A cougar is a term to denote an older women who dates a younger and energetic man who could be her son's age.The term originated in Vancouver, British Columbia, as a older women who would go to bars and go home with whoever was left at the end of the night. She is a predatory woman who hunts for those young men to invigorate their sexual vitality and prowess.
Madonna, Demi Moore and Halle Berry are leading the way with those younger 'cubs.'Those women are at their peak, financially stable and mentally independent and what else can perk up their life except a younger, virile and handsome male.They would make the perfect match for those alpha women.
The conventional couple is an older men dating a younger women or someone who could be their daughter's age. This used to be the prerogative of the males but no more.
Women of today have attained the same status as men and the playing field has been leveled. Older women find younger men are more appealing to them than men of their same age while men of the same age are looking for younger women.
With such a scenario, women who seek men of their same age will find them a rarity or extinct like those dinosaurs. Either they will grow old and lonely or live to the new challenge that is thrown their way.
The new world order has set new precedences with the cougars going after the cubs . It is much easier to handle a cub and teach him all those tricks . The young cub is no match for those experience cougars.
Women of today do not have to evaluate whether a man is a good provider or not or need to take care of them. They hold the new found power in their hands. Those who discover this secret will get to fulfill their life's.
Middle age women are hotter than middle age men. If they take care of their appearances, they can be sexy , attractive and in control of their life and situation. If they are married to an older men , the men may control their destinies.
What about the age differences?
Some couples can communicate and get along with each other very well.It is their love for each other which makes the world go round. They have youth , experience,financial stability and the maturity to cope with all the problems in life.
A woman is never old,, she only ages like very fine wine.
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http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/2449931/Women-who-prefer-toyboys.html
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Men may have trophy wives when those old men marry younger women who could be half their age or who could be their daughter's age.
In today's world , some women are treating marriages like a business preposition.
Two young, equally rich and successful person entering into a marriage because they think they are made for each other or they think society expects them to marry each other because of their status or lifestyles.
We have seen many marriages of those rich and famous person and sadly many of those unions do not last.Being rich and egoistical can made them hard taskmasters and their unreasonable demands can tear their marriage apart.
It is not a marriage based on true love but on convenience and benefits. How many girls would find happiness to be in that kind of materialistic marriage ?
Is marriage all about materialistic needs without the emotional and close intimacies ?
Those who believed that such a marriage will work is only living in a dream world .For in the end, it is just a hollow and meaningless marriage, devoid of any loving feelings or sharing.
We maybe living in a materialistic world today but all those materialistic things cannot give you true happiness. They can satisfy you temporarily and in the long run , it is the love from another which is more meaningful in life than all those materialistic things.
Happiness in marriage is not about the abundance or the lack of financial means but it is about the concern and love for each other. When you find someone who cares for you and gives his life for you , that is the supreme love .
Women with trophy husbands are nothing more than a business entity,much like those hookers who ply their trades. One freelance and the other is being booked for all her life or until he gets tired of her.
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Most couples marry when they are both healthy and living but in some bizarre cases, there are marriages where the other person is deceased.
The surviving person insisted in marrying to the deceased person and going through those customary rituals to solemnize their wedding . For them, love is eternal and nothing can separate their love even when they are in different worlds.
Love knows no bounds..A women of 50 in China finally married her dead husband of 32 , who died of cancer in January and his body was embalmed.
The wedding took place in a funeral parlour. After the 'I Do' wedding ceremony, she then proceeded to the funeral ceremony.
She was turned away by most of those wedding planners as the Chinese believed that 'red'(Weddings = Double Happiness) and 'white' (Death) cannot be mixed
Both their parents were absent from the ceremony because they were against their relationship. It was about the age factor.
She claimed that they were just 5 years difference between them and not as 18 . In that kind of conservative society ,where the men should be older and not the other way round.
Even after the death, those narrow minded parents could not forgive this couple and blessed them .This is effectually , cutting them off .
It is sad when parents don't bless their children's marriage. After all, who is more important? The children have a longer road to travel in life . Why cant they just accept that our society has changed. The children have their new world.
The parents are old and may not live long. Is it so hard to think of our children's happiness?
I simply cannot understand why parents don't bless their relationships.
They were both well educated , matured and loved each other. As parents ,we should grant their wishes to be together .We should think of our children's happiness which is more important than our happiness.
Some parents still think of their children as children forever. Once ,after they have attained 21 years old, they are considered as adults and can think for themselves. Let them decide and give them our blessings.
She was no ordinary girl. She got her masters from a university in the US and met her husband who is a senior engineer.
She was too modern for her society where she came from. Her parents could not accept her decisions .
Each of us have to decide what is best for ourselves and if our parents does not agree, there is nothing one can do about it.
Parents should not be too stubborn or hold on to traditional views. The old world must pass and the new world to begin.
Live and let live…
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