You had no intentions of having an affair or a one night stand but it happened and you regretted it .
You are now in a dilemma whether to tell her or just forget about it . You feel guilty for being unfaithful to your partner and your conscience is troubling you .
Should you tell your partner or not ?
If the affair has ended and you do not have anything to do with her anymore, you should not tell her even if she suspects you . She has no concrete proof and it is best that you let those issues to rest.Bury it and let it rest in peace. In time ,it will be forgotten and will not come in between you .
If you confess to her, you may risk losing her or break up your family life.
You cannot expect her to forgive you and expect everything to be normal again. She is only human and she will be emotionally and mentally affected .It is not easy for her to forgive you even if she is a devout Christian.
You will only pass your burden of guilt to her and she may not forgive you or if she forgives you , your relationship will suffer and will never be the same again.
You know you have made a very bad mistake and you should only confess to God about it and asks for His forgiveness and make restitution's to your wife.Treat it like a bad dream or nightmare and move on with life.
Just deny everything if she asked about it. She will not leave unless it comes from your own mouth.You made a bloody mistake and learn to life with it and take it to the grave with you.
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