It is no big deal to some modern and liberated females, for whether you sleep with him on the first date or not. They are not bothered with the consequences or they are immune from the after effects.
It just happens after an enjoyable and happy evening .Some highly sexed females have no qualms about getting what they wanted from life.After all, this is the year 2009 and sex is not the prerogative of only the males.
Sometimes it is just circumstances and those men are very handsome and glib with their tongues.He is a lady killer who seduces the women and she falls for his trap.
It is better to know early and not waste too much time and efforts in a soon to be a failed relationship.If he is into you , he will stick around for more. You would then know his true colours whether he is the one for you or just for the sex alone .
If he is not interested or his motive is only to bed you he will just disappear after his conquest and will not call again.
Most guys view women as a conquest and once they have captured their prey ,they may lose interest and go looking for another new target.
Conservative females may feel that it is better to withhold the sex until the third or fourth date because to have sex on the first date is cheap.
If she is easily taken, the men may feel that the chase is too easy and that she is of loose character.
They may think that she is most probably having sex with all her male friends.The harder the chase , the more she is highly valued in his eyes.
They may just want to play around with her with no intentions of getting married.She becomes his plaything only.
For some , withholding sex can weed out those pretenders to the throne and only those who are for real will get to cross the finishing line.
If and when they break up, the girls may feel dirty , cheap , used and sometimes stupid. In the worst scenario , he may give her the craps or make her pregnant and her world would collapse.
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