My husband is a gay !

It can be very sickening , horrifying and scandalous to discover that one's husband is now a gay.

There is not much the poor wife can do about it. When he has discovered his true sexual preferences, nothing will ever stop him from doing it.

There is no simple explanations for his present behaviour, for there are many factors which caused him to prefer the same sex. It is difficult to pin point on any factors.

Whether it is love with the same sex or not, it is still considered cheating in the eyes of a woman.

The women cannot change her husbands sexual preference.Once he has decided to come out of his closet, his dice is cast.

Either the women have to accept his new lifestyle or go separate ways.There are many people who cannot accept the gays community.

They think and feel that it is wrong and goes against their religious ,moral beliefs and upbringings.

There is a conflict of ideology and she may face a sexless marriage if she chose not to seek a divorce.

Do you think a woman can accept this kind of life?

Even if she still wants to stay with the man , it is quite possible that he is no more into her.

It could be a one sided affair and it would be better for her to let him go and seek his own happiness.

Sometimes ,I ponder the question of why should there be only one type of relationship in this world ?

What if a man does not like a woman or vice versa ?

Does this mean that they can never have any relationship and destined to be lonely through out their life?

If they like the same sex, should not they be given the same rights and not discriminated upon.

The law must not only appear to be fair but must be seen to be fair too.

The government is of the people and for the people and not a religious state where everything is based on the holy book.

That is why more states in the USA is passing laws to legalize the same sex marriage.

Being a gay is not forever, there are gays who went back to being straight again. It is like the four seasons. Nothing is ever permanent.


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