Do you withhold sex from your partner ?

Do you use sex as a bargaining chip or as a reward or punishment ?

Generally but with exceptions, women tend to use her sex to reward or punish her partner.They may deny it but subconsciously they may not be aware of their actions..

When she is satisfied and contented, she would gladly give her favours to her partner. When she does not get her way or felt unloved, she would deny him and send him to live in the dog house to teach him a lesson.

In the past ,women would use their sex weapon while men would use the financial weapon to get what they wanted from their partners.

Today ,this is not working anymore as some women have considerable financial clout and the men do not have anymore bargaining chips.

Do women have any valid reasons to withhold sex from their partners ?

In some society, sex is a taboo during her menstruation period as it is considered unclean. They would abstain from sex during this time.

A scientific study have found that women are more 'frisky' during this period and sex is more enjoyable and stimulating.It would take the men to get used to seeing those strawberry jams .

When you have a serious argument with her, she would most probably be put off and if you come on forcefully , she will not enjoy the sex session ,but may feel violated or puke.

Women have a tendency to take any criticisms or arguments personally. They have this built in mechanism and if you want to be in her good books, you will need to resolve any thorny issues or differences and agree with her quickly before the sun goes down.It is not about who is right or wrong but the men should give way to her to make her feel better.

She will eventually know that she was in the wrong but will not admit it. It is about pride and her vanity. She does not like to be told that she was wrong.

In the Bible, we should not withhold sex to our partners unless we are sick or unwell. Our body belongs to our partners after marriage and we are one.Sex should not be used as a weapon to control or manipulate our partners.