers if it happens during the working hours.Otherwise you will have to fill in a form and give it to the guard if there is one or go to the bank to inform them the next working day if you have encountered a problem after the bank's working hours.
If you are from a far away place , you can call their customer service but it will take about 5 days to check and settle your case.
When the machine shows an 'out of service' on the screen after you have banked your money in and the transaction cannot complete , there is nothing you can do about it. The money is jammed inside the CDM and it will not work anymore .
The next day , two bank officers will attend to the machine and take out the money and checked the computer records to verify the amount.
Sometimes, in the midst of your transactions, the power goes off for a minute,and then comes on again,your money is swallowed by the machine but there will not be any receipts or your money is not credited into your account. The CDM functions normally after the power comes on again.
The bank officers will tally their collections for that day and if there is any excess amount which corresponded with your amount claimed, then they will credit it back into your account.
If there is less than you claimed, then there is nothing you can convinced them that you banked in that certain amount.It is their words against yours.
It is always wise to count your money twice and be certain of the amount before you put them in the CDM.I don't really trust those machines. I have on occasions lose one or two notes after the machine spit out the money.
You don't have to camp near the CDM to prevent people from stealing your money like this man in China. The money is safe in the machine unless you are very unlucky and thieves stole the CDM machine from that place.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.weirdasianews.com/2009/04/18/man-guard-atm-night-lost-money/
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It is so hard to understand men or is it women! Sighs! We all know men and women are not the same and they don't think on the same wave length.When faced with the same incident,men and women will react differently.
There are major physiological and psychological differences between the sexes.The sooner we realize the differences, the better we will know how to accept and understand the man's behaviour.
Let us peek into a man's brain and see what goes on inside of them.
Not all men may think alike but generally , there are many issues which they do agree upon. It is better for them to stop their thoughts before it gets out from their mouth and start a world war.
There are some things men don't tell women.They would rather keep quiet and hold the peace then saying out their opinions. Only those unwise would commit these faux paux.
Some women have a constant need to stay in touch with their men to show that they are thinking of him or care for him. They want to know what their men are doing and whether they are thinking the same things about them in return. They would want to satisfy their curiosity about what he is doing , what's on his mind and where he is at the moment .
Generally men are not good at long conversations over the phone .They would rather prefer short and to the point conversations and not talk about the weather or other irrelevant things or girlish talks over the phone. This action by the women can be irritating and sometimes frivolous to him but he cannot express his frustrations because it would hurt her feelings.
Women love shopping and it can be a good therapy for them when they are unhappy.Some women are just 'spend happy .'Sometimes , they can go overboard and rake up huge monthly bills and cause a blow out with their men.
Women are now working and spending their own money .As long as she stays within her limits, there will be no outbreak of hostilities.However,tensions may simmer underneath his exterior and this may affect the relationship.
Another area is her physical well being. Men secretly expect their women to be sexy all the time .They cannot tell their women that they are fat and need to reduce weight or their clothes look awful.
Women have to mix and match their clothes, accessories daily and being bombarded with those choice questions every time she does that is troublesome for him. He would just say anything she decides would be fine with him and would be of no help to her.
He would not want to tell her to be more conservative about her dressings or being too sexy when they go out. Before marriage, he likes you to be sexy but after marriage, he wants you to cover up. Or it could be the opposite way.
He does not like the idea of other men ogling at his women.Similarly, he cannot tell her to be more circumspect in her work place.He may think she is acting way off when speaking to other men but he is forced to hold his tongue.
He may have problems but he would not want to tell her about it and add to her worries. Women worry about anything and everything.
Why burden her and make her suffer the pain? He is better off drowning his problems with the boys at the watering hole. He is told to leave his work related problems at his work place and not to take it back home .
Men do not really tell the truth when it comes to her cooking.They may not like it but they have to pretend to enjoy it for her sake. She puts so much effort into it and it would be a sin to tell her that it taste like aaagh!
There are so many things a man does not want to tell his wife. They don't like their wife to clean and rearrange their things,to go shopping with them, to help them clean the house,to go out with her friends,the amount they spend on the phone or in front of the T.V .
If there is love, everything will be fine.
“Love life and life will love you back. Love people and they will love you back.”
~Arthur Rubinstein
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.canadianliving.com/relationships/love/things_men_want_to_tell_women__but_dont.php
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You can show off your cleavage as it is nature's way for you to attract the opposite sex.Men are riveted by the sight of your cleavage and boobs.
Its a sight to behold and they will never get tired of it. The perverted one's would drool .When they talk to you , their eyes are on your chest instead of looking directly into your real eyes.
If you have it , you can flaunt it but if you don't have it ,it is just too bad. Women who wear provocative attire get more attention but there is a downside to it.Showing too much cleavage is not wrong but there is a time and place for it.
We all know cleavage is a very powerful WMD .(Weapons of Mass Destruction)Most women want to feel young and sexy by showing a bit or too much cleavage to attract the attention of those men.
You should not show too much cleavage in the workplace.It is not compatible with the status of the job unless you are working in the 'Hooters' or those sleazy bars.
Showing too much cleavage in the workplace hampers a woman's chances of promotion.It would appear that you are using your sex to sell your abilities rather than your professional qualifications.
If you want to look more professional at the workplace, you should dress more discreetly and gain the respect of those people in the business like environments.Those places are more conservative in outlook. You do not want your clients to keep staring at your chest and making you feel uneasy.
If you wear low-cut tops and short skirts ,it will seem out of place in the workplace. Some may not show the cleavage but the present fashion trend is showing off the bra straps at the top and the back.
You will look less professional and may incur the ire of other female staffs and causing tensions in the air.
There has been an increasing numbers of women who are showing more cleavage at work by wearing plunging necklines , tight tops or skimpy outfits.
There are other instances where you should not show too much cleavage, when you are meeting someone very important like your future-in-laws, going for a job interview and even in those social networking sites.
Regardless of your work performance,a person that dresses better usually gets treated with more respect. Baring too much cleavage is a big mistake in the workplace. Other common mistakes are too much perfume or cologne, too much jewelry or clothes that are too tight.It is too distracting, unprofessional, disrespectful and inappropriate.
Be more professional and use some common sense. If you want to be taken seriously , you cannot flash your boobs all over the place.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1198965/Cleavage-real-stopper--workplace-hampers-promotion-prospects.html
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/429593/how_much_cleavage_is_too_much_cleavage.html?cat=7
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Nick Vujicic was born without arms or legs and he plays football, golf, surfs, and swims. He is an incredible and astonishing human being.
He has a small foot on his left hip which helps him balance and enables him to kick.
He uses his one foot to type, write with a pen and pick things up between his toes.
He was born in Melbourne, Australia to a computer programmer and accountant and a nurse, but now lives in Los Angeles.
Why was he born that way ?
No one can explain from a scientific or medical perspective. It is one of those things which are a mystery to us and only God knows why he was born that way.
Life was not easy for him as he could not be independent and had to depend on those carers. When he was eight years old , he was very depressed and wanted to kill himself.
He found God and hope and with the help of his religion, friends and family, he managed to pull through to become an international symbol of triumph over adversity.
He has visited 24 different countries, touring the world as a motivational speaker
In his own words,'I realised why God had made us like this - to give hope to others. I tell people to keep on getting up when they fall and to always love themselves.'
If he can do it without arms and legs,we who are more blessed than him should not give up that easily.Life should be cherished, valued and appreciated.
When you are down , there is hope in God for He will help you to get up. Nick is the living miracle of what God can do in our life. Without Him , we would find it meaningless and would have given up on our life.
God came to save and to heal the sick.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/worldnews/article-1196755/The-astonishing-story-man-born-arms-legs--world-famous-swimmer-surfer-footballer.html
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Four out of every ten babies born in America are born to unmarried parents. It is not only happening in America but in many parts of the world. Eight babies are born out of wedlock in the state of Johore in Malaysia everyday!
In the past, most of those babies were born by those teenagers but today, times have changed. They only constitute around 23 %. Now 60% are in the 20's and around 17% in the 30's.
Some of those women may not be officially or legally married but they are living together or cohabiting with the father of their child.
In Malaysia, they will need to get a birth certificate or they will have problems registering for schooling or for the 'MyCard' which is an identity card.They will become stateless people.
Why is this occurrence becoming too common and rapidly rising ?
Getting married today is a very costly affair. Before you could get married at home and only need to spend around RM$1K .But today you will need to have at least Rm$20K to Rm$30K to cover the barest minimum for all those wedding expenses.
Some couples borrow from banks or with their credit cards or get a friendly loan from their parents to hold the wedding . In Malaysia, especially the Chinese culture, they will receive those red packets,'Angpows.'( red envelope which contains money inside).
These days , guests will give money in red envelopes and do not buy those gifts for the newly weds.Their relatives would buy them gold ornaments . In a way , those 'angpows' would help to defray their wedding expenses.
Some of them may even make money, while some may break even and some will have to top up the cost of holding the wedding.In the end, the figure 20K is intimidating but the cost of holding the wedding is lesser or around 10K which is quite affordable to many average person.
With the standard of living rising and the depressing times, many may not want to hold the wedding or downgrade the spending. Some may just opt for the registration and photo shoot only .
Once they register their marriage, they are legally married but without the traditional and customary wedding ceremony. Others may hold the customary marriage when the times are better.
Another reason is the lack of sex education in schools. Many teenagers do not have adequate knowledge to protect them from unwanted pregnancies or STD's.Even if they know about contraception's, there is no 100% safe methods.
Our modern society is sex driven with all those pornographic materials which are readily available online and in the market .Due to the peer pressures, girls are losing their virginity and engaging in free and unsafe sex.
In some countries, abortions are free or inexpensive. They treat abortions as a contraceptive method which is ethically and morally wrong. Multiple abortions are quite common among the people who lives in those countries.
Marriage and sex are no more sacrosanct and the morality of today's teen is spiraling downwards and sex is treated like a handshake .
Reference and thanks to :-
http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2009/7/3/nation/4246862&sec=nation
http://www.empowher.com/community/share/40-children-america-are-now-born-out-wedlock
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There is the handshake ,then the French kiss and now the girl kiss girl thingy.It is a new phenomenon started with Madonna and Britney Spears and the first public kiss they shared at the MTV Video Awards in 2003. Other young women like Peaches Geldof, actress Megan Fox and singer Lily Allen have also exhibited this behaviour.
What is it like for a girl to kiss another girl in public?
It is definitely not the same as a girl kissing a man which is more natural.Some are naturally curious and would like to experiment and find out how it feels to kiss the same sex .
It is no more unusual to see a straight girl kissing another girl in public, especially those famous personalities on the world stage.
The average Jane's are doing it at their own private house parties. It is a form of exhibition .It doesn't mean at all that they'd go further in private. It is a way of showing off and to prove they are not square and boring.
They are not considered lesbians and it is just a kind of social trend or the in thing to do these days.Being flirty and affectionate or daring and adventurous.To get the thrilling experience and being the centre of attractions.
Girl kissing girl was once associated with lesbian behaviour and in some societies, it still does.The girls kissing each other is akin to those 'tiger' shows which are performed by two females having sex on stage.
This type of girl to girl kiss may not be acceptable in some societies and considered risque public behaviour.
This new shocking and disturbing trend is catching on with the new generations.They want to experiment and flirt with lesbianism.
Who knows what they will do further when they are alone ? Will they go for the next stage and graduate as lesbians?
For those famous personalities, they want to create a layer of mystique about them but for those precocious youngsters who followed them , they are pretty naive about what is the fallout from such a practice.
Sometimes , it is intense social pressures to fit into a certain society which thinks it is fashionable but I don't know if they are mature or understand enough to deal with those complicated issues .
There is a new generations of those young celebrities who are doing it and making the headlines .They are being emulated by many of today's teenagers.It is happening more and more and some girls think it is O.K to do it. It looks more grown up and cool.
Will the men do the same ?
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1196636/Lipstick-lesbians-How-kiss-sparked-teenage-trend-disturb-parent.html
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Women can have it all, career and family but what about the men ? We seldom hear about how the modern lifestyle have affected the men.Are the men able to cope with the extra workload ? Will they be torn between their careers and the children ?
With women working in greater numbers , who is left in charge of the children? The men are pushed more and more into playing the female gender roles like taking care of the children , house chores and cooking.The gender roles are no more distinct and has blurred.More and more men are now involved in the domestic routine and childcare responsibilities.
If you are a man with a working wife, you will be hard pressed to accommodate both work and family life in your schedule. You are expected to pull your weight in the family unlike your father or grandfather who never did those jobs in the house.You do not have a choice unless you are rich enough to hire maids to do those jobs.
The result is that modern men feel pulled in every direction. The women is able to multi task while the men are bewildered. A woman may spend 24/7 with the children but let the man have the child for 1 hour and he will go bonkers and quickly send a S.O.S to his wife.A man is not made like a woman .
The modern men will have to bring home the bacon while at the same time ensuring they're an intrinsic part of their children's lives.
For a man , career is very important . They are in a dilemma whether to stay at work late to protect their job, or rush home to do their share of childcare as their wife expects?
Before a man marries, he has two choices. To marry a working wife or a full time housewife? He will have to weigh the pro's and con's .
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1195315/Exhausted-guilt-ridden-torn-career-children-No-YOU-girls-Having-harder-men.html
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School discipline is on the wane and violent crimes committed by wayward students are on the rise.The student of today are an indiscipline lot. They are more daring and violent and student gangs are flourishing. Even the girls have their own gangs.
Knifing,gang fights over girls and territories, brutal beatings on slightest provocations and senseless rape carried out in some schools are more common these days.
Some students even bring guns to school and there have been cases where they mowed down their fellow students in cold blood.These phenomenon does not only happen in one country but is a worldwide problem.
Most of the teachers are females and the school environment is no more a safe place as there is a lack of men teachers .If anything were to happen, it would be too late to prevent it.It is an occupational hazard.
Schools should have a security force to maintain the security in the school and protect those teachers and students.
The 32 years old teacher was brutally assaulted and raped by a 15-year-old pupil .She was alone in her classroom after lessons. She just started teaching for only a week and met with a horrifying ordeal.
Who is liable for this unfortunate incident?
The onus is on the school to protect its staff but such incidents are difficult to preempt. No matter how much you try to prevent such incidents , if it is bound to happen, it will happen .
One crazed student is all it takes and you won't know when and where he will strike. The school did not foresee that problem. It did not happen before. Schools will now have to take more radical measures to ensure the teachers are working in a safer environment.
Teachers will also have to use their common sense and do not take unnecessary risk when dealing with recalcitrant students.
We regret for what happened to this teacher and wish her well for the future.The school is not totally liable and this incident highlights the dangers that teachers will face in the future.
What has become to our youths of today?
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1194889/Teacher-raped-15-year-old-pupil-blames-school-putting-way-rapist.html
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Physical attractions is a very powerful magnetic force.It is like a strong tractor beam that will pull your attentions to them.You cannot avoid it. We are naturally attracted to beautiful people.
We will feel intimidated initially when we come across a person who is extremely beautiful or handsome. To say that we are not intimidated at all is to delude oneself. For some , even looking at them can send them the 'shivers.'
It is not just beauty alone that we are intimidated but it can also be wealth and fame too.
Why are your hands shaking, your voice breaking or stuttering , your legs quivering and your heart and pulse beating at a frantic pace ?
Why do you suddenly become self conscious of how you walk or act? You have a funny sensation of your gait.You don't know why you felt that way about your manner of walking. It feels strange all of a sudden..LOL!
Your brain doesn't seem to function and you get tongue-tied just thinking about what you want to say to her for fear of offending her sensibilities.
It affects both the guys and the girls. When someone is more beautiful or handsome than us, we will feel intimidated.
When a guy see's a very beautiful, hot and sexy girl,he will feel intimidated because he will think that she will have many male admirers because she is probably very popular. He may think that he is just an average guy and is not good enough for her .He fears rejection from her.
But the truth is sometimes those beautiful girls are sitting at home and waiting to be asked out. It will be the players who would dare to invite them out and leave them in the end.
For the girls,they not only have to face the intimidation's from the guys but also from their own kind. If they know another gorgeous girl is interested in him,they may give him up without trying.
They may feel that they are not pretty enough and he would not be interested in them. Some will act 'cool' towards those guys.
We feel more comfortable talking and interacting with an average looking guy.
How can you overcome those intimidation's ?
They may look more beautiful or handsome than you but everyone has their uniqueness.Do not give them too much 'worth.' They are after all humans too and not angels or God.They came from a better genes and a person is not judged on the physical beauty alone. When you have this mindset, you will not be awed by their striking beauties.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.divaasia.com/article/4062
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In the world of woman’s lingerie,there is a fine line between one type of panty and the next. There is the tangas, sambas or G-strings and thongs. It is a bit confusing to many people .
A G-string provides the least amount of coverage in the front as well as the back, with less than a quarter inch of fabric making up the back strap.
Why do women prefer thongs and G-strings?
Some women have well defined 'buns' and would like to show them off without those visible panty lines .Wearing them can make one feel sexy and comfortable once you get used to it .
Some women like to wear mini skirts and the hemlines are rising and sometimes , they are just an inch from the panty.
Some women are naughty,sexy and enjoy risque behaviours. Thongs and G-strings are not limited only to the women but the men wear them too and some of them even prefer the ladies variety.
The thong strap fits snugly between the buttocks for minimum coverage on the behind and virtually no visible panty line(VPL)to worry about. Some women are aghast when their panty outline are clearly seen through their dress or pants.It would spoil the aesthetic look of their behinds.
Women risk their health wearing G-strings knickers. They can damage the skin and cause infections, experts in Germany warns women.Dr Thomas Gent of the Association of Gynaecologists advised women to wear bigger pants to avoid complications.
He blamed the friction caused by the string part of the underwear for a big rise in the number of patients he had seen reporting genital inflammation.
A UK gynaecologist said it was the ill-fit rather than the underwear type that was probably the problem.
Dr Gent said: "G-strings can abrade and injure the sensitive skin around the genital area - especially if they are too tight or made with badly stitched material."
This damage can aid the spread of bacteria and cause fungal infections, he said. If underwear is too tight it can create an ideal environment for fungal infections, such as thrush, to grow and thrive.
It is obvious that you should not wear G-strings and thongs for extended period of time or for exercises.According to Rhode Island doctor Adelaide Nardone, MD, on News-Medical.Net, women should “be careful when wearing thongs [when exercising], as they may irritate delicate skin of the vulva and transfer bacteria to the vaginal area.” It is best to limit your thongs or G-Strings to special occasions only or forgo them completely.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.lifescript.com/Body/Style/Shopping/Women_Who_Wear_Thongs.aspx
http://www.funreports.com/fun/26-01-2007/1481-bikini_models-0
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The birth of a young one is an auspicious occasion for the parents.The first thing they will look for is to see that the baby is physically normal, acts normal like any babies and whether it is a boy or a girl.
With today's technology, they would probably have carried out scans in the first trimester and found out about the sex of their baby.
There have been a report of a baby born without any genitals .Muhammad Nabil Mustaqim Rodzake was born without genitals. The baby had only one orifice and the urine and waste products were discharged through it.
Since s/he was born without any external sexual organs, the doctors were not able to tell if it was a boy or a girl. It was only after a DNA test that the sex of the baby was known.Whether s/he will grow up as a girl or boy will be another matter.
The official sex of a baby is decided by the physical process, whether they have those male organs or female organs.There is another way to decide the sex by the psychological process, whether they exhibit those male or female characteristics.
Some can be born physically male /female but who feels that they are a woman /man trapped in the wrong body.It is not the body shape but the brains and the hormones which decide whether one is male or female. You think you are a male but later down the road, you discover that you are a female, born in the body of a male.You are a trans gender!
What would it be like to be born without any genitalia ?
At the moment , the doctors cannot do anything about it yet as the real sex of the baby has not manifested. It would be wrong to assume that it will be a boy since the DNA test showed he has male characteristics.Once,the sex is confirmed , reconstructive surgery can be performed on the baby.
If he is born in the 1st world countries, he will get those free treatments under the government policies. If he is born in a 3rd world country, he will have to depend on the generosities and charities of other people.
It will be traumatic for the baby when he grows up and finds out that he is different from the others.
We wish him all the best and hope that the government or those charitable organizations would look into his plight and help him to lead a normal life.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.themalaysianinsider.com/index.php/malaysia/29719-baby-boy-born-without-a-penis
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It is a very difficult decision for those couples who find themselves in this dilemma.Which is better for your kids, to stay together or to divorce?
Put it in another way. Would you be able to raise your kids who would fare better in life if you stay together or divorce?
Would you find it more conducive to raise your kids in a dysfunctional environment or in a peaceful one ?
Which is more paramount, your own happiness or your children ? Can you be a good parent when you are unhappy always ?
Would you stay in an unhappy and loveless marriage for the sake of your kids ?
If there is no more love in the family , the home is like a war zone and a battle ground between the parents.Parents may fight everyday over every little issues and sometimes violence is unavoidable. If such a condition exists in a home , it would be better to divorce and live separately.
If we seek divorce ,we may fear that the children will grow up without one of the parent's love.
How you handle your divorce and your parenting responsibilities will affect the emotional health of your children.
Some divorce can be amicable while others are acrimonious. If you can have an amicable divorce where you can share equal parental rights , then it would be better to divorce and live separately.
The children will grow up having two homes and will not be seriously affected by the divorce. You will be happier and and be in the proper frame of mind to look after their welfare while they are growing up.
The researchers say that being brought up by a secure single parent is better than being brought up by a couple whose relationship is volatile.
When you stay in a marriage and your mental and psychological state is on tender hooks, you cannot give your very best to your kids.Your perpetual state of anger and your sufferings will tell on your kids.Your trauma will be their trauma.
In such a scenario, I feel it is better to divorce and stay separately.A hurtful and angry parent is not a good parent.She may vent her frustrations unto her children and sometimes she is overcome with stress and depressions and may want to commit suicide together with her children.
If you have tried your very best to mend your marriage and it still does not work out, then leaving is the best option. There is no other recourse if your partner does not want to try to solve the impasse or to seek a compromise solution to the failed marriage.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://marriage.about.com/od/divorce/i/gooddivorceiss.htm
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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1193758/I-wish-parents-divorced-Do-parents-stay-children-harm-good.html
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Men find the homely shape of the girl-next-door more appealing than the 'perfect' proportions of models and centerfolds, a study found.
Women come in all shapes and sizes,curvy ,hourglass figure (Cola bottles) ,skinny size 'zero's (walking stick),athletic types , long-legged, big-chested 'Barbies',plumb(oil drum)and slim.
For the average male, they do not have high aspirations of looking for a 'perfect female.' An average female with the statistics, a 5ft 4in ,30in waist and 40in hips and who wears a size 14.
I believed that the face and the eyes are the most important features of a person because it can reveal the emotions or the soul of a person. The other parts of the body are rather static and cannot exhibit any or have limited emotions.
Her face and smile may launch a thousand ships and you will always remember her face and her smile which will never change even when she ages. It is the face that you will like and grow fond off as time elapsed.
Women should smile more often ,as a smile can brighten and make her face pleasant,captivating, beautiful and younger looking.A beautiful face is a thing of beauty but has no depth unless it is accompanied by a corresponding beautiful smile.
An average girl with an average face can be beautiful too when she smiles sweetly as the beauty that originates from the inside is sweeter than a smile that is only skin deep.Her personality will shine through her face.
She may not capture his attention on first look but her smile will surely melt his heart. The joy and the smile on her face is the most beautiful thing to admire and cherish.It warmth's the heart and creates those lovely feelings towards the smiler.
If you have an average figure, there is nothing to fret about. If a man loves you , he would be blind to your faults and whether you are skinny or fat, it would not matter to him at all.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.news.com.au/dailytelegraph/story/0,22049,25620551-5006007,00.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1192142/Gentlemen-prefer-Miss-Average-The-perfect-centrefold-body-ousted-homely-shape-girl-door-new-study.html
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David Carradine,who was best known for the US TV series Kung Fu, which aired from 1972-75 was found dead last Thursday.His half-naked body was found in a closet, with a rope tied around his genitals and another rope around his neck.
The actor was in Bangkok to shoot a film and had been staying at the Swissotel Nai Lert Park Hotel since Tuesday.
Many people are unfamiliar with the term,'auto-erotic asphyxiation or breath control play or scarfing.'
Erotic asphyxiation is intentionally cutting off oxygen to the brain for sexual arousal by hanging, suffocation with a plastic bag tied over the head ,self-strangulation such as with a ligature, gas or volatile solvents, chest compression, or a combination of these.
It can also be done by placing the hand over the mouth or nose and during the heightened state of ecstasy , he being stronger could have ignored her scream for air until she passed out.
The practice can be very dangerous even if performed with care and has resulted in a number of accidental deaths.You do not know at which point to stop and once you cross that point of no return , you won't be able to come back. Even if you want to come back , you would be powerless and will drift into unconsciousness and certain death , into the other world beyond.
In an article written in the Independent in 1994 by Celia Hall, erotic asphyxiation was described as extremely dangerous. She quoted American psychologist Michael Apter in her article as saying that erotic asphyxiation was 'the most dangerous sex game in the world'.
Was the death of the British student, Meredith Kercher in Perugia and the killing of the Frenchman, Olivier Mugnier, 24 a result of a dangerous sex game ? Were they involved in an erotic game when Ms Davies tried to “intensify an extreme sexual experience” by putting a knife to his throat?
There are other types of sex games , bondage, exhibitionism, pretend rapes and other weird and kinky one's.
Some teens are playing risky sex games involving drinking bodily fluids and sharing multiple partners.
Teens are playing games they call “rainbow,” “Dixie Cup” and “black-out,”
Rainbow involves oral sex while using different colored lipsticks, Dixie Cup is when participants drink bodily fluids, and black-out is when black paper is placed over the windows to block out light so teens can have sex anonymously with multiple partners in total darkness.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://tnp.sg/news/story/0,4136,204488,00.html?
http://www.bangkokpost.com/news/local/17976/a-dangerous-sex-game
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/the_way_we_live/article2968706.ece
http://www.examiner.com/a-401861~Health_officials_say_teens_are_playing_dangerous_sex_games.html
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We often read news about police busting those private group sex parties being held in those hotels or private rented homes in Malaysia. This could be just the tip of the iceberg. There maybe more private sex parties that are being held and it is occurring more often or widespread than we know.
Many of these group sex are well organized and hidden from our knowledge. We may not even know if the person next to us is involved or not.
A survey found that the Australian women are as keen as men to take part in consensual group sex and they initiate it often.This must come as a shocking news as the women like it as much as the men!I guess, it is harder to satisfy a woman than a man and that is why they prefer more of those group sex.
Most of those participants are couples and not singles. They participate together with other couples and what is sauce for the goose is also source for the gander.
Many of us may not have participated in consensual group sex and do not know the pleasures derived from it.Some will not even think of it because of their religious faith. We can only fantasize about sleeping with some others partner...LOL!
The most common reasons given for group sex are excitement, variety and to spice up long-term relationships.Whether it can spice up the long term relationship or destroy it is anybody's guess.
I am sure there will be jealousy and bruised ego's all around especially the women who are more emotional and petty minded.Some will have regrets because they were pressured into it or being impaired with alcohol or drugs.Alcohol and drugs would be freely available to let loose their inhibitions .
Sex with the same partner may not be the same anymore because the other women may have better bodies and she will have inferiority complex about it.
The most common form of group sex is a threesome, although one third of respondents say their largest group involved five or more people.Some may only engage once and stop while others may do it weekly or monthly .
It maybe a few minutes or hours of fun but it will be a lifetime of bitterness for some. Some would say,'Life is short!You should enjoy everything under the sun .'
Is it worth it?
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.news.com.au/story/0,27574,25541220-29277,00.html
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Are you beautiful? Are you rich ? Do you have what it takes to get a partner? What are the criteria for choosing a mate.
We all know that men are attracted to beauty in women and they can fall in love at first sight . The moment they set their eyes on a beautiful woman they will fall in love with her even if he does not know her .
This kind of love is only skin deep and shallow. The moment she disappears from his sight, he will forget about her unless she is very striking and impressive. It will then be etched deeply in his mind.
Women need to pay attention to their physical attractiveness if they want to keep their mates from straying.Men have roving eyes and it is impossible to stop them from ogling at other pretty women.
It may not be love but probably lust in their eyes. This is the most important and the first criteria in selecting a woman. No men want to to sleep with an ugly woman unless he is blind ,dumb or ugly . Real love is colour blind and blind to all her /his faults.
Physical attractiveness is the highest on their list.They may like a woman for her face,eyes, boobs, legs, butts or any parts of her body. The other qualities are not very important but it will be a bonus if she has, compatibility ,intelligence, sociability, common background
Some men do not fall in love on fist look but on second look when the girls showed their inner beauties and charms. Those without the 'looks' but the inner beauty will get their men.
Physical attractiveness of a man is not very important to a woman. In fact it can be a disadvantage as those men are more tempted to stray.They are not husband materials but more of a plaything. It is not about looks but manners.
Women look for the socioeconomic status of the men , having a stable job and able to provide her with financial and emotional support. Their earning powers,social status and job prestige rates highly on her priority list.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://books.google.com/books?id=BfmuYfz57-8C&pg=PA98&lpg=PA98&dq=Men+do+not+marry+women+like+these&source=bl&ots=rS-ta1N0cd&sig=UQe8OK1B3A6u3Pq77aHupU7LhMg&hl=en&ei=L9wnSvTUC8yAkQXR3fjoDQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=2#PPA105,M1
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Women are attracted to confident,self assured and capable men.They are also attracted by their skills, abilities, and achievements. They maybe dominant in their chosen fields but for a long term relationship,women find it unattractive as they could be domineering in the household.
The women want someone whom she can respect and admire but who have a weak spot for them . He can protect her from outsiders or walk over them .In essence they want to have control over him .It can be so subtle that he is not being aware of it.
Men are expected to be dominant in the marriage.It has been the norm since the ages.There are dominant as well as submissive men and the same goes for women.It is finding the right type that suits you or attracted to you . Opposites may attract.
You cannot have everything in life and sometimes you have to submit to each other.Being submissive all the time can be depressing. There is no freedom and you can chaff under the yoke. It would be better if you can compromise sometimes and meet each other half way. It may not be the most ideal situation but at least it makes both of your satisfied.Give and take some .
Sometimes the women maybe the dominant partner but in the back of her mind , she may fantasize being dominated by the men.It will only remain a fantasy unless the men are pushed or received a kick in their butts.
They want dominant men but are turned off by domineering men.This sounds paradoxical. Men have a bigger ego and they do not want to lose out to their women.
Women want to be loved and cherish by strong and amicable men . A dominant men may attract her at first but if he does not know how to temper his dominance, he will lose her in the end.
If you are a submissive or vulnerable women , you would naturally be attracted to a strong and dominant man.
reference and thanks to :-
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/articleshow/3857017.cms
http://books.google.com/books?id=BfmuYfz57-8C&pg=PA98&lpg=PA98&dq=Men+do+not+marry+women+like+these&source=bl&ots=rS-ta1N0cd&sig=UQe8OK1B3A6u3Pq77aHupU7LhMg&hl=en&ei=L9wnSvTUC8yAkQXR3fjoDQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=2#PPA8,M1
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This is a truly moving and very sad tragedy which took place on Beachy Head.
A mother and father committed suicide together by jumping to their deaths with their dead small child in a backpack, and another bag beside them full of his toys.
Their grief and devastation were too great to bear and they decided to join their beloved son who was crippled since a car crash in 2005 - died of meningitis last week.They did not want to be separated from him even in death.
As the story unfolded,theirs was a sorrowful and tragic heartbreaking tale.
They were having a perfect life until that fateful day when an unfortunate accident which turned their life upside down.
She was driving Sam through the Somerset lanes to visit friends when a Volvo coming the other way careered into their path. According to one report, the Volvo driver was distracted by her dogs in the back.
In the resulting smash, Mrs Puttick broke her legs and her pelvis, while her son who was just 16 months suffered devastating injuries which left him paralysed from the neck down and confined to a wheelchair.
Kazumi and Neil both gave up their jobs after the car accident to dedicate themselves to their son. They did everything possible to make their son's life comfortable .
The loving parents devoted their lives to caring for their injured son. How very cruel that he should be taken from them by a fatal infection.
They fought against all odds that fate has thrown their way but the death of their precious child snuffed out their desire to live . It robbed them of a meaningful existence . I live for my children too and without them , I too would feel my life has no purpose .
They were too consumed with grief and misery. Their agony , heartbreak and anguished took a big toll which lead them to take the journey of no return together with their beloved son.
One person's carelessness destroyed a loving family and that fate has dealt a major blow to this loving and perfect family.
Life and death is not in our hands. Treasure your children because we do not know what will happen tomorrow or what the future holds.
May their souls rest in peace . Our hearts and prayers for them and where ever you are, I hope you will find the peace and tranquility .
When we die we leave behind us all we have, and take with us all we are. -Anonymous.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1190061/Beachy-Head-suicide-First-picture-Sam-Puttick-5-meningitis-death-sparked-familys-fatal-jump.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/debate/article-1190466/Maeve-Haran-Guilt-grief-just-deep-bear-pushed-couple-Beachy-Head.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1191129/The-smile-parents-live-The-heart-breaking-story-Beachy-Head-tragedy.html
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