I'm not ready for a relationship?

You probably would have heard this once too many times or their equivalent of that they want to be alone when they want to leave you .

It is an often used excuse to tell you that they are no more into you  and are opting out. They do not see any future with you and by saying those words, they hoped to cushioned the impact of their leaving you in the dumps. Those are just sugar coated words to minimize the hurt and make you feel better .

It is better this way than to be blunt and telling you directly into your face that they do not like you anymore or some words to that effect. Many men cannot bring themselves to tell you the truth as they do not want to hurt you .They started it and they want to end it . You were like a ball to enjoy and to throw away when he has lost interest in you.

They do not really mean what they say as they will soon  be seen in the arms of another girl. Do not be surprised or baffled because they say one thing but do another.

If you hear those words from the men, it means that you are not his kind of girl and he wants to be a friend only and nothing more.This is the way men talk.

Every relationship starts off like a good fairy tale . They fall in love and when the magic dust disappears, they see each others faults . They have reached the watershed in their relationship and have to decide to continue on the same road or to go different ways.

There could be many reasons why the men want to break off the relationship.It could be boredom or that he found something about you which he does not like or he found somebody better or simply , he is the non committal type.

Whatever the case, they have come to a dead end or a mental road block and must part. The end of a short and sweet love, for parting is such sweet sorrow or tears of joys.

He is not destined for you and that's it. Get over it and move on with your life.

Reference and thanks to :-

http://ezinearticles.com/?Why-Men-Say-One-Thing-and-Do-Another&id=1436787