There is the handshake ,then the French kiss and now the girl kiss girl thingy.It is a new phenomenon started with Madonna and Britney Spears and the first public kiss they shared at the MTV Video Awards in 2003. Other young women like Peaches Geldof, actress Megan Fox and singer Lily Allen have also exhibited this behaviour.
What is it like for a girl to kiss another girl in public?
It is definitely not the same as a girl kissing a man which is more natural.Some are naturally curious and would like to experiment and find out how it feels to kiss the same sex .
It is no more unusual to see a straight girl kissing another girl in public, especially those famous personalities on the world stage.
The average Jane's are doing it at their own private house parties. It is a form of exhibition .It doesn't mean at all that they'd go further in private. It is a way of showing off and to prove they are not square and boring.
They are not considered lesbians and it is just a kind of social trend or the in thing to do these days.Being flirty and affectionate or daring and adventurous.To get the thrilling experience and being the centre of attractions.
Girl kissing girl was once associated with lesbian behaviour and in some societies, it still does.The girls kissing each other is akin to those 'tiger' shows which are performed by two females having sex on stage.
This type of girl to girl kiss may not be acceptable in some societies and considered risque public behaviour.
This new shocking and disturbing trend is catching on with the new generations.They want to experiment and flirt with lesbianism.
Who knows what they will do further when they are alone ? Will they go for the next stage and graduate as lesbians?
For those famous personalities, they want to create a layer of mystique about them but for those precocious youngsters who followed them , they are pretty naive about what is the fallout from such a practice.
Sometimes , it is intense social pressures to fit into a certain society which thinks it is fashionable but I don't know if they are mature or understand enough to deal with those complicated issues .
There is a new generations of those young celebrities who are doing it and making the headlines .They are being emulated by many of today's teenagers.It is happening more and more and some girls think it is O.K to do it. It looks more grown up and cool.
Will the men do the same ?
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1196636/Lipstick-lesbians-How-kiss-sparked-teenage-trend-disturb-parent.html
Read More...
Summary only...
Women can have it all, career and family but what about the men ? We seldom hear about how the modern lifestyle have affected the men.Are the men able to cope with the extra workload ? Will they be torn between their careers and the children ?
With women working in greater numbers , who is left in charge of the children? The men are pushed more and more into playing the female gender roles like taking care of the children , house chores and cooking.The gender roles are no more distinct and has blurred.More and more men are now involved in the domestic routine and childcare responsibilities.
If you are a man with a working wife, you will be hard pressed to accommodate both work and family life in your schedule. You are expected to pull your weight in the family unlike your father or grandfather who never did those jobs in the house.You do not have a choice unless you are rich enough to hire maids to do those jobs.
The result is that modern men feel pulled in every direction. The women is able to multi task while the men are bewildered. A woman may spend 24/7 with the children but let the man have the child for 1 hour and he will go bonkers and quickly send a S.O.S to his wife.A man is not made like a woman .
The modern men will have to bring home the bacon while at the same time ensuring they're an intrinsic part of their children's lives.
For a man , career is very important . They are in a dilemma whether to stay at work late to protect their job, or rush home to do their share of childcare as their wife expects?
Before a man marries, he has two choices. To marry a working wife or a full time housewife? He will have to weigh the pro's and con's .
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1195315/Exhausted-guilt-ridden-torn-career-children-No-YOU-girls-Having-harder-men.html
Read More...
Summary only...
School discipline is on the wane and violent crimes committed by wayward students are on the rise.The student of today are an indiscipline lot. They are more daring and violent and student gangs are flourishing. Even the girls have their own gangs.
Knifing,gang fights over girls and territories, brutal beatings on slightest provocations and senseless rape carried out in some schools are more common these days.
Some students even bring guns to school and there have been cases where they mowed down their fellow students in cold blood.These phenomenon does not only happen in one country but is a worldwide problem.
Most of the teachers are females and the school environment is no more a safe place as there is a lack of men teachers .If anything were to happen, it would be too late to prevent it.It is an occupational hazard.
Schools should have a security force to maintain the security in the school and protect those teachers and students.
The 32 years old teacher was brutally assaulted and raped by a 15-year-old pupil .She was alone in her classroom after lessons. She just started teaching for only a week and met with a horrifying ordeal.
Who is liable for this unfortunate incident?
The onus is on the school to protect its staff but such incidents are difficult to preempt. No matter how much you try to prevent such incidents , if it is bound to happen, it will happen .
One crazed student is all it takes and you won't know when and where he will strike. The school did not foresee that problem. It did not happen before. Schools will now have to take more radical measures to ensure the teachers are working in a safer environment.
Teachers will also have to use their common sense and do not take unnecessary risk when dealing with recalcitrant students.
We regret for what happened to this teacher and wish her well for the future.The school is not totally liable and this incident highlights the dangers that teachers will face in the future.
What has become to our youths of today?
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1194889/Teacher-raped-15-year-old-pupil-blames-school-putting-way-rapist.html
Read More...
Summary only...
Physical attractions is a very powerful magnetic force.It is like a strong tractor beam that will pull your attentions to them.You cannot avoid it. We are naturally attracted to beautiful people.
We will feel intimidated initially when we come across a person who is extremely beautiful or handsome. To say that we are not intimidated at all is to delude oneself. For some , even looking at them can send them the 'shivers.'
It is not just beauty alone that we are intimidated but it can also be wealth and fame too.
Why are your hands shaking, your voice breaking or stuttering , your legs quivering and your heart and pulse beating at a frantic pace ?
Why do you suddenly become self conscious of how you walk or act? You have a funny sensation of your gait.You don't know why you felt that way about your manner of walking. It feels strange all of a sudden..LOL!
Your brain doesn't seem to function and you get tongue-tied just thinking about what you want to say to her for fear of offending her sensibilities.
It affects both the guys and the girls. When someone is more beautiful or handsome than us, we will feel intimidated.
When a guy see's a very beautiful, hot and sexy girl,he will feel intimidated because he will think that she will have many male admirers because she is probably very popular. He may think that he is just an average guy and is not good enough for her .He fears rejection from her.
But the truth is sometimes those beautiful girls are sitting at home and waiting to be asked out. It will be the players who would dare to invite them out and leave them in the end.
For the girls,they not only have to face the intimidation's from the guys but also from their own kind. If they know another gorgeous girl is interested in him,they may give him up without trying.
They may feel that they are not pretty enough and he would not be interested in them. Some will act 'cool' towards those guys.
We feel more comfortable talking and interacting with an average looking guy.
How can you overcome those intimidation's ?
They may look more beautiful or handsome than you but everyone has their uniqueness.Do not give them too much 'worth.' They are after all humans too and not angels or God.They came from a better genes and a person is not judged on the physical beauty alone. When you have this mindset, you will not be awed by their striking beauties.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.divaasia.com/article/4062
Read More...
Summary only...
In the world of woman’s lingerie,there is a fine line between one type of panty and the next. There is the tangas, sambas or G-strings and thongs. It is a bit confusing to many people .
A G-string provides the least amount of coverage in the front as well as the back, with less than a quarter inch of fabric making up the back strap.
Why do women prefer thongs and G-strings?
Some women have well defined 'buns' and would like to show them off without those visible panty lines .Wearing them can make one feel sexy and comfortable once you get used to it .
Some women like to wear mini skirts and the hemlines are rising and sometimes , they are just an inch from the panty.
Some women are naughty,sexy and enjoy risque behaviours. Thongs and G-strings are not limited only to the women but the men wear them too and some of them even prefer the ladies variety.
The thong strap fits snugly between the buttocks for minimum coverage on the behind and virtually no visible panty line(VPL)to worry about. Some women are aghast when their panty outline are clearly seen through their dress or pants.It would spoil the aesthetic look of their behinds.
Women risk their health wearing G-strings knickers. They can damage the skin and cause infections, experts in Germany warns women.Dr Thomas Gent of the Association of Gynaecologists advised women to wear bigger pants to avoid complications.
He blamed the friction caused by the string part of the underwear for a big rise in the number of patients he had seen reporting genital inflammation.
A UK gynaecologist said it was the ill-fit rather than the underwear type that was probably the problem.
Dr Gent said: "G-strings can abrade and injure the sensitive skin around the genital area - especially if they are too tight or made with badly stitched material."
This damage can aid the spread of bacteria and cause fungal infections, he said. If underwear is too tight it can create an ideal environment for fungal infections, such as thrush, to grow and thrive.
It is obvious that you should not wear G-strings and thongs for extended period of time or for exercises.According to Rhode Island doctor Adelaide Nardone, MD, on News-Medical.Net, women should “be careful when wearing thongs [when exercising], as they may irritate delicate skin of the vulva and transfer bacteria to the vaginal area.” It is best to limit your thongs or G-Strings to special occasions only or forgo them completely.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.lifescript.com/Body/Style/Shopping/Women_Who_Wear_Thongs.aspx
http://www.funreports.com/fun/26-01-2007/1481-bikini_models-0
Read More...
Summary only...
The birth of a young one is an auspicious occasion for the parents.The first thing they will look for is to see that the baby is physically normal, acts normal like any babies and whether it is a boy or a girl.
With today's technology, they would probably have carried out scans in the first trimester and found out about the sex of their baby.
There have been a report of a baby born without any genitals .Muhammad Nabil Mustaqim Rodzake was born without genitals. The baby had only one orifice and the urine and waste products were discharged through it.
Since s/he was born without any external sexual organs, the doctors were not able to tell if it was a boy or a girl. It was only after a DNA test that the sex of the baby was known.Whether s/he will grow up as a girl or boy will be another matter.
The official sex of a baby is decided by the physical process, whether they have those male organs or female organs.There is another way to decide the sex by the psychological process, whether they exhibit those male or female characteristics.
Some can be born physically male /female but who feels that they are a woman /man trapped in the wrong body.It is not the body shape but the brains and the hormones which decide whether one is male or female. You think you are a male but later down the road, you discover that you are a female, born in the body of a male.You are a trans gender!
What would it be like to be born without any genitalia ?
At the moment , the doctors cannot do anything about it yet as the real sex of the baby has not manifested. It would be wrong to assume that it will be a boy since the DNA test showed he has male characteristics.Once,the sex is confirmed , reconstructive surgery can be performed on the baby.
If he is born in the 1st world countries, he will get those free treatments under the government policies. If he is born in a 3rd world country, he will have to depend on the generosities and charities of other people.
It will be traumatic for the baby when he grows up and finds out that he is different from the others.
We wish him all the best and hope that the government or those charitable organizations would look into his plight and help him to lead a normal life.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.themalaysianinsider.com/index.php/malaysia/29719-baby-boy-born-without-a-penis
Read More...
Summary only...
It is a very difficult decision for those couples who find themselves in this dilemma.Which is better for your kids, to stay together or to divorce?
Put it in another way. Would you be able to raise your kids who would fare better in life if you stay together or divorce?
Would you find it more conducive to raise your kids in a dysfunctional environment or in a peaceful one ?
Which is more paramount, your own happiness or your children ? Can you be a good parent when you are unhappy always ?
Would you stay in an unhappy and loveless marriage for the sake of your kids ?
If there is no more love in the family , the home is like a war zone and a battle ground between the parents.Parents may fight everyday over every little issues and sometimes violence is unavoidable. If such a condition exists in a home , it would be better to divorce and live separately.
If we seek divorce ,we may fear that the children will grow up without one of the parent's love.
How you handle your divorce and your parenting responsibilities will affect the emotional health of your children.
Some divorce can be amicable while others are acrimonious. If you can have an amicable divorce where you can share equal parental rights , then it would be better to divorce and live separately.
The children will grow up having two homes and will not be seriously affected by the divorce. You will be happier and and be in the proper frame of mind to look after their welfare while they are growing up.
The researchers say that being brought up by a secure single parent is better than being brought up by a couple whose relationship is volatile.
When you stay in a marriage and your mental and psychological state is on tender hooks, you cannot give your very best to your kids.Your perpetual state of anger and your sufferings will tell on your kids.Your trauma will be their trauma.
In such a scenario, I feel it is better to divorce and stay separately.A hurtful and angry parent is not a good parent.She may vent her frustrations unto her children and sometimes she is overcome with stress and depressions and may want to commit suicide together with her children.
If you have tried your very best to mend your marriage and it still does not work out, then leaving is the best option. There is no other recourse if your partner does not want to try to solve the impasse or to seek a compromise solution to the failed marriage.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://marriage.about.com/od/divorce/i/gooddivorceiss.htm
Related topic
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1193758/I-wish-parents-divorced-Do-parents-stay-children-harm-good.html
Read More...
Summary only...
Men find the homely shape of the girl-next-door more appealing than the 'perfect' proportions of models and centerfolds, a study found.
Women come in all shapes and sizes,curvy ,hourglass figure (Cola bottles) ,skinny size 'zero's (walking stick),athletic types , long-legged, big-chested 'Barbies',plumb(oil drum)and slim.
For the average male, they do not have high aspirations of looking for a 'perfect female.' An average female with the statistics, a 5ft 4in ,30in waist and 40in hips and who wears a size 14.
I believed that the face and the eyes are the most important features of a person because it can reveal the emotions or the soul of a person. The other parts of the body are rather static and cannot exhibit any or have limited emotions.
Her face and smile may launch a thousand ships and you will always remember her face and her smile which will never change even when she ages. It is the face that you will like and grow fond off as time elapsed.
Women should smile more often ,as a smile can brighten and make her face pleasant,captivating, beautiful and younger looking.A beautiful face is a thing of beauty but has no depth unless it is accompanied by a corresponding beautiful smile.
An average girl with an average face can be beautiful too when she smiles sweetly as the beauty that originates from the inside is sweeter than a smile that is only skin deep.Her personality will shine through her face.
She may not capture his attention on first look but her smile will surely melt his heart. The joy and the smile on her face is the most beautiful thing to admire and cherish.It warmth's the heart and creates those lovely feelings towards the smiler.
If you have an average figure, there is nothing to fret about. If a man loves you , he would be blind to your faults and whether you are skinny or fat, it would not matter to him at all.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.news.com.au/dailytelegraph/story/0,22049,25620551-5006007,00.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1192142/Gentlemen-prefer-Miss-Average-The-perfect-centrefold-body-ousted-homely-shape-girl-door-new-study.html
Read More...
Summary only...
David Carradine,who was best known for the US TV series Kung Fu, which aired from 1972-75 was found dead last Thursday.His half-naked body was found in a closet, with a rope tied around his genitals and another rope around his neck.
The actor was in Bangkok to shoot a film and had been staying at the Swissotel Nai Lert Park Hotel since Tuesday.
Many people are unfamiliar with the term,'auto-erotic asphyxiation or breath control play or scarfing.'
Erotic asphyxiation is intentionally cutting off oxygen to the brain for sexual arousal by hanging, suffocation with a plastic bag tied over the head ,self-strangulation such as with a ligature, gas or volatile solvents, chest compression, or a combination of these.
It can also be done by placing the hand over the mouth or nose and during the heightened state of ecstasy , he being stronger could have ignored her scream for air until she passed out.
The practice can be very dangerous even if performed with care and has resulted in a number of accidental deaths.You do not know at which point to stop and once you cross that point of no return , you won't be able to come back. Even if you want to come back , you would be powerless and will drift into unconsciousness and certain death , into the other world beyond.
In an article written in the Independent in 1994 by Celia Hall, erotic asphyxiation was described as extremely dangerous. She quoted American psychologist Michael Apter in her article as saying that erotic asphyxiation was 'the most dangerous sex game in the world'.
Was the death of the British student, Meredith Kercher in Perugia and the killing of the Frenchman, Olivier Mugnier, 24 a result of a dangerous sex game ? Were they involved in an erotic game when Ms Davies tried to “intensify an extreme sexual experience” by putting a knife to his throat?
There are other types of sex games , bondage, exhibitionism, pretend rapes and other weird and kinky one's.
Some teens are playing risky sex games involving drinking bodily fluids and sharing multiple partners.
Teens are playing games they call “rainbow,” “Dixie Cup” and “black-out,”
Rainbow involves oral sex while using different colored lipsticks, Dixie Cup is when participants drink bodily fluids, and black-out is when black paper is placed over the windows to block out light so teens can have sex anonymously with multiple partners in total darkness.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://tnp.sg/news/story/0,4136,204488,00.html?
http://www.bangkokpost.com/news/local/17976/a-dangerous-sex-game
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/the_way_we_live/article2968706.ece
http://www.examiner.com/a-401861~Health_officials_say_teens_are_playing_dangerous_sex_games.html
Read More...
Summary only...
We often read news about police busting those private group sex parties being held in those hotels or private rented homes in Malaysia. This could be just the tip of the iceberg. There maybe more private sex parties that are being held and it is occurring more often or widespread than we know.
Many of these group sex are well organized and hidden from our knowledge. We may not even know if the person next to us is involved or not.
A survey found that the Australian women are as keen as men to take part in consensual group sex and they initiate it often.This must come as a shocking news as the women like it as much as the men!I guess, it is harder to satisfy a woman than a man and that is why they prefer more of those group sex.
Most of those participants are couples and not singles. They participate together with other couples and what is sauce for the goose is also source for the gander.
Many of us may not have participated in consensual group sex and do not know the pleasures derived from it.Some will not even think of it because of their religious faith. We can only fantasize about sleeping with some others partner...LOL!
The most common reasons given for group sex are excitement, variety and to spice up long-term relationships.Whether it can spice up the long term relationship or destroy it is anybody's guess.
I am sure there will be jealousy and bruised ego's all around especially the women who are more emotional and petty minded.Some will have regrets because they were pressured into it or being impaired with alcohol or drugs.Alcohol and drugs would be freely available to let loose their inhibitions .
Sex with the same partner may not be the same anymore because the other women may have better bodies and she will have inferiority complex about it.
The most common form of group sex is a threesome, although one third of respondents say their largest group involved five or more people.Some may only engage once and stop while others may do it weekly or monthly .
It maybe a few minutes or hours of fun but it will be a lifetime of bitterness for some. Some would say,'Life is short!You should enjoy everything under the sun .'
Is it worth it?
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.news.com.au/story/0,27574,25541220-29277,00.html
Read More...
Summary only...
Are you beautiful? Are you rich ? Do you have what it takes to get a partner? What are the criteria for choosing a mate.
We all know that men are attracted to beauty in women and they can fall in love at first sight . The moment they set their eyes on a beautiful woman they will fall in love with her even if he does not know her .
This kind of love is only skin deep and shallow. The moment she disappears from his sight, he will forget about her unless she is very striking and impressive. It will then be etched deeply in his mind.
Women need to pay attention to their physical attractiveness if they want to keep their mates from straying.Men have roving eyes and it is impossible to stop them from ogling at other pretty women.
It may not be love but probably lust in their eyes. This is the most important and the first criteria in selecting a woman. No men want to to sleep with an ugly woman unless he is blind ,dumb or ugly . Real love is colour blind and blind to all her /his faults.
Physical attractiveness is the highest on their list.They may like a woman for her face,eyes, boobs, legs, butts or any parts of her body. The other qualities are not very important but it will be a bonus if she has, compatibility ,intelligence, sociability, common background
Some men do not fall in love on fist look but on second look when the girls showed their inner beauties and charms. Those without the 'looks' but the inner beauty will get their men.
Physical attractiveness of a man is not very important to a woman. In fact it can be a disadvantage as those men are more tempted to stray.They are not husband materials but more of a plaything. It is not about looks but manners.
Women look for the socioeconomic status of the men , having a stable job and able to provide her with financial and emotional support. Their earning powers,social status and job prestige rates highly on her priority list.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://books.google.com/books?id=BfmuYfz57-8C&pg=PA98&lpg=PA98&dq=Men+do+not+marry+women+like+these&source=bl&ots=rS-ta1N0cd&sig=UQe8OK1B3A6u3Pq77aHupU7LhMg&hl=en&ei=L9wnSvTUC8yAkQXR3fjoDQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=2#PPA105,M1
Read More...
Summary only...
Women are attracted to confident,self assured and capable men.They are also attracted by their skills, abilities, and achievements. They maybe dominant in their chosen fields but for a long term relationship,women find it unattractive as they could be domineering in the household.
The women want someone whom she can respect and admire but who have a weak spot for them . He can protect her from outsiders or walk over them .In essence they want to have control over him .It can be so subtle that he is not being aware of it.
Men are expected to be dominant in the marriage.It has been the norm since the ages.There are dominant as well as submissive men and the same goes for women.It is finding the right type that suits you or attracted to you . Opposites may attract.
You cannot have everything in life and sometimes you have to submit to each other.Being submissive all the time can be depressing. There is no freedom and you can chaff under the yoke. It would be better if you can compromise sometimes and meet each other half way. It may not be the most ideal situation but at least it makes both of your satisfied.Give and take some .
Sometimes the women maybe the dominant partner but in the back of her mind , she may fantasize being dominated by the men.It will only remain a fantasy unless the men are pushed or received a kick in their butts.
They want dominant men but are turned off by domineering men.This sounds paradoxical. Men have a bigger ego and they do not want to lose out to their women.
Women want to be loved and cherish by strong and amicable men . A dominant men may attract her at first but if he does not know how to temper his dominance, he will lose her in the end.
If you are a submissive or vulnerable women , you would naturally be attracted to a strong and dominant man.
reference and thanks to :-
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/articleshow/3857017.cms
http://books.google.com/books?id=BfmuYfz57-8C&pg=PA98&lpg=PA98&dq=Men+do+not+marry+women+like+these&source=bl&ots=rS-ta1N0cd&sig=UQe8OK1B3A6u3Pq77aHupU7LhMg&hl=en&ei=L9wnSvTUC8yAkQXR3fjoDQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=2#PPA8,M1
Read More...
Summary only...
This is a truly moving and very sad tragedy which took place on Beachy Head.
A mother and father committed suicide together by jumping to their deaths with their dead small child in a backpack, and another bag beside them full of his toys.
Their grief and devastation were too great to bear and they decided to join their beloved son who was crippled since a car crash in 2005 - died of meningitis last week.They did not want to be separated from him even in death.
As the story unfolded,theirs was a sorrowful and tragic heartbreaking tale.
They were having a perfect life until that fateful day when an unfortunate accident which turned their life upside down.
She was driving Sam through the Somerset lanes to visit friends when a Volvo coming the other way careered into their path. According to one report, the Volvo driver was distracted by her dogs in the back.
In the resulting smash, Mrs Puttick broke her legs and her pelvis, while her son who was just 16 months suffered devastating injuries which left him paralysed from the neck down and confined to a wheelchair.
Kazumi and Neil both gave up their jobs after the car accident to dedicate themselves to their son. They did everything possible to make their son's life comfortable .
The loving parents devoted their lives to caring for their injured son. How very cruel that he should be taken from them by a fatal infection.
They fought against all odds that fate has thrown their way but the death of their precious child snuffed out their desire to live . It robbed them of a meaningful existence . I live for my children too and without them , I too would feel my life has no purpose .
They were too consumed with grief and misery. Their agony , heartbreak and anguished took a big toll which lead them to take the journey of no return together with their beloved son.
One person's carelessness destroyed a loving family and that fate has dealt a major blow to this loving and perfect family.
Life and death is not in our hands. Treasure your children because we do not know what will happen tomorrow or what the future holds.
May their souls rest in peace . Our hearts and prayers for them and where ever you are, I hope you will find the peace and tranquility .
When we die we leave behind us all we have, and take with us all we are. -Anonymous.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1190061/Beachy-Head-suicide-First-picture-Sam-Puttick-5-meningitis-death-sparked-familys-fatal-jump.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/debate/article-1190466/Maeve-Haran-Guilt-grief-just-deep-bear-pushed-couple-Beachy-Head.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1191129/The-smile-parents-live-The-heart-breaking-story-Beachy-Head-tragedy.html
Read More...
Summary only...
Today is 'International Whores Day,' and is celebrated in countries where prostitution is legalized. Prostitution is the oldest profession and can never be eradicated totally.
It attracts not only those who have no skills or low I.Q's but the smart intelligent and beautiful women too. It is the EL Dorado for women. They can earn from $150.00 to $500.00 an hour plus all those perks .
In places where it is illegal, it does not mean that it does not exist but it is driven underground .Either the government closed an eye over this issue or sweep it under the carpet.
The authorities cannot control two individuals who want to make a private deal and what happens in the room is none of their business . In some Islamic countries like Malaysia, the religious and moral police can barge into any hotel rooms and arrest those of the Islamic faith for close proximity or illegal intercourse.
Where there is a demand , there will be a supply. They provide an essential service to the community .Their contributions to the society is unrecognized as their profession is considered immoral and unethical .It is not easy to change people's perspective .
To mention the name ,'Prostitute or Hooker,'would invite scorn and derogatory looks.Even if you work in those social escort agencies,spas,bars,night clubs,massage parlours, you are tainted as well.Some are just fronts for prostitution.
Societies discrimination's and misconceptions of those hookers are hard to remove . It is too deeply ingrained and it would take a very modern and progressive society to give those hookers their rights, treat them fairly and be free from discrimination's.
They are a high risk group and banks or lenders would not want to take the risk. Even though they are working and their incomes can be lucrative, yet they do not have a long life. Their value drops when their age goes up .
Their only recourse is to earn as much as possible while the sun shines and then spend their hard earned money before diseases or death descents upon them.
With all those money stashed away , who needs a bank loan?
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.news.com.au/dailytelegraph/story/0,22049,25575256-5001021,00.html
Read More...
Summary only...
Posts
