If you have instant chemistry and can click with each other, you will not have any problems impressing each other. For the most part in the early stages , a lot of us may not discover what turns her on and it may take some exploratory ventures before those sparks can strike like lightnings and shoots through the two opposite terminals.
First impression counts and it is very important if you want to secure another date from her. Being on time is the first of a series of test where she will see how you will perform. Don't come empty handed but with a beautiful bouquet of flowers which will warmth her heart and make her feel serene and happy. Flowers have a special meaning to those ladies.
Women are always giving you tests to gauge your character and probe into your inner soul to get the clues whether you are the one for her or not. She will have to decide if she wants you as only a friend or a potential mate. This will be decided very early on the first date and that is why the men will need to impress her that he is a right potential mate.
Since she takes so much trouble to preen herself for this date, she expects you to do the same and be well groomed, on your best behaviour like a gentleman and treat her properly like a lady. You need not only have to look neat, and clean but you may have to smell sweet and manly too.
Take her to some place that is classy and dine her at the best restaurant as the ambient there will make her feel more romantic and create the right favourable mood for a long esctatic and pleasant night
This is your first date and you should not scrimp and appear cheap. To her opinion , it is not about money but by how much you value her as a person.
To impress those ladies, you will have to be a real and keen listener, keep your outer and inner ears open and really listen to what she says and do not open your mouth too much.
When you talk to her , make sure you are looking into her eyes and not on her chest . The eye is the window into her heart. It shows that you are paying rapt attention to what she is saying to you and those eyes are marvellous to look at when you like her.
Be mysterious and do not divulge too much information about yourself as she will be mystified and would like to know more of you.
Be confident or act confident and do not argue with her but just state your opposing views and let it go.Do not argue with any woman, for you will never win . She will take it personally and it will be the end of this beautiful relationship. She is entitled to her thoughts. Do not agree on everything with her too ,as this will not be a challenge to her.
After the first date , call her up within three days to talk to her and ask her for another date .If she agrees , you are on and the game starts...
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