Today's young men are different from the young men of a generation ago. Each succeeding new generations will have it"s own standards and norms of behaviours. Whether they are good or bad depends on each individual's outlook.
The world has changed a lot with the advent of all those technological and electronic inventions and new gizmos. The computer age has created a border less world .You can connect with each other any where on this planet and distance is no barrier.
The computer is like your window to the world and you do not have to get out of the house to enjoy seeing the world.You can do it within the confines and comforts of your house.
The young people of today speaks a different language and their characters are moulded by the events and happenings of the new world .The young men of yesteryear's were not as tempted as what the new generations are facing now.
The older generations may typecast these young men as being childish, immature , insensitive and sex obsessed. The new generations are a pampered lot and most of them have not face hardships or know what hardship is all about.
They grow up in some middle class family background and because they have not faced any big problems in their life, they live a sedate lifestyle and their maturity are somewhat slower and lower as compared to the last generations.
What is maturity ?
This is not easy to quantify as various people have different ideas about maturity. In my opinion , a person is only matured when s/he is married and have children. You may be old in years but if you do not marry or have kids, you are not really matured and you tend to have a lower maturity level than a married person of a younger age than you. Responsibility comes with maturity.
Maturity is just a perception and where do we use a yardstick to measure a person's maturity?
If you belong to the older generations , then you will see that today's teens are less matured than them. They are caught in the headlong traffic of getting a degree and it is all about study and study and getting the right results.
They are a pressured lot and achievements are expected upon them by their parents. It is like a rat world .Everyone wants to win and are afraid to lose.
With the computer age, more pornography is available and sex crimes are on a rise . I would not say that they are sex mad but they do not believe in the sanctity of marriage anymore and have sex whenever available .
In the present world, it is normal to have kids outside of marriage and sleeping around is very common.Having multiple sex partners is also the norm these days. Some females would say that some men are more geared towards sex than the responsibilities that it brings. Sex without any strings attached.
This is just my generalizations only as there are many men that are matured , sensitive and not sex mad. You read about women not finding the right men because of these factors. How true is it?
Maybe , another factor is men are getting more effiminate and laid back and waiting for the women to come after them.
"To a woman the first kiss is just the end of the beginning but to a man it is the beginning of the end."
Reference and thanks to ;-
http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/world/2008-07/25/content_6877284.htm
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