Are you intimidated by those good looks ?

Physical attractions is a very powerful magnetic force.It is like a strong tractor beam that will pull your attentions to them.You cannot avoid it. We are naturally attracted to beautiful people.

We will feel intimidated initially when we come across a person who is extremely beautiful or handsome. To say that we are not intimidated at all is to delude oneself. For some , even looking at them can send them the 'shivers.'

It is not just beauty alone that we are intimidated but it can also be wealth and fame too.

Why are your hands shaking, your voice breaking or stuttering , your legs quivering and your heart and pulse beating at a frantic pace ?

Why do you suddenly become self conscious of how you walk or act? You have a funny sensation of your gait.You don't know why you felt that way about your manner of walking. It feels strange all of a sudden..LOL!

Your brain doesn't seem to function and you get tongue-tied just thinking about what you want to say to her for fear of offending her sensibilities.

It affects both the guys and the girls. When someone is more beautiful or handsome than us, we will feel intimidated.

When a guy see's a very beautiful, hot and sexy girl,he will feel intimidated because he will think that she will have many male admirers because she is probably very popular. He may think that he is just an average guy and is not good enough for her .He fears rejection from her.

But the truth is sometimes those beautiful girls are sitting at home and waiting to be asked out. It will be the players who would dare to invite them out and leave them in the end.

For the girls,they not only have to face the intimidation's from the guys but also from their own kind. If they know another gorgeous girl is interested in him,they may give him up without trying.

They may feel that they are not pretty enough and he would not be interested in them. Some will act 'cool' towards those guys.
We feel more comfortable talking and interacting with an average looking guy.

How can you overcome those intimidation's ?

They may look more beautiful or handsome than you but everyone has their uniqueness.Do not give them too much 'worth.' They are after all humans too and not angels or God.They came from a better genes and a person is not judged on the physical beauty alone. When you have this mindset, you will not be awed by their striking beauties.



Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.divaasia.com/article/4062