Today's young men are different from the young men of a generation ago. Each succeeding new generations will have it"s own standards and norms of behaviours. Whether they are good or bad depends on each individual's outlook.
The world has changed a lot with the advent of all those technological and electronic inventions and new gizmos. The computer age has created a border less world .You can connect with each other any where on this planet and distance is no barrier.
The computer is like your window to the world and you do not have to get out of the house to enjoy seeing the world.You can do it within the confines and comforts of your house.
The young people of today speaks a different language and their characters are moulded by the events and happenings of the new world .The young men of yesteryear's were not as tempted as what the new generations are facing now.
The older generations may typecast these young men as being childish, immature , insensitive and sex obsessed. The new generations are a pampered lot and most of them have not face hardships or know what hardship is all about.
They grow up in some middle class family background and because they have not faced any big problems in their life, they live a sedate lifestyle and their maturity are somewhat slower and lower as compared to the last generations.
What is maturity ?
This is not easy to quantify as various people have different ideas about maturity. In my opinion , a person is only matured when s/he is married and have children. You may be old in years but if you do not marry or have kids, you are not really matured and you tend to have a lower maturity level than a married person of a younger age than you. Responsibility comes with maturity.
Maturity is just a perception and where do we use a yardstick to measure a person's maturity?
If you belong to the older generations , then you will see that today's teens are less matured than them. They are caught in the headlong traffic of getting a degree and it is all about study and study and getting the right results.
They are a pressured lot and achievements are expected upon them by their parents. It is like a rat world .Everyone wants to win and are afraid to lose.
With the computer age, more pornography is available and sex crimes are on a rise . I would not say that they are sex mad but they do not believe in the sanctity of marriage anymore and have sex whenever available .
In the present world, it is normal to have kids outside of marriage and sleeping around is very common.Having multiple sex partners is also the norm these days. Some females would say that some men are more geared towards sex than the responsibilities that it brings. Sex without any strings attached.
This is just my generalizations only as there are many men that are matured , sensitive and not sex mad. You read about women not finding the right men because of these factors. How true is it?
Maybe , another factor is men are getting more effiminate and laid back and waiting for the women to come after them.
"To a woman the first kiss is just the end of the beginning but to a man it is the beginning of the end."
Reference and thanks to ;-
http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/world/2008-07/25/content_6877284.htm
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THE CHINA WOMEN
THE NEW POWER
"WE WILL RULE THE WORLD" ...
When you think of the China woman in this part of the world , you would inevitably have an unfavourable and stereotype concept of them.
Most of them whom you have met or heard or seen are here to make money by hook or crook and send them back to support their poor and aged parents or sick and unemployed husbands and young children back home
They are here on a mission and whatever it takes them to do , even selling their souls to the devil , they will try their very best to achieve their aims and objectives.
They are different in look and mannerisms of the local Chinese women in Malaysia.Sometimes the lines do blurred as they blend in with the local population.
Most of those China women are young and they are very hot and moved in groups with their country women or with their pimps or escorts.
While the more popular Vietnamese women are here to stay, the China women are only here for a short stint to make as much money as possible before her time is up.
They are like the Indonesian maids, the Filipino maids who have to leave their country because of the lack of opportunities for them to earn a decent living .
Those China girls do not want to be maids as they cannot earn much.
They would rather do anything to get rich quick and the only job available for them is to engaged in the oldest profession which pays handsomely in the shortest time .
The older ones may find another easier job by living as a mistress to those middle aged and pot bellied men who will keep them until their money ran out. 'No money no honey.'
This created a lot of social problems in the society with the men getting divorced or neglecting their duties to their spouse.
The new ones will be brought in to work as guest relation officer (GRO ) in those night clubs and Karaoke joints or pubs .
It is just a front for prostitution as two willing adults can do whatever they want after an exchange of favours.
They are here not to enjoy but to make as much as they can because what they are doing is illegal by law and they risk going to jail if caught .
They come here on a social visit pass which does not allow them to work in this country. They go back and spread the good news and more China girls will follow in the 'El Dorado' trails. | The China Olympics which is now on in Beijing at this moment has shown the real and true qualities of the China women.
They have excelled in sporting competitions , in education, in business and soon to be in politics.
Of the 27 gold medals that China has bagged so far, 17 were won by China's women athletes.
Since 1949, the government of People's Republic of China has actively promoted the social, economic and political roles of women in society.
While advancing progress in promoting equality among men and women, the efforts met resistance in a traditionally Confucian society of male superiority.
There is no doubt that the China men are more chauvinistic even until today. They expect their wife to be submissive to them and they want to lord over them.
It is like the coming off age of the China women into the 21st century and it is a great loss if they are neglected or sidelined. A country's greatness is it's human resources.
If a country does not give the opportunities to it's people than it will slip into the reverse gear like a certain country where it practices Apartheid policies favouring only a particular race causing the best brains to leave.
China is supposed to be a classless society under the communist system of government where everyone is supposed to be equal.
The Chinese burgeoning population growth forced the government to implement the harsh and cruel one child per family law.
Many of those families prefered a male child because of the Chinese culture and many baby girls were terminated after the results were known .
The China Olympics have pushed the China women to the fore and the world is taking notice of them now.
Women make up of 50 % of the population of most countries and to ignore them would be a peril.
Most of the workforce now consist of women . Go into any bank,office and factory and you will see almost 90% of them are of the fairer sex.
Soon, the females will rule the world in the not too distant future as the males retreat from the onslaught of their aggressive forays into the men's world.
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Reference and thanks to;-
http://tnp.sg/news/story/0,4136,173526,00.html?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_in_the_People%27s_Republic_of_China
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