Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Career or marriage ?

It is work,work and more work for the modern women as she is propelled headlong into her all important careers.

Time and tides waits for no man and she will soon realized that she has crossed the magical 30's and now slowly approaching the 40's.

Her body clock is ticking at a faster pace now as her other quest for a life long partner is not as successful as her career. Women pay a frightful price for their success in this new age.

The recent recession has made them realized that their careers alone may not sustain them for their whole life .
Their jobs could be in peril as those MNC's downgrade or goes bust.

Before the recession, they were too engrossed in their careers to think of marriage and did not place more emphasis on their personal life.

The tried and tested way is still the best way to get further in life. If they want a better life, they should combine marriage with career and have a win - win situation.

If anything befallen them , they could always fall back on their partners to support them . Their aged parents may not be around anymore for them to go home when the going is tough.

As today's women are much more highly qualified, finding a life long partner can be a very difficult process.

All the good, kind and rich men are already taken up,only leaving those at the bottom of the barrel for them to choose.

Compounding to this problem, the middle age men would rather marry younger girls or those lesser qualified one's or beta females.

Many would rather stay single than marry someone who is unambitious or lacks those qualities that she seeks in him.They set too high standards for themselves and priced themselves out of the marriage market.

She has to lower her sights if she wants to find a good man .It is not about finding someone who is equal or as successful as she is but looking for the right character and personality of the men.

Not all men can climb the ladder of success but they can be good consorts , bodyguards,,husband, father,boyfriend, companion all rolled into one.

If she insists on finding the men with the same success or qualifications, it will be mission impossible. We will wish her all the best of luck.


Reference and thanks to :-

http://divaasia.com/article/3462

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Recent research shows that couples who have babies while in their 30s or above will have children with lower IQ with ones having babies in their 20s.

Lisa said...

lower IQ/?? i guess there is where all those good milk powder comes in

Suzie1318 a.k.a Laura1318 said...

Hi Anonymous,

Women who married late stands a higher risk of having less than perfect children .

As we age, our cells degenerates and they are not as healthy and as strong as when we are in our 20's.

Suzie1318 a.k.a Laura1318 said...

Hi Lisalicious,

Today's milk powder contains many ingredients which can increase the IQ of children but I think if someone who is genetically lacking may need more than just milk powders.

It is in the genes. If they have those smart genes, they will be smart. Otherwise, it would be like pouring water on sand.

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