THEY are young ,in their twenties ,attractive, well-educated, have good careers and are financially independent. They have lots of capital and can afford to choose the best of the best .
They expect only the best and have set a very high criteria for their Mr. Right. The reason why they are still single is because no men are able to matched their criterion's. They keep looking for the perfect man and expect perfections like they think they are angels .I wish them all the luck.
Some of them maybe lucky to find their right man while others will become wall flowers which adorn the walls or on those shelves and gather cobwebs on them.
As they get older, they will become more desperate and their high level bar will come down lower and lower. They prefer men around their ages but they lacked the experience and social grace . While those men who have those qualities are too old for them. One has youth and the other experience. Never the twine shall meet.
What do they expect from the men?
He has to be intellectual, knowledgeable and a good conversationalist and a perfect gentleman .Being a good conversationalist means he must be a good listener and knows what to say the right things at the right time to her.
This comes with experience and through trials and errors because not all girls think alike.What is meat to one ,maybe poison to another.
The men should not be too possessive and control her thoughts or asked her to account for what she does when she is not with him. This will indicate his lack of trust, confidence and insecurity in the relationship. It is a big turn off.
In the early stages of romance, it will not be tolerated by the females. The men must be on their best behaviors at all time and pander to their whims and fancies. She expects him to act that way even after the marriage. She demands to be treated like a queen in the early stages of the chase.
She wants to have a relationship and at the same time be independent ,wanting the best of both worlds . She can be traditional or the modern, liberated and emancipated women when it suits her . She expects the men to lead and yet at the same time wants him to be in tow behind her. That is the paradox of life and being with woman.
Most men must learn to hold back their fears and jealousies .He should learn to close one eye or 'hear no evil, see no evil and talk no evil,' to have a happy and long lasting relationship.
Being young and inexperience, the guy will flop and disappoint her. Guys the same age as her will most often fail her high expectations and the romance would break up after some time.
She may not aim for a a very rich man but she would be looking for a man who is some where on the same financial level or above her. If they cannot catch a big fish then prawns will do.
She wants all his love, his time and his money.Many men will have to juggle all those three and he will not be able to satisfy her.
Many men will not find a right partner because of the high criteria and they are looking for Vietnamese brides who are just too happy to marry any good men as long as they are able to provide them a decent living.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://tnp.sg/news/story/0,4136,174391,00.html?
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