Most women are guilty of faking it and some even does not know what is it.You really cannot blame them .Many women do not know what they need or want in order to experience an orgasm.The man's lack of experience or knowledge and not knowing how to stimulate their partners.
What is female orgasm?
The climax or peak of sexual pleasure which occurs during sexual activity and which in males may include ejaculation and in females vaginal contractions. ( http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/orgasm )
For some traditional thinking women, as long as she helps him to release his load, her duties is done .
Whether she finds pleasure in it for herself or not , it does not matter as long as she can pleases him and makes him satisfied .
Thus , she often fakes it to make him feel good and that he is a good lover.
She expects him to know those tricks but somehow or rather cannot bring herself to teach him where are her erogenous zones or do those actions which will pleasure her the most.
He will have to discover it himself and without her help and guidance will never find those mysteries by himself in a 100 years.
Some women can reach orgasm by themselves but unable to achieve it with their partners.
There are others who would find greater heights of pleasure by using those sex toys like a vibrator. Getting him to accept it together may be a problem.
Not all women are the same. She will have to teach him where to press those buttons because the female orgasms is a complex mix of physical, emotional and mental stimuli. It would take lots of practice to get it perfect.
She does not understands her own sexuality and seldom talks or share about it intimately with anyone. It is a taboo or a shame to talk openly about it. It can be sinful to some others.
She is a good girl cum housewife and not a courtesan . If she becomes too progressive in her sexual exploits, her husband may suspect her past and associate it with those hookers.
Want to stop faking it and enjoy a real orgasm ?
You would need to discover and share those secrets together . Let go off those inhibitions and sex myths . There is no right or wrong . Be imaginative and increase your erotic fantasy's.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1180226/Rowan-Pellings-sex-advice-column-Ive-orgasm-boyfriend.html
Related topic
http://english.pravda.ru/science/health/18-09-2006/84501-orgasm-0
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