Want To Leave But How ?

I'M PACKING MY BAGS...
GOODBYE ! AUF WIEDERSEHEN !

"I never wanted to go away, and the hardest part now is the leaving you.. "

Sock It To Him !

..."I don't know how to not love you, I only know how to not let you go. ~Tigress Luv, The Breakup Guru.........

In the beginning , everything is just so fine and sweet and you think s/he is the one you are looking for .

When the magic portion disappears or the honeymoon period is over , you will see the faults of an imperfect person ; you begin to have doubts and this could make or break your relationships.

There comes a time when you realized that s/he is not the perfect one for you and you want to move on with your life .

How would you break the news gently to him/her  as diplomatically as possible , minimizing any fallouts or collateral damage.

There is no way you can escape the pain and effects of a failed relationship. The pain will be more on the receiver side as being dumped or rejected is very demoralizing .

After much deliberations , you think you had enough of him and it is time to bid adieu to your beau . Breaking up is such sweet sorrow and you will have to perform the job whether you liked it or not.

What is the best way to apply the medicine so that the victim will not feel the pain nor linger on in abject miseries for all his life ?

Will you administer the short and the quick ' go for the jugular' or will it be the slow  but still deadly  poison method ?

If you still do not know how to dump your soon to be ex, you can always asked the 'Guru of Knowledge Google .'

According to some experts on love affairs , you should be direct and be face to face with that person. For most girls , they would rather hear it from the lips of that person to confirmed the truth . Any other way by text, message or phone cannot be taken as the truth.

The message or text could be send by someone other than the original person. Just tell it as what you feel inside your heart . The end justify the means.

Before you land the TKO blow or give her the bitter medicine  , sweetened it a bit  ,praise her and thank her for the time . Make a clean break and do not say anything more which can confused her.

Everything will find it's own level and whether you can still be friends or not will depend on circumstances. Leave it to fate.

If telling her/him face to face is very difficult for you , then you may consider writing a letter or e- mail where you can better put your thoughts down on paper and then meet him for one last hurray.

She/he  will soon get over the disappointments. You will in  time fall in love again with another .
 Your love  cycle will begin again just like the four seasons.

What's your opinion ? Any comments are welcome .

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