There are people who says that a threesome can improve their relationships but I do not buy that idea.
You are dealing with a woman who is a complex being and no matter how you look at this issue, you will never understand what goes on in a woman's mind.
She may accede to your fantasies but you would surely regret it ,for the effects can be very long lasting and may even destroy your marriage or relationship.
She may not be able to foresee the consequences until it hits home and by then , there is nothing she can do about it.
A person who has never seen a Tsunami does not know what it is like and only understands when she experienced it and lives to tell the horrors.
It is not purely a sex act where there is no emotions, mental or psychological factors involved. It is unlike having sex with two hookers where you just leave after you have enjoyed those sessions.
Having a threesome with your wife or g/f with another person who is usually their best friend or relatives can bring on many social and emotional repercussions.
Your WAG's would be made to feel insecure ,inadequate and jealousy will rear it's ugly head big time.You may like the other woman more or she could like you and your relationship becomes more complicated.
You cannot control or stop her from loving you .What if she becomes a psycho and comes on for you ? You will be in deep sh*t ! You let the genie out of the lamp and you will have a hard time putting her back into it.
Love and emotions are very powerful forces and once you unleashed it , you may not be able to control it and you will be swept away by those forces , swallowed by those dark forces.
Then , there is the question of STD's and pregnancies . There are no 100% safe method of contraception's. What if the other woman becomes pregnant and does not want to abort?
No matter what you have agreed upon for the threesome, it may not hold water as circumstances can change and once you have done it, you will reap what you sowed.
If you want a peaceful and serene relationship which last for eternity, a threesome should be furthest from your mind. You may have fantasies or dreams and that is all
you can enjoy.
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