Are You A Green Eye Monster ?

In every woman , there lurks a scary green eye monster or monsters or some evil Gremlins in some nooks and corners of her heart. Sometimes , she is able to control those monsters but at other times , the monster is able to evade her controls and manifest itself and take over her driver's seat.

Jealousy is possessive love. She wants him all to herself and is prepared to go the length to cut him off from his world. You really cannot understand why a woman would act and behave that way .

Women have a smaller heart and they are more constricted .They seldom act in a big hearted way. The men are expected to understand that jealousy is sometimes good and not always bad.

        Maya Angelou

~ Jealousy in romance is like salt in food. A little can enhance the savor, but too much can spoil the pleasure and, under certain circumstances, can be life-threatening. ~

Such a woman is usually insecure, have a low self esteem and confidence  .She will constantly imagine her man up to no good and every incident will reinforced her opinions of him. Her constant worries will eat her insides and may turned her into a neurotic wife.

There are many incidents which are normal to a man but  abnormal to a woman. Once married, the men should not look, ogle, flirt , think, chat, SMS, e-mail or hook up with any girls through whatever medium of communications . It is an impossible mission because there are millions of working woman out there.

 Any of those actions will allow the green eye monster to rear it's ugly head. He should not watch porn or masturbate and if he wants to masturbate, he will have to think of her alone only and not another woman.She even wants to control his thoughts and what he can think .

The woman instead of being jealous, should learn to built trust and confidence and not to take many things personally. She should remain objective and separate issues  which are not related to her personally.She has to think like a man sometimes.and do understand that the men do not think like her .

She would need to have faith and believe in her man and being honest with each other.The man chose her and married her and she should not question his love nor show her insecurity .

If she does not control the monster, it will grow into a colony of monsters and her marriage will be poisoned and die .




Reference and thanks to :-

http://newlyweds.about.com/od/gettingalong/tp/Overcome-Jealousy.htm