"Having sex everyday will keep the doctor away!" This is not a fallacy as sex is medically proven to keep you healthy and good looking. You do not have to go to those expensive slimming courses or belong to any gym club because you will be burning calories when you have sex.
The more athletic the sex, the more you will burn and stay fitter.Sex is also an antidepressant. When you have sex and enjoying those pleasures, your body produces a substance called serotonin which acts like an antidepressant drug Prozac. This is natural antidepressant produced by your body.
When you feel stressed, sex is the natural antidote .
Regular love sessions can also postpone the onset of menopause, stimulate fertility, and regulate the menstrual cycle.For the men , the more sex they have ., the more the body produces the hormone testosterone. The hormone is able to stimulate tissue replacement and bone growth and prevent osteoporosis.Overall, you would feel much better after sex and you have a longer life span.
In theory ,it is good for our health but in reality it is difficult to have sex everyday as we are so busy with work and stress and are affected by circumstances in life. Maybe, those married couples should try to fit in the time whenever possible.
There are other physiological and psychological factors which has to be taken into account.They may not be able to have sex everyday but as long as they feel contented and happy with each other, they have achieved their objectives in life.
Is there any side effects from too much sex?
Medically, I think there are no negative side effects as long as you take care of your diets,eat the proper and rich diet , have enough rest and sleep .
The advantages of sex out weights the disadvantages. If you want to stay healthy and be free from sickness, you should consider this natural remedy.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.4-men.org/reasonsforsex.html
Some men take second wives or third wives or keep a harem. If the women does not submit to being the second or third wives, then there is really no question about this issue.
Are today's modern and liberated women any different from their peers of eon's ago? Have today's educated and emancipated women able to break away from their traditionalist thinking's ?
Most of today's women are more independent minded, ambitious and career oriented and some may even make more than the men. This has lead to a dire situation where there are few compatible men as women would rather marry upwards or prefer those on the same level as them. .Women of today are getting married later or not getting married at all because of the present situation.
It may not be a bad preposition to be the second wife or third as long as their needs are well taken care off .They live peacefully and are happy to be in that situation. There are of course two sides of this issue.
What is the point of being the only wife when she does not enjoy what she is entitled to under a marriage ? One man one wife concept may deem fair but the world does not evolve that way.
Many men and women are tempted to cheat while being married and this is the cause of the high divorce rate.Rather than cheat on the sideline, it would be better to make it legitimate and solve all those heartaches and problems of a cheating spouse.
It is a culture or religion in some societies to have several wives . In the olden times , the women from those poor families offered their daughters in marriage to those rich men as they could not afford to feed them and it was the only way for their daughters to escape from poverty and enjoy a fruitful and blessed life. Some of them became servants to those rich people who later married them .
Some people cannot even afford to marry but those who are rich and powerful have many wives , mistresses ,lovers and whatnots.
As long as they are happy , what is there to prevent the men from marrying more than one wife and women being the other wives. What if there are more women than men?
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Not many will be able to afford it and no one in the right frame of mind will wear it on them except in their dreams.It would have to be specially fitted on the very lucky woman.
Adriana Lima is pictured here wearing the most expensive bra in the world.
It contains 3,575 black diamonds, 117 certified one-carat round diamonds and 34 rubies, adorned with nearly 3,900 stunning gems.
The wearer of this bra would have the right contours to match this extravagant and exquisite bra like Adriana.
The bra alone would not be appealing if not for the sexy and curvaceous Brazilian model. This goes to show that it is not the bra but the beautiful bode which brings out the beauty. The jewels that are within are more priceless than those on the outside, others may not agree with my views.
For the ordinary Jane's, bra's can be pricey enough even without those stones.
Reference and thanks to ;-
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/showbiz/bizarre/article1822041.ece
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Before you fall in love with a guy , you should not only check him out thoroughly but also his parents or specifically his mother or your future MIL.Failure to do this would bring you untold miseries and make your life on Earth like hell.
Check out their relationships and what kind of relationships the guy has with his mother. Is he the independent type or is he the filial son to his mother.This will have a very important bearings to your happiness and sanity.
Do not because of love ignore this checking out of your future MIL. Ignore it at your own perils! You may think you are only marrying his son but it can be a big mistake if you think his mother does not influence his opinions on many things. His actions or in actions will give you plenty of heartaches and headaches.
If you do not want to have any MIL problems , you should seek out his opinions on whether you will be staying together with the MIL or only the two of you after you are married.
The best course after you have married is to move out and stay alone from either parents and live your own life together without any complications from either parents.It is hard enough to understand a man without the complexities of the MIL who would probably give you hell for taking away her son away from her. No matter how good is your in laws, sooner or later , there will be a clash of cultures and opinions .
What if you are already in that situation where you have no choice and your overbearing MIL is lording over your life and treating you like dirt ?
You cannot expect your husband to take your side as he is torn between you and his mother. By right he should be on your side but many a man do not see it this way. Many will think of their mother first and wife second.
If the situation has deteriorated into a no win situation and untenable , you need to stand up to your MIL's abuses and tell her to F.O and leave your husband and family: if the worst comes to the worst.Stand up for your rights to live the way you want or you will be trampled upon.
If you are not going to fight this war,no one will fight it for you . You will forever lose everything and you become like a zombie or be treated worst than a refugee in your own home.
There is no guarantee that you can win this war and not suffer the consequences but this is the only way , if you want to gain back your rights and live your own life with your man.
A trial separation is good because it will enable them to think of what they will miss when you are not there , for they have taken you for granted. However , you must be prepared that things may not go the way you envisioned. Your spineless husband may give you up and if that happens, it is better you seek a divorce and find another man .
If he wants you back , then it will be on your terms and they will have to respect you and your rights. If he does not want you , it is pointless going back to that kind of life. Start a new life ,get a job and be independent.
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"Fools enter where angels fear to thread ! " When you are on the outside, you want to get in and when you are on the inside , you want to get out. This is the paradox of marriage.
Who invented the institution of marriage?
Some say it is God while others think it is women.
I do not know but judging from the way women benefits from it all , you would know that answer.
The smart , successful and 30 something women want to marry but when she finds the man , he is disinterested in marrying. Almost on the threshold but yet seem so far and elusive.
What is there in marriage for the modern men when they have sex, live together like a couple and probably have kids too? They are in a marriage situation short of the legal paper work.
The men can have the cake and eat it. Who can blame them for not wanting to get married when women throw caution to the wind.
This is a disinclination for them to marry and they are enjoying it minus the legal implications when they want to go their separate ways.
Some of the men fear marriage because when they divorce, she would take 50% of his money , the kids, the home and everything. The percentage of divorce rate is so high these days and even before they want to marry, they are thinking of what they will do if they divorce.
Married guys are often seen to be working off their asses paying for bills and bills and spending less time with the family nor have any sex life. Sometimes, they don't even get along with their kids which added to their problems.
If you married the wonderful and good wife , it is your good luck. Many others have married the angel who later morphed into a deceitful, treacherous , sly , manipulative and controlling hag. Marriage is about power, money and sex and it is inevitable when they are two totally and completely different beings.
A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband. A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife. Some men will not know about real happiness until they got married and by then it was too late.
Marriage is not a word; it is a long sentence for the men.
For further readings; -
http://www.nomarriage.com/why_men_should_not_marry.html
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080905164111AAIFxbJ
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