Why having friends is essentially important to married women ?

No man is an island and for women this is more true because her life would not be satisfactory if she lives alone or without her friends especially her female friends.

A woman is a pack animal for she is not made to live a loner . She needs the support and camaraderie of her own kinds in order to survive in this unfair world.

After getting married , her friends will slowly fade into the background as she devouts much of her time to her new world .She may move away from her old friends to a new set of his friends.


Her partner may try to cut her off from all her friends as he may dislike her for mixing with them and poisoning her mind against him.Those men prefer them to be ignorant and under their controls.

In the new world , she may not have the time for her friends but when things are settled down , she should resume her friendship with some of her best friends.

As we go along in life , we will have many types of friends.From childhood to the end of our days. We will meet lots of people and they become our friends .Friends who know who you are and meet daily or see each other often. Some people can make friends easily because they are friendly and warmth while some are cold and aloof.

True friends are a rarity , who stick around through thick and thin with you . We have many friends whom we call drink buddies .

True friendship is something special. It gives you support and companionship, builds up your self-esteem and shares your joys , happiness and whatever emotional ups and downs. Having a true friend means you are never completely alone.

There are three types of friends:-

1. Friendships made through shared activities such as evening or natal classes, sport or work. The relationships that you form with these people can seem very intense because you spend so much time with them,but in fact, they are often superficially pleasant, but not very deep and they may end once you move on.

2. Historical friendships that go back many years, perhaps childhood, schooldays or teenage years.You often feel warm and nostalgic about these friendships but they too could still be quite superficial.

3.Soul friendships are the most lasting. These are the people you trust and open up to. You tell them the truth about yourself, your life, and your feelings. You don't have to play games and you can let your guard down. Bless you if your friendship is a soul friendship.

There is another kind of friends,internet friends. Friends you have never met in real life until your paths crossed.You know them in the virtual world and they may share their secrets with you like a very close and intimate friend.

A man cannot talk about many girlish subjects and when it comes to woman's affairs, it will take another woman to understand what they are going through.Women relate better with each other and this is why they need their friends to keep them sane .

Her friends are like the sunlight , the water and the fertilizer and without them , she will wilt and not bloom to her full potentials.