Wednesday, April 22, 2009

A daughter's love for her dementia mother....denied and trampled upon.

Many homeless and poor who lived on the streets do not have shelter or a place they can call home.

The government shelter is overflowing and there are no more places for those millions of homeless vagabonds roaming the streets.

Those who are lucky and able to pay ,were put into those commercially run care home.

This bizarre case is unfathomable and incomprehensible. The state social services with the police went and took back that old lady and put her back in the care home against the daughter's wishes.
The mother was unhappy at the care home and the daughter took her home to look after herself.
It is not free and the daughter have to pay £2,000-a-month to that care home for her upkeep.

It seems that the state has over ruled the decision of the daughter to take her mother from that care home to look after herself. The daughter will have to go to court to fight against the system.

Don't you think that it is an abuse of the state authorities to force it's citizen against their will? The daughter should be the best person to decide where her mother belongs.It is her responsibility alone and not some little Napoleons who lord over them.

This is certainly not right and proper to prevent the daughter from taking care of her own mother.
The state authorities decided what is best for you and you have no say in that issue whatsoever.

This is really frightening because power lies in the hands of those officials who decides your fate . If they failed to do the job, then you become another statistics.

Over here, the government encourages it's citizen to look after their aged parents themselves instead of sending them to those senior citizen's homes.

Due to the great amount of care and time needed to look after them , most children would send them to those care homes where they are well taken care off.

In the Asian society value, filial piety is a highly honoured tradition.

Our sympathies to her daughter.After she had done so much for her mother, it was still considered not enough.This is regrettable and a disgrace .

Reference and thanks:-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1172640/The-moment-social-services-backed-police-battering-ram-snatched-dementia-patient-daughters-house-took-care-home.html

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